Poll: First Kiss.

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Cowabungaa

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dwightsteel said:
You're 18. You're young. And from my experience, love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it.

But that's just from my point of view.
Time to put on a blindfold then.
 

Mookie_Magnus

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dwightsteel said:
...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
Does that go the same for sex?
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
 

dwightsteel

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mrhockey220 said:
dwightsteel said:
mrhockey220 said:
Havent had mine yet and im 14 :(
Working on it though!
Don't worry. I was in high school when I had my first, (though I don't recall whether it was my freshman or sophomore year). But I've kissed a lot of girls since then. After the first time, one way or the other, the frequency tends to increase a lot.
Ya im currently entering sophmore year. I entered high school not knowing anybody so that could be part of it but otherwise im a nice guy, i play hockey, take care of myself, and workout. Its all there but im just too damn scared to ask someone out i guess.
If that's the case, then you're on the fast track. I doubt you'd even have to do anything other than be at the right place at the right time.
 

Aesir23

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Mookie_Magnus said:
dwightsteel said:
...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
Does that go the same for sex?
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
Don't worry, you're not the only one it's beginning to get to. I'm starting to wonder if people think I'm a lesbian or something.
 

dwightsteel

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Mookie_Magnus said:
dwightsteel said:
...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
Does that go the same for sex?
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
Ehhh, not so much. If it's just about sex, unless you are on par with an A&F model, then that tends to be something you have to actively pursue.
 

assasin1999

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lol 13 and outside my girls flat thrn called my mate to come up then left discussing it cause he thought it would be longer before it happened (i'm with her relationship wise still, despide the countless breakups and other guys she dated during them)
 

Robert Yang

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First kiss with a girl? Meh. Boring.

First kiss with a guy? Messy and awesome.
 

mrhockey220

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dwightsteel said:
mrhockey220 said:
dwightsteel said:
mrhockey220 said:
Havent had mine yet and im 14 :(
Working on it though!
Don't worry. I was in high school when I had my first, (though I don't recall whether it was my freshman or sophomore year). But I've kissed a lot of girls since then. After the first time, one way or the other, the frequency tends to increase a lot.
Ya im currently entering sophmore year. I entered high school not knowing anybody so that could be part of it but otherwise im a nice guy, i play hockey, take care of myself, and workout. Its all there but im just too damn scared to ask someone out i guess.
If that's the case, then you're on the fast track. I doubt you'd even have to do anything other than be at the right place at the right time.
Well I sure hope so. High School holds many surprises right? Maybe one day ill overcome my fear of asking someone out.
 

EeveeElectro

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JRCB said:
sky14kemea said:
not had mine yet X3

"surely not!" i hear you all cry, but its true :p i havent even held hands with anyone yet

ah well, c'est la vie
Same, sadly.

Working on it, though. :D
Gis a kiss you two! XD

Mine was on holiday in Spain when I was 13 with my mums friends son who I'd fancied ever since I'd taken an interest in lads.
It was amazing XD I felt so happy.
But he was drunk (you have to be to kiss me :p) and told my friend he only kisses ugly birds when he's pissed.
Ah well, his loss ;]
 

dwightsteel

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shewolf51 said:
Mookie_Magnus said:
dwightsteel said:
...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
Does that go the same for sex?
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
Don't worry, you're not the only one it's beginning to get to. I'm starting to wonder if people think I'm a lesbian or something.
You're a girl? Not to sound sexist, but you shouldn't be having trouble finding a guy who is willing to have sex with you. I've helped countless guys some, but a girl with the same trouble?...that seems almost unheard of.
 

Walker100

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Not had one yet, and I'm not expecting it for a while, but I'm okay with it. It'll happen sometime...eventually...maybe...I hope :|
 

Sviests

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Gah, I never had a kiss, hug or anything related to love (even hold hands) with a girl (even virtually). Im just plain unlucky. Uh oh, hope I'll get one sometime.
 

Mookie_Magnus

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dwightsteel said:
Mookie_Magnus said:
dwightsteel said:
...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
Does that go the same for sex?
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
Ehhh, not so much. If it's just about sex, unless you are on par with an A&F model, then that tends to be something you have to actively pursue.
I have been told that if I were to build up my upper body and abs, and that once I get the braces off, that I could model. But yeah, I guess I have to actually try to get laid. Maybe I'll have my cousin hook me up with one of her hot friends when I go up to Mass. this summer.
 

Aesir23

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dwightsteel said:
shewolf51 said:
Mookie_Magnus said:
dwightsteel said:
...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
Does that go the same for sex?
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
Don't worry, you're not the only one it's beginning to get to. I'm starting to wonder if people think I'm a lesbian or something.
You're a girl? Not to sound sexist, but you shouldn't be having trouble finding a guy who is willing to have sex with you. I've helped countless guys some, but a girl with the same trouble?...that seems almost unheard of.
I'm actually not looking for straight out sex. Getting a guy to even look at me twice is the problem since I usually just end up being "one of the guys".
 

dwightsteel

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mrhockey220 said:
dwightsteel said:
mrhockey220 said:
dwightsteel said:
mrhockey220 said:
Havent had mine yet and im 14 :(
Working on it though!
Don't worry. I was in high school when I had my first, (though I don't recall whether it was my freshman or sophomore year). But I've kissed a lot of girls since then. After the first time, one way or the other, the frequency tends to increase a lot.
Ya im currently entering sophmore year. I entered high school not knowing anybody so that could be part of it but otherwise im a nice guy, i play hockey, take care of myself, and workout. Its all there but im just too damn scared to ask someone out i guess.
If that's the case, then you're on the fast track. I doubt you'd even have to do anything other than be at the right place at the right time.
Well I sure hope so. High School holds many surprises right? Maybe one day ill overcome my fear of asking someone out.
Dude, fear of rejection is something that I'd say 98% of all guys have to go through. Overcoming that fear is about the realization that the worst outcome you could possibly expect is for her to say "no". If that happens, you put it behind you and try again.

I used to have this fear that I would get laughed at by the girl I was asking, but that hasn't happened to me yet, and I'm DEFINITELY not what one would call "traditionally handsome".
 

lupe

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Mine was quite a long time ago, but, to be quite honest, I remember it to this day. I guess in a way, it's the one to judge all kisses by :) Too bad I was a jerk back in those days, and what could have been a long relationship turned into nothing more than a few fun summer weeks.... But hey... time goes by
 

dwightsteel

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shewolf51 said:
dwightsteel said:
shewolf51 said:
Mookie_Magnus said:
dwightsteel said:
...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
Does that go the same for sex?
*the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
Don't worry, you're not the only one it's beginning to get to. I'm starting to wonder if people think I'm a lesbian or something.
You're a girl? Not to sound sexist, but you shouldn't be having trouble finding a guy who is willing to have sex with you. I've helped countless guys some, but a girl with the same trouble?...that seems almost unheard of.
I'm actually not looking for straight out sex. Getting a guy to even look at me twice is the problem since I usually just end up being "one of the guys".
If I were to give you advice (that is to say, if you were even looking for it, and if not, then we can pretend I didn't say anything), I'd say get out, meet some new guys, and be aggressive with your flirtation. Make it really hard to misconstrue your intentions. When it comes to the second glance from guys, we tend to only give it to borderline supermodels. Smart girls realize that sexy and hot are two different concepts altogether. You are bound to find MANY guys who are willing to give you the shot you're looking for.

Again, if you're not looking for advice though, just disregard.
 

mrhockey220

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dwightsteel said:
mrhockey220 said:
dwightsteel said:
mrhockey220 said:
dwightsteel said:
mrhockey220 said:
Havent had mine yet and im 14 :(
Working on it though!
Don't worry. I was in high school when I had my first, (though I don't recall whether it was my freshman or sophomore year). But I've kissed a lot of girls since then. After the first time, one way or the other, the frequency tends to increase a lot.
Ya im currently entering sophmore year. I entered high school not knowing anybody so that could be part of it but otherwise im a nice guy, i play hockey, take care of myself, and workout. Its all there but im just too damn scared to ask someone out i guess.
If that's the case, then you're on the fast track. I doubt you'd even have to do anything other than be at the right place at the right time.
Well I sure hope so. High School holds many surprises right? Maybe one day ill overcome my fear of asking someone out.
Dude, fear of rejection is something that I'd say 98% of all guys have to go through. Overcoming that fear is about the realization that the worst outcome you could possibly expect is for her to say "no". If that happens, you put it behind you and try again.

I used to have this fear that I would get laughed at by the girl I was asking, but that hasn't happened to me yet, and I'm DEFINITELY not what one would call "traditionall handsome".
I guess ur right. U hav to hav that right moment where u just go "What the fuck could possibly happen?" and just go for it. I actually did hav that moment once and she said yes but i guess she didnt want to go on with it and we remained friends but we never did anything.