Poll: First Kiss.

[IxionIndustries]

Haven't had one. Probably never will..
Understandable I guess..

 

[Aesir23]

...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...

Does that go the same for sex?
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*

Don't worry, you're not the only one it's beginning to get to. I'm starting to wonder if people think I'm a lesbian or something.

You're a girl? Not to sound sexist, but you shouldn't be having trouble finding a guy who is willing to have sex with you. I've helped countless guys some, but a girl with the same trouble?...that seems almost unheard of.

I'm actually not looking for straight out sex. Getting a guy to even look at me twice is the problem since I usually just end up being "one of the guys".

If I were to give you advice (that is to say, if you were even looking for it, and if not, then we can pretend I didn't say anything), I'd say get out, meet some new guys, and be aggressive with your flirtation. Make it really hard to misconstrue your intentions. When it comes to the second glance from guys, we tend to only give it to borderline supermodels. Smart girls realize that sexy and hot are two different concepts altogether. You are bound to find MANY guys who are willing to give you the shot you're looking for.

Again, if you're not looking for advice though, just disregard.

Nah, actually that does help a lot. I'll have to give the flirting some work considering how shy I am. But, thank you very much.

 

[The Ambrosian]

First peck, at the lights where we'd say goodbye. First real kiss? Glow in the dark miniput on my birthday. I was 16.

I was really into the girl I was with, so that's what made it special.

Glow in the dark miniput? Thats pretty awesome.
Same with the special thing here for me. Last february.

 

[Captain Pancake]

some fat bird at my 13th birthday party. It didn't last long...

 

[sorry user name taken.]

after school



...weird how i thought it was cool then but now its fucking nasty he used way too much tongue i remember bragging about it after XD ..ah school days

 

[Aedrial]

Well, Ive had one.. but I was really little. still have plenty of time ahead of me though, I'm still young thankfully.

 

[SomeLameStuff]

Doesn't my name say enough? Don't think I'll even get it, but thats okay, I'm used to disappointment...

 

[dwightsteel]

...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...

Does that go the same for sex?
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*

Ehhh, not so much. If it's just about sex, unless you are on par with an A&F model, then that tends to be something you have to actively pursue.

I have been told that if I were to build up my upper body and abs, and that once I get the braces off, that I could model. But yeah, I guess I have to actually try to get laid. Maybe I'll have my cousin hook me up with one of her hot friends when I go up to Mass. this summer.

female hook ups are a great way to go. Girls are very persuasive with one another. They are ideal wingmen.

 

[dwightsteel]

I guess ur right. U hav to hav that right moment where u just go "What the fuck could possibly happen?" and just go for it. I actually did hav that moment once and she said yes but i guess she didnt want to go on with it and we remained friends but we never did anything.

That's happened to me at least half a dozen times. If anything though, that should put some steam in those engines to get it right.

 

[dwightsteel]

...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...

Does that go the same for sex?
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*

Don't worry, you're not the only one it's beginning to get to. I'm starting to wonder if people think I'm a lesbian or something.

You're a girl? Not to sound sexist, but you shouldn't be having trouble finding a guy who is willing to have sex with you. I've helped countless guys some, but a girl with the same trouble?...that seems almost unheard of.

I'm actually not looking for straight out sex. Getting a guy to even look at me twice is the problem since I usually just end up being "one of the guys".

If I were to give you advice (that is to say, if you were even looking for it, and if not, then we can pretend I didn't say anything), I'd say get out, meet some new guys, and be aggressive with your flirtation. Make it really hard to misconstrue your intentions. When it comes to the second glance from guys, we tend to only give it to borderline supermodels. Smart girls realize that sexy and hot are two different concepts altogether. You are bound to find MANY guys who are willing to give you the shot you're looking for.

Again, if you're not looking for advice though, just disregard.

Nah, actually that does help a lot. I'll have to give the flirting some work considering how shy I am. But, thank you very much.

glad I can help. Not to brag, but hooking people up is...well a forte of mine.

 

[mrhockey220]

I guess ur right. U hav to hav that right moment where u just go "What the fuck could possibly happen?" and just go for it. I actually did hav that moment once and she said yes but i guess she didnt want to go on with it and we remained friends but we never did anything.

That's happened to me at least half a dozen times. If anything though, that should put some steam in those engines to get it right.

Well im sure once i get to know people at my school better, things will start going my way.

 

[Soundman]

I remember the first time I kissed someone. The first time I kissed a girl was in first grade. I don't remember why I kissed that girl, but I did. I think we used to kiss before class all the time. We probably didn't know what it meant at the time...

The first time I truly kissed someone and meant it was probably 7th grade. I was with this girl for a long time and we finally kissed and by god it was awesome. I think she dumped me a month later for not moving fast enough with her...

The first time I made out was the 3rd to the last day I was living there. I was going to be moving to Maryland, and we both spilled our hearts about each other. That was like, 4 years ago. Dry spell ever since. I still keep in touch with the girl who I made out though. She's really nice.

Yes, I am pimp. Thanks for asking.

 

[la-le-lu-li-lo]

*snip*

a friend of mine once dated a girl for two years, was utterly in love with her... and then one day she 'went' lesbian.

so it could be worse. /:

 

[Flying-Emu]

*snip*

a friend of mine once dated a girl for two years, was utterly in love with her... and then one day she 'went' lesbian.

so it could be worse. /:

I know it could, but this girl was one of my best friends, and I never got up the balls to call her again after that.

So... it's kind of like a show of weakness, in more ways than one. That's painful.

Sorry to hear about your friend... did he get over it?

 

[Mackinator]

11. I will remeber it for the mistake I had made...

 

[The Maddest March Hare]

I remember who it was with....does that count?

 

[la-le-lu-li-lo]

This is weird... am I the only one who doesn't remember his first kiss at all?
I mean, I remember a series of kisses in the past. I can chronologically order my girlfriends, so I know who my first kiss was with through basic deductive logic. But I can't clearly remember the time, location, or circumstance of my first kiss.

nah i'm the same way. /:

 

[dwightsteel]

*snip*

a friend of mine once dated a girl for two years, was utterly in love with her... and then one day she 'went' lesbian.

so it could be worse. /:

This has happened to me, not once, but twice. To be honest, it was kind of relieving. They weren't ditching me for another dude, and it wasn't something I did....or at least I don't think it was.

 

[konkwastaken]

eh it was nothing special but i will remember it due to the sheer overwhelming awkwardness.

 

[la-le-lu-li-lo]

*snip*

a friend of mine once dated a girl for two years, was utterly in love with her... and then one day she 'went' lesbian.

so it could be worse. /:

I know it could, but this girl was one of my best friends, and I never got up the balls to call her again after that.

So... it's kind of like a show of weakness, in more ways than one. That's painful.

Sorry to hear about your friend... did he get over it?

he did when he started dating my best friend. and then she dumped him after three years, then started dating someone else after a week...

granted he was a total dick to her. he's like an alcoholic now though... last i heard he was doing a bit better.

lesson is you live you learn.