Poll: Gentlemen, what is the farthest you have gone with a women?

[StBishop]

This is a troll thread, because a gentleman chooses not to answer this question.

 

[Rawne1980]

I'm married with kids.

Not only have I slept with a woman but do so on a regular basis.

 

[mizushinzui]

I'm a 25 year old virgin with a mental illness. What makes it painful? Simple: I don't look like a guy who should have problems. My mannerisms, conversation technique, and everything else is just lacking. Not to mention that...having this illness leads one to "seem off".

I made a thread about it recently. It's painful. I have...no clue where to even begin. People detest virgins in society today. It's akin to being the modern day leper. So, even if I did reasonably well at "appearing confident, convincing someone through the art of persuasion, attracted them,...." I'm still a damn virgin.

I simple believe I'm beyond the threshold of being able to "learn" these things. Even then the very people I'd personally wish to date would view this from a negative perspective.

You gotta be tough, stop feeling sorry for yourself and push through the uncomfortable feelings inside.
You cant set your standards to high because its easy to do so when your a virgin at your age.
I didn't have a GF until I was 24 as well.. and like you I was a very attractive guy.
I lost my virginity alot earlier (19) but it was literally just for the sake of losing it.. pick up first thing I saw and then take it home needless to say I had a nest of interesting things for the next few weeks.
I didnt get a gf for so long because I would always struggle to ask them out even when they obviously liked me.
When I was young the only way I picked up was crazy one night stands that were fueled by drugs and alchohol or just because thats when I had enough guts to actually do something
I also had the same problem where my mannerisms conversation technique etc was lacking. Espescially when younger.

When I was younger I would make heaps of friends with girls that actually wanted alot more but I was to slow to go into a relationship I really liked them but was completely without confidence.
There were many times I did actually try and failed (mainly probably because of my sexual inexperience and didn't know that she was begging me to #@%@$# her). Until Finally they would go their seperate ways because I simply wasn't experienced enough to " Take the bull by the horns" so to speak. I was SCARED OF SEX. All these situations would always take me into a downward spiral of depression. I would get super fit get super good looking go on a date with a girl then fuck it up which would literally take me down to ground zero mentally.
But yeh in the end alot of bad sexual experiences led to me really be phobic about it... long story short you can have some pretty embarassing situations when you try to have sex fueled by drugs.
Ok so where am I going with this? I know how tough it is to have this bearing weight on your shoulders because it effects all the conversations you have with every girl you speak to. At least for me it did anyway. But you have to be tough and let your heart guide you when it wants to be guided no matter how much your brain is saying NONO your going to get hurt again.
For me in the end it was a simple solution...
Get a gamer girlfriend

The first thing I thought of when I saw the first line of the reply post was, "search for the hero inside yourself" xD

Stupid brain.

I can understand the mixed responses this thread has been getting, most of us are either older men/women, who have had the experience. Or are younger nerds who haven't had a chance yet. We appear to have polarized.

 

[The Funslinger]

I think I've transcended "All the way home".

Spoiler: What cutesy label does this get me?

Yes, this is my daughter.

Sports injury! (joking! Congratulations.)

OT: All the way, on various occasions and then I've been benched for a while. To use the tacky baseball analogies.

 

[Harlemura]

If baseball analogies are a requirement here, I don't think I've even been picked for the team.

Unless just talking to someone has a label. In which case, someone needs to stop making up labels and do something more productive. Like... go on a random internet forum... to simply kill time...
Oh...

 

[J-dog42]

What would you call the stage where you didn't so much go all the way as be dragged there confused and helpless as a small child.
How do we turn that into a stupid baseball metaphor.

Sounds like a foul ball if you ask me.

 

[Mischa87]

This can also apply to the ladies, just turn the question around.

An what about lesbian/bi/pansexual women? Why assume all women are into men?

I've been with men, women, transmen, and transwomen, AND I've gotten into more than a few BDSM scenes, I guess that means gone all the way home, then became a team manager?

And for those who are crying about never getting action, I'm a male to female transsexual (a particularly unpassable and ugly one at that) Transsexuals have the 2nd most difficult time entering a serious relationship of all defined "groups" in society (Only beaten by severely disabled people) So don't give up hope!

 

[Ocealot]

All the way home ... then I was kicked out their home the morning after .... story of my life.

 

[Olikunmissile]

We could ask my girlfriend when she wakes up

 

[JochemDude]

Depends under which base does a fivesome fall?

 

[Davey Woo]

To put it bluntly, I'm lost and I don't even know the WAY home...
Yea I've never gotten anywhere or even really had the chance to.

 

[Gareth Higgs]

Home base.

 

[Kevlar Eater]

Nowhere. I've never had the courage to even talk to the scouting agent.

 

[KaizokuouHasu]

From England to Spain. And that's not a euphemism for sex... *weeps* We just went on a trip to Spain to take part in an English teaching program for Spanish teenagers. And I didn't score with them either, not even with the benefit of the sensei charm. Ugh!!
But seriously. Not even first base? How much do I suck at this?
Oh, I know why; because I'm nice. And I'm "such a good friend" and shit. ¬_¬

First.

I just assume that the reason for it is that I'm so stunningly attractive that no girl has ever had the confidence to try to take it any further.

[sub]*Sobs quietly*[/sub]

This. Without the 'first' bit.

 

[retyopy]

Absolutely nowhere, and I have no desire to until I'm ready and/or are in a loving relationship. Its not that I lack the ability to get a date, it's just that I don't want to.

 

[OmniscientOstrich]

'Gentlemen, what is the farthest you have gone with a women?'

Hmph, a Gentleman does not kiss and tell. Good day sir.

 

[General BrEeZy]

hm. well, i COULDVE gone all the way to the bed if i wanted, but that's not my style. but in actuality i've just hugged really long. again. i could've gotten kisses, then long ones, then super-massive and epic makeouts, leading to...business. xD

but i have not kissed anyone yet. and i have no clue how far away anything else is, so i'm done! xD