I know your pain. Except I do have a girlish figure. Though i recently cut my hair, when it was long and straighted I was always mistaken for a girl. I've had people on the internet hit on me to when I had a pic of myself with long hair. I use Lullabye for most of my internet names so it being rather....ambiguous doesn't help.Tonythion said:All the time and I have short hair and some beard stubble, I don't even have a girlish figure. I have broad shoulders and a long torso and giant hands!
It was the worse in middle school. I had long hair so people always thought I was a girl, or gay...I got beat up a lot those days...HUUUR
and even as I got older I was mistaken for a small girl. Even though I'm nineteen I look like I'm twelve--somewhat. Also...I don't think I've hit puberty yet...I haven't grown any taller and the only real facial hair I have is chin stubble...my voice you can't tell if I'm a man or woman on the phone.
It's like nature didn't know which route to take when making me and said well crap...let's just split you down the middle yes?
It's not so much we are failing at it, it's just some people assume too much.Draitheryn said:at first the results were staggering to me, then the more i think about it, the more i realize how feminine men are these days. I may be pretty crass in this assessment but if you are mistaken as the opposite gender you're probably failing at being your intended gender. Unless you are a herm, then carry on.
T^T people suck haha. I bet you don't even have a girlish figure--you're probably just skinny, but I could be wrong. Ahh picking people up on the internet, so confident, so creepy--honestly some guy thought I was a young girl and was hitting on me when I was playing COD, I was like SIR I WILL END YOU! Yeah I can see why your name doesn't help, but still people shouldn't assumeLullabye said:I know your pain. Except I do have a girlish figure. Though i recently cut my hair, when it was long and straighted I was always mistaken for a girl. I've had people on the internet hit on me to when I had a pic of myself with long hair. I use Lullabye for most of my internet names so it being rather....ambiguous doesn't help.Tonythion said:All the time and I have short hair and some beard stubble, I don't even have a girlish figure. I have broad shoulders and a long torso and giant hands!
It was the worse in middle school. I had long hair so people always thought I was a girl, or gay...I got beat up a lot those days...HUUUR
and even as I got older I was mistaken for a small girl. Even though I'm nineteen I look like I'm twelve--somewhat. Also...I don't think I've hit puberty yet...I haven't grown any taller and the only real facial hair I have is chin stubble...my voice you can't tell if I'm a man or woman on the phone.
It's like nature didn't know which route to take when making me and said well crap...let's just split you down the middle yes?