So, I'm gonna make this short,
Me and my girlfriend have been together for a little over 3 months, and for the last few weeks we have had an issue, arguing a lot. We barely see each other (once a week if we're lucky) and when we are together we get along great. However when we are apart we argue a lot, nothing major, little thing. I think the most serious was because her friend and I didn't get along.Unfortunately these little arguements are daily sometimes we argue multiple times a day.
Since we only get to see each other once in a while (because of her mother) we are arguing about 80% of the time, but the time we are together we almost never have disagreements. I love her, but her crazy mother, who is very mean to me and her, plus her rude friends, and us never seeing each other makes me question if the relationship is worth it. I have options, and can get another girlfriend, I just want to make it work, but I don't know if I even should try. Her past also makes me question us, I would rather not go in to it, but I just over react to it (no drugs or cheating or whoreness or anything like that). I'm a sixteen year old and she's seventeen so we're pretty young. My main question is do you think I should continue the relationship or not, she is very happy with me and us being together, I just am wondering if I should look else where for a "better" love. Not that we don't have a great love, it's just that she is my first actual love, and I don't know if we're missing anything.
Do you think we should stay together or break up? I realize that most of you will say it's up to me and I should just make a decision, but I feel like I want to stay but I don't know if it's worth it in the long run and would really like input from someone outside looking in so to speak. Help please
Me and my girlfriend have been together for a little over 3 months, and for the last few weeks we have had an issue, arguing a lot. We barely see each other (once a week if we're lucky) and when we are together we get along great. However when we are apart we argue a lot, nothing major, little thing. I think the most serious was because her friend and I didn't get along.Unfortunately these little arguements are daily sometimes we argue multiple times a day.
Since we only get to see each other once in a while (because of her mother) we are arguing about 80% of the time, but the time we are together we almost never have disagreements. I love her, but her crazy mother, who is very mean to me and her, plus her rude friends, and us never seeing each other makes me question if the relationship is worth it. I have options, and can get another girlfriend, I just want to make it work, but I don't know if I even should try. Her past also makes me question us, I would rather not go in to it, but I just over react to it (no drugs or cheating or whoreness or anything like that). I'm a sixteen year old and she's seventeen so we're pretty young. My main question is do you think I should continue the relationship or not, she is very happy with me and us being together, I just am wondering if I should look else where for a "better" love. Not that we don't have a great love, it's just that she is my first actual love, and I don't know if we're missing anything.
Do you think we should stay together or break up? I realize that most of you will say it's up to me and I should just make a decision, but I feel like I want to stay but I don't know if it's worth it in the long run and would really like input from someone outside looking in so to speak. Help please