Poll: Games aren't gay enough.

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Jason Fayers

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I think in most games you just assume the main character is hetrosexual because sexuality doesn't come up, and hetrosexual is the default possition, or it's so unimportant you don't care. Ever wonder if Gorden Freeman is gay?
 

ExileNZ

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Now, I've put it down as "Need more gay", but at the same time, bear in mind that a lot of protagonists are blank slates. They can be gay if you want them to be.

Blank slates aside, I was surprised at the assertion - "What do you mean?" I thought, "We've got WhatsHisFace from..." and then I drew a blank.

Who IS a decent gay character?

Then again, gay characters are unfortunately controversial in the US, so anyone hoping to market to the US either has to have clout to back it up or be so small as to go unnoticed.

Basically it makes selling the game harder, which sucks for everybody (except maybe One Million Moms, but really, fuck them).
 

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Jason Fayers said:
I think in most games you just assume the main character is hetrosexual because sexuality doesn't come up, and hetrosexual is the default possition, or it's so unimportant you don't care. Ever wonder if Gorden Freeman is gay?
Might explain why he never responds to Alex's advances...
 

Fasckira

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I couldn't care if my character was gay much in the same way that I wouldn't care if he had brown or blonde hair, black skin or white skin etc.

If a game were to go out of its way to say "Look, our main character is gay!" it'd be ball-bouncingly cringe-worthy. Unless the point of the game was that you were playing a gay character fighting against an army of homophobes or something, at which point the fact becomes relevant.
 

RJ 17

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RJ 17 said:
It's called target audience. You can either pander to a select few (i.e. the gay community when compared to the rest of the world) or you can create a product that has appeal to a broader swath of the audience
who says that having a certain element in a game is somehow pandering or makes it unappealing for a broader audience?

Fallout New Vegas had two gay companions and a protagonist hwo could be gay/bi attracted to ghouls or techno-sexual (testing out Fisto the sex bot more than once if you know what I mean)

was that game pandering or somwho unappealing to most people? what about mass effect?

just because something is there does not make it pandering, and who says that straight people cant play as or in a game with gay people? who says white people can't play a game with black people in it?

if that really were the case then as a female I'd hardly play any games ever...

I get what your saying from a marketing perspecitve..but generally it doesn't have to be that way
And I understand what you're saying as well and you're right. But what I was talking about was the OP's apparent view that there aren't any games that have that as a focus. It's entirely possible I misread the intention of the OP, but I was trying to address why there's not many (if any) games that have the main (or supporting) character's sexuality as a primary focus.

We really shouldn't care what the sexuality of game characters are, as way more often than not their sexuality has nothing to do with the game or the story. There certainly is nothing wrong with putting in a couple homosexual characters, but their homosexuality is not a vital plot-point, but more of a side-note about their character. It doesn't matter if you made Shepard homosexual in ME 3, the story still plays out the same as if he/she is straight.

I really feel like I'm tripping over my own words here, like I'm not expressing what I'm really trying to say. So to put it simply: I just feel like a character's sexuality really doesn't matter one way or the other, and rightfully it shouldn't. As such game creators shouldn't have to draw focus and attention to the fact that a character is gay, keep it as a side note.

Really, my question for the OP is "Define what makes for a "well written gay character"." Do you want them to be a stereotype just so that everyone KNOWS they're gay? Have the character be a limp-wristed interior decorator? Or would you rather them be like they are in real life: normal people who don't force their sexuality on others...they're the same as everyone else, they just happen to be gay as well.
 

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What does it matter? Oh wait, it doesn't.

Not that I'm against it, but it seems so pointless. "Mohahahahaha! I've taken over the world! (of course) Prepare to die! Oh, and I'm gay, by the way."
Exactly, are all the gay characters in games supposed to wear out and proud t-shirts or have rainbow ribbons pinned on their armor? I'm all about it, it's fine, it adds realism and can potentially make for great story bits, but seriously, stop making it such a big deal.

Also, has the OP actually played ANY story driven games in, say, the last 3-4 years or so? There are (potentially shoehorned in) gay characters everywhere. Even in games like Skyrim, you can choose to be if you like by deciding who to marry with no restrictions by gender (or species). Go play a bioware or bethesda game, seriously.
 

FitScotGaymer

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The people who are saying the characters from Bioware games are gay are wrong. They are bisexual, there IS a difference.

Bisexual is not gay.
Bisexual is not gay.
Bisexual is not gay.

I find it kinda bad that I have to point that out.

Don't get me wrong almost all of them are really well written.

Ander's romance made me cry, and Kaidan I totally fell in love with in ME3. He was so awesome.

The only homosexual characters in any Bioware game ever was Mass Effect 3. Cortez and Traynor. Traynor is awesome, amazing, multifaceted, and just all round great.

Cortez is just a horribly offensive stereotype of what a gay man is. IMO.

Other than Traynor I can not think of any exclusively gay characters that were well written in any game any where.
And considering the estimate for how many gay people there r in the world is around 1 in 10 people; it is kinda sad that we don't have more.
 

Something Amyss

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Games are pretty gay, it's just all hidden in thinly veiled homoerotic subtext. What gaming needs is not to be gayer, but to come out of the closet and admit that it's okay to be what it is.
 

krazykidd

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mgirl said:
krazykidd said:
Next thing you know transgenders/transexuals/phedophiles/beastiality is going to want to be represented in gaming . Stop forcing your views on people ! Then again enchanted arms had an idiot , and gay guy and a transgender as the main cast ...

As for me personally . I'm not homophobic, but i don't want homosexuality shoved in my face , and forced upon me in my games . It would be enough to stop me from buying a game i want .
Wow. It's disgraceful to describe putting gay or transgender issues into a game on the same level of frigging pedophilia.

And you're not homophobic but gay characters would mean you wouldn't buy a game? Yeah, sounds real consistant.

OT: Putting in token characters is never a good idea, but if it fits with the story and everything, it would be great to have more gay characters in games. It'd be nice for younger gay people to have a role model, it certainly would have helped me.
Gah . I said i don't wan it shoved in my face . Having it shoved in my face would turn me off .

And in all honesty , Without relying on emotion . Whats the difference between heterosexuality / homosexuality and pedophilia? Other than the latter is illigal . Homosexuality was once illigal, and homosexuals were once hunted as pedophiles now are . People are ( apparently ) born heterosexuals , born homosexual , and born pedophiles . Yet we expect pedophile to ( sucessfully) renounce their sexual fetish ( everything is a fetish) , something we would never ( or no longer ) ask of homosexuals . Society has evolved from accepting only heterosexuals to accepting every sexual orientation except for pedophilia . Why couldn't it contiue to evolve in such a way that one day we accept pedophilia ? On a basic level , pedophilia is no different from any other orientation , it is society and not nature that rejects it.

Disclamer: I do not in any way , form or manner support pedophilia , i am just looking at it objectively .
 

Phasmal

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Sure, more gay. :)
I'm a big supporter of diversity in games and I'm not a homophobe, so why would I be against more gay characters?
I think you'd have to be really insecure in yourself if you get upset by being flirted with by an ingame dude

krazykidd said:
And in all honesty , Without relying on emotion . Whats the difference between heterosexuality / homosexuality and pedophilia? Other than the latter is illigal . Homosexuality was once illigal, and homosexuals were once hunted as pedophiles now are . People are ( apparently ) born heterosexuals , born homosexual , and born pedophiles . Yet we expect pedophile to ( sucessfully) renounce their sexual fetish ( everything is a fetish) , something we would never ( or no longer ) ask of homosexuals . Society has evolved from accepting only heterosexuals to accepting every sexual orientation except for pedophilia . Why couldn't it contiue to evolve in such a way that one day we accept pedophilia ? On a basic level , pedophilia is no different from any other orientation , it is society and not nature that rejects it.

Disclamer: I do not in any way , form or manner support pedophilia , i am just looking at it objectively .
Cause pedophilia is known to cause harm to children?
... Obviously?
And cause kids can't consent?
 

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krazykidd said:
And in all honesty , Without relying on emotion . Whats the difference between heterosexuality / homosexuality and pedophilia?
The difference is is that heterosexuality and homosexuality is mostly expressed through a loving relationship between 2 consenting adults, and pedophilia is often expressed through the abuse and rape of innocent children and I can't believe I've had to say that more than once now.
 

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False Nobility said:
0 well-written lesbians.
I dunno, I thought Fang and Vanille (FF 13) were fairly well written lesbians. No, they never come out and say that, but actions and body language tells it better anyway.

Also Lelianna from Dragon Age. Yes, she's technically bi, but her only previous sexual relationship of note is with a woman, so she sort of counts.

Otherwise... um... yeah, I'm having a hard time thinking of any either.

Then again, I'm a big fan of gameplay freedom. I like that I can play gay, straight or bi in Mass Effect, Dragon Age, Skyrim, and even Persona 3 Portable (although only with Elizabeth).

I am sad that there aren't more games that let the player choose their character's sexuality so freely.

Then again, as noted, Mass Effect 3 suffered from "late in the story gay characters". I am still upset that Mass Effect didn't let Tali or Garrus have gay relationships. I mean, Cortez and Samantha were nice, but they weren't your stalwart companions through three games, who you'd fought multiple life or death battles along side. Liara was, which is why her romance always feels more meaningful than any of the other gay options.

So yeah, there are a few good characters besides Kanji out there. But I'd like to see a lot more. And I'd have liked an option to have the MC romance Kanji in addition to his various female conquests.

Edit: Wow. My Report Button just got a lot of exercise in this thread. Yikes. Also a new resident on my Ignore list. Seriously, what is wrong with some people?
 

sethisjimmy

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I think the problem is that gays are a fairly small minority, so when writing a "closed" main character (a character in which the player doesn't make any choices about them or who they are or what they do), the default is mostly straight, because most of the developers are likely straight, and most of the audience is straight, and I guess they feel the player is more likely to relate to the character if it is his/her same sexuality. I personally wouldn't have a problem playing a gay character but I suppose if it comes down to choice I'd prefer a straight character, so I see the developer's logic.

Another thing that must be considered is that sexuality is not necessary for a lot of characters. Unless romance is involved or it's a specific plot point, I don't think there should be reason to bring up whether the character is straight or gay.

I don't know if it this is a bad thing. I know it's good that game companies show support for gays, but I think if they want to make straight characters for their own reasons it's all up to them. If there was a bigger demand for more gay characters I think it would happen, but like I said, that audience is a minority.
 

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RJ 17 said:
I bet Star Fox could be gay if you really wanted him to be, nothing ever said he was straight.
K-Krystal...oh god...*vomits*

I won't say "herp derp we need to have good heterosexual relationships first" because (in case you haven't noticed) the medium is not a single entity that gets better at writing because one guy wrote something well. MegaGaySexyTimes Games is not waiting to start developing their magnum opus because the games industry hasn't leveled its INT enough. It will happen because somebody does it. And somebody else does it. And somebody else. And somebody else.
 

krazykidd

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mgirl said:
krazykidd said:
And in all honesty , Without relying on emotion . Whats the difference between heterosexuality / homosexuality and pedophilia?
The difference is is that heterosexuality and homosexuality is mostly expressed through a loving relationship between 2 consenting adults, and pedophilia is often expressed through the abuse and rape of innocent children and I can't believe I've had to say that more than once now.
Those are the rules of the society we live in . Rules that are constantly changing . It has absolutely nothig to do with the "nature" of things . People didn't like the idea , thus it's illegal . You were taught to hate pedophilia , therefor you do . Just like generation before you were taught to hate homosexuality . Like i said in my previous post . At a basic level , there is no difference . The difference lies on an emotional , therefor subjective level .
 

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It boils my blood when people compare being gay to pedophilia.
mgirl said:
krazykidd said:
And in all honesty , Without relying on emotion . Whats the difference between heterosexuality / homosexuality and pedophilia?
The difference is is that heterosexuality and homosexuality is mostly expressed through a loving relationship between 2 consenting adults, and pedophilia is often expressed through the abuse and rape of innocent children and I can't believe I've had to say that more than once now.
I'm just gonna give you a big pointy stick and enough snacks to survive while you repeatedly explain why pedophilia is evil, disgusting crime and doesn't have any relationship to do with being gay, straight or bi any more than if your a vegan - before jabbing them in the eyes till they get it.
Because i honestly don't have as much patience as you.
Don't they teach people this stuff?

Phaerim said:
I'm gay. And I honestly like it to be a part of a character not THE character. I possess various qualities beyond my sexuality, as do heterosexuals.
-SNIP-
Sums it up perfectly.
 

OtherSideofSky

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Yes, absolutely.

Aside from the ideological points involved, more gay characters is likely to mean developers putting in more effort to make their male characters sexy, and I'm always in favor of that.
 

mgirl

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krazykidd said:
Those are the rules of the society we live in . Rules that are constantly changing . It has absolutely nothig to do with the "nature" of things . People didn't like the idea , thus it's illegal . You were taught to hate pedophilia , therefor you do . Just like generation before you were taught to hate homosexuality . Like i said in my previous post . At a basic level , there is no difference . The difference lies on an emotional , therefor subjective level .
Do you really think that the rape of a child is completely the same as a consentual sex in every objective way? Really? Never mind the fact they don't consent, don't want to be raped, and it leaves both emotional and physical scars? Never mind the fact that those who suffer from abuse as children often never get over it?

I already explained the difference in my previous post, and if you claim that is only 'emotional' then you need to reread it.


Sneezeburger said:
I'm just gonna give you a big pointy stick and enough snacks to survive while you repeatedly explain why pedophilia is evil, disgusting crime and doesn't have any relationship to do with being gay, straight or bi any more than if your a vegan - before jabbing them in the eyes till they get it
Hah, I'll get right on it.