Time to put on a blindfold then.dwightsteel said:You're 18. You're young. And from my experience, love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it.
But that's just from my point of view.
Time to put on a blindfold then.dwightsteel said:You're 18. You're young. And from my experience, love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it.
But that's just from my point of view.
Does that go the same for sex?dwightsteel said:...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
If that's the case, then you're on the fast track. I doubt you'd even have to do anything other than be at the right place at the right time.mrhockey220 said:Ya im currently entering sophmore year. I entered high school not knowing anybody so that could be part of it but otherwise im a nice guy, i play hockey, take care of myself, and workout. Its all there but im just too damn scared to ask someone out i guess.dwightsteel said:Don't worry. I was in high school when I had my first, (though I don't recall whether it was my freshman or sophomore year). But I've kissed a lot of girls since then. After the first time, one way or the other, the frequency tends to increase a lot.mrhockey220 said:Havent had mine yet and im 14
Working on it though!
Don't worry, you're not the only one it's beginning to get to. I'm starting to wonder if people think I'm a lesbian or something.Mookie_Magnus said:Does that go the same for sex?dwightsteel said:...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
Ehhh, not so much. If it's just about sex, unless you are on par with an A&F model, then that tends to be something you have to actively pursue.Mookie_Magnus said:Does that go the same for sex?dwightsteel said:...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
Well I sure hope so. High School holds many surprises right? Maybe one day ill overcome my fear of asking someone out.dwightsteel said:If that's the case, then you're on the fast track. I doubt you'd even have to do anything other than be at the right place at the right time.mrhockey220 said:Ya im currently entering sophmore year. I entered high school not knowing anybody so that could be part of it but otherwise im a nice guy, i play hockey, take care of myself, and workout. Its all there but im just too damn scared to ask someone out i guess.dwightsteel said:Don't worry. I was in high school when I had my first, (though I don't recall whether it was my freshman or sophomore year). But I've kissed a lot of girls since then. After the first time, one way or the other, the frequency tends to increase a lot.mrhockey220 said:Havent had mine yet and im 14
Working on it though!
Gis a kiss you two! XDJRCB said:Same, sadly.sky14kemea said:not had mine yet X3
"surely not!" i hear you all cry, but its truei havent even held hands with anyone yet
ah well, c'est la vie
Working on it, though.![]()
You're a girl? Not to sound sexist, but you shouldn't be having trouble finding a guy who is willing to have sex with you. I've helped countless guys some, but a girl with the same trouble?...that seems almost unheard of.shewolf51 said:Don't worry, you're not the only one it's beginning to get to. I'm starting to wonder if people think I'm a lesbian or something.Mookie_Magnus said:Does that go the same for sex?dwightsteel said:...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
I have been told that if I were to build up my upper body and abs, and that once I get the braces off, that I could model. But yeah, I guess I have to actually try to get laid. Maybe I'll have my cousin hook me up with one of her hot friends when I go up to Mass. this summer.dwightsteel said:Ehhh, not so much. If it's just about sex, unless you are on par with an A&F model, then that tends to be something you have to actively pursue.Mookie_Magnus said:Does that go the same for sex?dwightsteel said:...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
I'm actually not looking for straight out sex. Getting a guy to even look at me twice is the problem since I usually just end up being "one of the guys".dwightsteel said:You're a girl? Not to sound sexist, but you shouldn't be having trouble finding a guy who is willing to have sex with you. I've helped countless guys some, but a girl with the same trouble?...that seems almost unheard of.shewolf51 said:Don't worry, you're not the only one it's beginning to get to. I'm starting to wonder if people think I'm a lesbian or something.Mookie_Magnus said:Does that go the same for sex?dwightsteel said:...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
Dude, fear of rejection is something that I'd say 98% of all guys have to go through. Overcoming that fear is about the realization that the worst outcome you could possibly expect is for her to say "no". If that happens, you put it behind you and try again.mrhockey220 said:Well I sure hope so. High School holds many surprises right? Maybe one day ill overcome my fear of asking someone out.dwightsteel said:If that's the case, then you're on the fast track. I doubt you'd even have to do anything other than be at the right place at the right time.mrhockey220 said:Ya im currently entering sophmore year. I entered high school not knowing anybody so that could be part of it but otherwise im a nice guy, i play hockey, take care of myself, and workout. Its all there but im just too damn scared to ask someone out i guess.dwightsteel said:Don't worry. I was in high school when I had my first, (though I don't recall whether it was my freshman or sophomore year). But I've kissed a lot of girls since then. After the first time, one way or the other, the frequency tends to increase a lot.mrhockey220 said:Havent had mine yet and im 14
Working on it though!
If I were to give you advice (that is to say, if you were even looking for it, and if not, then we can pretend I didn't say anything), I'd say get out, meet some new guys, and be aggressive with your flirtation. Make it really hard to misconstrue your intentions. When it comes to the second glance from guys, we tend to only give it to borderline supermodels. Smart girls realize that sexy and hot are two different concepts altogether. You are bound to find MANY guys who are willing to give you the shot you're looking for.shewolf51 said:I'm actually not looking for straight out sex. Getting a guy to even look at me twice is the problem since I usually just end up being "one of the guys".dwightsteel said:You're a girl? Not to sound sexist, but you shouldn't be having trouble finding a guy who is willing to have sex with you. I've helped countless guys some, but a girl with the same trouble?...that seems almost unheard of.shewolf51 said:Don't worry, you're not the only one it's beginning to get to. I'm starting to wonder if people think I'm a lesbian or something.Mookie_Magnus said:Does that go the same for sex?dwightsteel said:...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
I guess ur right. U hav to hav that right moment where u just go "What the fuck could possibly happen?" and just go for it. I actually did hav that moment once and she said yes but i guess she didnt want to go on with it and we remained friends but we never did anything.dwightsteel said:Dude, fear of rejection is something that I'd say 98% of all guys have to go through. Overcoming that fear is about the realization that the worst outcome you could possibly expect is for her to say "no". If that happens, you put it behind you and try again.mrhockey220 said:Well I sure hope so. High School holds many surprises right? Maybe one day ill overcome my fear of asking someone out.dwightsteel said:If that's the case, then you're on the fast track. I doubt you'd even have to do anything other than be at the right place at the right time.mrhockey220 said:Ya im currently entering sophmore year. I entered high school not knowing anybody so that could be part of it but otherwise im a nice guy, i play hockey, take care of myself, and workout. Its all there but im just too damn scared to ask someone out i guess.dwightsteel said:Don't worry. I was in high school when I had my first, (though I don't recall whether it was my freshman or sophomore year). But I've kissed a lot of girls since then. After the first time, one way or the other, the frequency tends to increase a lot.mrhockey220 said:Havent had mine yet and im 14
Working on it though!
I used to have this fear that I would get laughed at by the girl I was asking, but that hasn't happened to me yet, and I'm DEFINITELY not what one would call "traditionall handsome".