Poll: Have you found the love of your life yet?

[Captain Schpack]

What, no maybe option.

In all seriousness, maybe I have. I don't know yet. I don't know if she's interested in me and I don't know if I want to get closer to her than the "occasionally-mess-around" friend I already am.

 

[hellswarmglow]

Hahaha, do dogs count? I wouldn't marry any girl I've met in my life. They're all clingy and smothery and want all of my time. Yuck, I enjoy my freedom and friends and xbox.

women = succubi

I'm female and agree wholeheartedly.

 

[Dege84]

I have... until the fateful day of 22 august 2007. Unfortunately, since then, she is no more... and I can't even begin to describe how that was like. I wish you'll never have to go through that although it is inevitable, no one lives forever. Unfortunately some things happen much too soon.

 

[Rakkana]

No. But I'm pretty sure I know who she is. It makes less sense to me then it does you.

 

[Akai Shizuku]

I don't believe in love.

 

[Tri Force95]

Yes. She just doesn't know it yet. Someday she'll realize how perfect we could be together. Someday.

err...I meant to say no. I have not.

This. Exactly this.

 

[capin Rob]

No, I'm cool with just being alone

 

[SuccessAndBiscuts]

Yes but she doesn't want me [tear]

Actually its a lot more confused than that.

"Love of your life" Bah! Humbug! There are no such thing!
You may meet somebody who you find yourself attracted to. Perhaps you see each other several more times and find that a bond is begining to form. You'll start to really like them and them you. Love may start to grow between the two of you as you find things out about them that causes your attraction to grow. Intimacy will form and not long after, loyalty. As the two of you begin to experience life not as individuals, but as a couple you will soon be unable to live happily without them. Then on your deathbed you will realize that that person was the one person in your life that you loved the most. And you will be happy.

But there is no True Love, or Love at First Sight. Love is a bond that grows between two people, not something that forms spontaneously or that always existed because that was "your destiny". There may eventually be someone who you love most of all, but its not because that's "the way it's suppose to be". It's because chance threw you together and from that initial contact something beautiful formed. I know that not really all that romantic, but its what I believe.


(No.)

Quoted for truth.

 

[zehydra]

Well, I did. Turns out I wasn't hers.

 

[Iznat]

Yeah, I should hope so.
I mean, goddamn, I think I'd be crushed if it ended

I'm pretty sure he is, tho ^^

 

[ForensicYOYO]

Its complicated to say cus Ive seen so many marriages fail its hard to believe in THE ONE. Its more of a choice cus u cant always go by feelings.
But I would say yes because I am dating the most amazing woman ever. We have been friends long before we dated and we still keep that bond. Wouldnt trade her for anyone.
And if anyone says Awww im punching u in ur crusty nut sack. Now excuse me as I now need to snort some testosterone.

 

[AvsJoe]

Nope. I hope I do though, it would suck to live a life without love. It's like that one saying:

Breath without love is just a ticking clock.
Love without breath is just necrophilia.

 

[Razorback0z]

Well in true gamer fashion we met in UO over 10 years ago.

She is in Canada Im in Australia.

We met, it worked, then circumstances got in the way and we had to be apart. Now 8 years on we are back togethter again and I will be moving to Canada to live soon.

We never stopped believing it would work and we are both convinced it is the real thing.

Good luck to anyone who hasnt found it. Like everyone else says, when you find it, you will just know.

 

[DesiPrinceX09]

Nope, and while I'd like to think I will I just completely lack any self-confidence and any faith or love for myself. My mom keeps telling me I will so for her sake I just smile and agree.

 

[coolman9899]

Well sorta at first I found her and I loved her and I was almost certain she loved me from the point at which SHE KISSED ME then 1 month later I find out that she wasnt sure weither she does love me 2 weeks later bang shotdown for reasons unknown sigh the worst thing is that we go to the same school and our classes are next to each-other


oh also she wanted to still be friends im like... HELL NO but i said yes to not hurt her feelings

 

[The_root_of_all_evil]

Every time I look in the mirror.

 

[CJ1145]

This topic requires a "Maybe" option for those who aren't quite sure.

 

[Revolutionary]

Being as young as I am NO.

 

[TheYellowCellPhone]

I haven't found anyone. Not searching either.