Not a man, still got an opinion.
If you earn less than, say, $120,000.00 annually and work less than, say, 60 hours per week, I would consider manicure and pedicure to be a luxury item that a man gets for himself either because he likes to spend money he doesn't have, he's gay or he's a self-declared style icon.
Don't get me wrong. I do appreciate well groomed hands and feet, but I just think that the average female will handle it herself if she's got any amount of self respect, and she's also responsible for the hands and feet of her significant other. If he refuses, so be it. Not all males can or have to be properly domesticated. Rawr.
I can't accept hobbit feet, though. The hair is a male characteristic brought upon by man juice. That's OK. Fugly toenails is totally not acceptable. Get it fixed. Maintain them properly. I'd rather have a horde of hairy males with stinky feet than a bunch of manbeasts with yellow, cracked, splintery and fungus-infected rear paws. Ew, gross. Go get that pedi. See a doctor first.