Poll: Have you lost your virginity? If so, when and with who?

[RabbiiFrystofsk]

Dear god, if i knew people would give me so much of their "advice" (term used VERY loosely) i would never have mentioned my age.

Claw don't worry about people talking about your age. I remember when i was 13 (okay i don't but i do remember when i was 14 because it was my recreational age of drinking and smoking every weekend) and girls mean jack shit then seriously. Wait till you're at least 16 and things can begin to start to get serious. Sexual thoughts and the adolescent horniness is gonna strike you like a ***** at some points (or a lot for quite a few people) but it's all bitches and nike shoes.
Enjoy your youth while it lasts and don't get so worked up about things, everything comes in time (i never thought i'd get laid or get sexual with a girl but here i am).

 

[RoyalWelsh]

I lost mine when I was 18 with my second girlfriend. Fun times.

 

[WestMountain]

These polls dont work because most people that visit these thread want to brag about that they have had sex, therefore there's messed up results.

 

[v3n0mat3]

Yes, a few years ago with my then girlfriend (we were both 18).

 

[Ekonk]

Nope, and I'm keeping it that way. No matter what the OP says about virginity not being a virtue, it's still something you can't ever get back.

What kind of a ridiculous thing is that. It's not as if virginity grants you superpowers or something. It's not even a thing. It's a word humans use for someone who hasn't had intercourse yet. Just a fucking word, there is literally nothing you lose when you 'lose' your virginity.

 

[MorsePacific]

I quit being virgin a while ago, now I'm extra virgin and I go nice with Italian food.

Good lord, if I could shake your hand I would.

Most people would say I lost mine when I was 17 but I never counted that because it lasted for all of thirty seconds before I got freaked out that we weren't using protection. My real first time was two days ago, though, and I'm currently 18.

 

[RowdyRodimus]

At 13 to a ring rat at a party after a wrestling event. (I was being trained by one of the wrestlers at the time and he thought it was time for me to lose it lol) I was already getting oral a lot before then from girls at school so to stick it in another couple of holes didn't mean much to me.

 

[lacktheknack]

Nope, and I'm keeping it that way. No matter what the OP says about virginity not being a virtue, it's still something you can't ever get back.

What kind of a ridiculous thing is that. It's not as if virginity grants you superpowers or something. It's not even a thing. It's a word humans use for someone who hasn't had intercourse yet. Just a fucking word, there is literally nothing you lose when you 'lose' your virginity.

It's a status.

Why so aggressive about it?

 

[garfoldsomeoneelse]

Yes. 17. Girlfriend. Wasn't a big deal then, not a big deal now.

 

[Woem]

It happened when I just turned 18 and she was 17. And we're now 10 years happily married

 

[similar.squirrel]

Nineteen, girlfriend. It was somewhat unexpected, considering I had been told for the best part of two years that she was not congenial to the idea of coitus. It was entirely as I had expected it to be, except for the fact that I had not expected it, but I accepted the exception to the sexless mindset.

 

[stl520nlv]

Yup, when my online girlfriend flew halfway across the world from America to be with me I lost it with her. There's something special about losing it with someone you love.

That's true, but if you lose it to someone you love and they leave you later on then that's just one more thing making it harder to get over her. It's just another attachment (not to mention, a very strong one) you have to that person. Personally, I'm not having sex anymore until I'm married or if she decides to come back. For those who haven't yet, don't rush into it. Even when you think you're sure you can be wrong.

 

[Monkfish Acc.]

Sort of. I'm not sure if it counts.
I was molested as a kid by a few different people. Think the first time was when I was about two, maybe three. I don't remember it very clearly, but from what I've pieced together, this scumbag that my mum was fucking liked to do shit to myself and my sister late at night when she was sleeping. Nial, I think his name was.

He got away with it because we were both too young to provide testimony. Yay justice.

 

[Starp]

20 years and still not happenin'. I'm the posterchild for the games-destroy-sociability parade.

 

[night_chrono]

When I was 18, with my best friend. One day she just decided she wanted to and who was I to say no? It was okay, and I don't have any regrets about it. However I did have more fun playing laser tag two days later.

For all the people in this thread that are in a hurry to lose it, don't be. If you have it once than not again for a while it's a lot worse than the curiosity to just try it.

 

[pewpewz]

Yeah when I was 16... now I'm 20 and still with the same guy I lost it to as well. Young lovers kinda thing basically... it was a pretty crappy first time - I was nervous and emotional, he was terrified and shy... but then it was over and we tried again the next day and it just felt more natural. First time < every other time.

Sex is highly overrated, and as soon as you've gotten over that initial "OH MY GOD PENIS GOES WHERE?!" feeling then it's just a nice thing to do every so often. To be honest, MDMA/Ecstasy feels a lot (lot!!!) better than an orgasm...

However, losing your virginity with someone you love and having sex with a long term partner is several thousand times more fulfilling than just shagging anything with T&A, so if and when you lose it... try and wait until you're in some sort of loving relationship.

 

[Darkauthor81]

I had grown up on cheesy 80s movies and television without even knowing they were cheesy. That and I was home schooled and paralyzingly shy so I was pretty sheltered. As a result I had this ideal that I was gonna wait till marriage. Even blatantly passed up a few chances that came my way.

Then I went college. Suddenly I was surrounded by guys who's only topics of conversation were getting drunk and getting laid. I felt torn between being disgusted and being envious. The turning point was when I was sitting on my bed with my dorm door open when a couple girls walked by with their waists wrapped in bath towls... and that was all they were wearing.

It was then I decided that abstinence wasn't for me.

 

[Seriin]

Yes. 17. Girlfriend. Wasn't a big deal then, not a big deal now.

It was easier to quote this than to write it out again for myself.

 

[Akyho]

I am a technicly not a virgin and yet i am technicly still am a virgin.

I am 22 and when i was 17 me and my girlfriend tried to have sex. The best way to put it is. I entered the building got to reception, the receptionist started to cry so i left. Some say i should have just pushed on threw for the elevator doors.

My penis has been in a Vagina...but not much else after that.

Virgin or not. I am just wanting a a girlfriend i can fool around with in such ways or less even. Me and my second girlfriend were utter terrible without sex. He did all the bases up to home. We had fun we fooled around climaxed each other. Just never just my cock in her pussy.....so no big deal i came she came we had fun.

I just want that with another girl mostly someone i care about. So meh.

 

[live2laugh]

Yes when i was 19 with a very close friend. He made sure that it was special for me, it's something that brought us very close