Poll: Have you found the love of your life yet?

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Bob the zombie

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no. because at the moment I have been burnt by somebody I loved and Hate even the mention of the emotion. Besides, love is just lust in disguise by how people express it nowadays.
 

arsenicCatnip

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Johanthemonster666 said:
Yes ^^

But the one glaring reality you'll find when you're with someone for more than 2 years is that things become more routine and your relationship becomes a partnership founded not just on passionate intimacy and "butterflies fluttering in your stomach whenever you think about them", but on solid trust, devotion (without being overly depedendent)and communication.


Most relationships fall apart because people have unrealistic expectations of what a relationships is or what their partner should be like. More importantly, that "routine" that comes into play after being with someone for a while usually sends immature lovers running for the hills. They seem to think that they have to breakup as soon as things seem boring.. but in reality when the pheramones start to calm down it's usually a good thing (you're growing up).
You're utterly right.

But I'm quite content with that idea. Because even doing the little routine things with him makes me giddy (how many girls do you know that think of going grocery shopping with their boyfriends and smile happily?).

Stability and trust in a relationship are what keep it going for a very long time.
 

nicholaxxx

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does it have to be mutual? I've found her, but I doubt there's an ice cubes chance in hell that she shares my feelings.
 

Naheal

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Yureina said:
Naheal said:
Yureina said:
You catch a hard time with it, too?
What do you mean?
I occasionally have to explain that I'm simply not interested in companionship to someone who doesn't completely understand followed by a lecture of "You'll change your mind when you find the right girl..." It's to the point now where I simply change the subject (which leaves a different taste in their mouth).
 

SimuLord

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I found her...and lost her. Needless to say, I don't believe there's only one person for everyone, mostly because as we go from teens to adulthood and through the stages of being an adult, we all grow and change so much that one life stage's dream-girl may be the next life stage's ex-wife. I speak from experience on that one---growth and change and growing apart is why I'm divorced.

That said, I've recently met someone who shares a lot of the same values I have now...and who would've been completely incompatible with me had I met her even three years ago. And I might end up with her...or we might grow apart and I'll be back alone at a different point in my life.
 

Brutus03

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Nope, Every girl I dated ended up crazy or finding out it wasn't worth my time. I would rather have friends at this point in my life.
 

Yureina

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Naheal said:
Yureina said:
Naheal said:
Yureina said:
You catch a hard time with it, too?
What do you mean?
I occasionally have to explain that I'm simply not interested in companionship to someone who doesn't completely understand followed by a lecture of "You'll change your mind when you find the right girl..." It's to the point now where I simply change the subject (which leaves a different taste in their mouth).
People don't talk to me about that kind of stuff.
 

Brad Shepard

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I dont believe i have, I know I have. Every day I wake up, I look foward to telling her Good Morning, Every night, i wish her sweet dreams, every time i get to spend alone time with her, my heart races, i love her with everything in me :)
 

thom_cat_

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I dunno, I thought I had, but after two months of being in the relationship it turns out she doesn't want a boyfriend... so now I still like her, but now I can't touch her :(
LAMES.
 

Radelaide

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I've found my soulmate and he's my best friend. We're not dating.

I also like to think I've found the love of my life. We've been together for over a year now, and try to spend as much time as our busy lives permit with each other. We also understand that our friends come first so if a friend asks either one of us to hang out, they come first.

There's a certain age when you start "finding" love, not just thinking you have. I don't think most people under the age of 15 really know what true love is. Then again, most people 20 and up don't know either, but there is a lot of naivety that comes with young age and "puppy love" isn't always real love.
 

Generator

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I like how no is the first option though yes is generally the first option in yes or no questions; very optimistic.

That being said, no.
 

Redingold

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Mukil said:
Redingold said:
I once saw a chocolate cake that was three feet high.
Can you show me said cake? I am a tall, young male looking for companionship
Never! The cake is mine, do you hear me? YOU CAN'T HAVE IT!