I've been there, just last year in fact. I wasn't exactly "shot down" by her but yeh, it still sucked. Overly pessimistic it may be, but since then, I've considered myself pretty much spent on the whole "finding someone" thing.DividedUnity said:I thought I did, for about 6 months I was completely in love, thought she was too. Then she shot me down like a blimp over baghdad.