Poll: Have you lost your virginity? If so, when and with who?
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Why are people overly interested about other people's sex lives? It's not some monumental thing, come the following morning you are still the same person save that you've had sex. Nothing really changes and if it does, you likely have issues if sex is an all important thing to you. The only important thing when it comes to sex is if you have it with many people who mean very little to you, strangers, or fewer people who are significant to you.
I think I'm in that lucky 2% whose first experience going all the way was indeed a fantastic, orgasmic, mind-blowing release of lusty pleasure that left me gasping for days. Spectacular and memorable are just two words to describe it. So I'm not going to lie or be all doom and gloom like some people here and act like I wasn't on Cloud Nine. I was, indeed. When my best friend encountered me later that night, he took one look at my face and knew what had happened.
The thing is, and this is the REALLY IMPORTANT part: I never worried leading up to that point, whether I was a virgin or not, never cared what other people thought about me or what I was supposed to or not supposed to be doing. I never felt like it was really a defining part of who I was. I just went about my business and didn't really think about it.
Being absent from the peer pressure wars and without any real worry about status or labels probably is why it was such a great experience. I was really in love and happy about that, and it was fantabulous.
It was also the 'eighties. Don't know if that factors into it.
The thing is, and this is the REALLY IMPORTANT part: I never worried leading up to that point, whether I was a virgin or not, never cared what other people thought about me or what I was supposed to or not supposed to be doing. I never felt like it was really a defining part of who I was. I just went about my business and didn't really think about it.
Being absent from the peer pressure wars and without any real worry about status or labels probably is why it was such a great experience. I was really in love and happy about that, and it was fantabulous.
It was also the 'eighties. Don't know if that factors into it.
Wow, three weeks ago and you're over it? It must have SUCKED!RabbiiFrystofsk said:
Joking aside, I think taking your time is probably better then getting an STD.
Well my friend you should quit being a necro-mortalsatsuma said:
OT: Yes, yesterday, with the neighbors sheep....twice.
I'm just saying, the law takes a dim view of 'she nagged me into it' (although I know it is very plausible; many of my friends had the same experience), and The Escapist takes a very dim view of things that are technically illegal, no matter how harmless they are, so just be carefulmoloha said:
Not yet and not planning on it anytime soon. I'm only 15, as is my girlfriend, so not in the soon foreseeable future. We are happy where we are
I aint gonna lie man it wasn't the most mind blowing thing ever, but how many people's first times are?bushwhacker2k said:
I remember someone used an analogy of learning to drive a car in the thread about being non sexual the other day, the way i see it your first time is similar to that i.e you're nervous and you dont have any practical experience. Then with time you get your bearings and eventually you're doing bitches upside down while on a ferris wheel, or in the car case you can drift round a corner with one hand while going at 90mph and wearing sunglasses during night time.
I envy this man.bruunwald said:
Ok then :]Lexodus said:I'm just saying, the law takes a dim view of 'she nagged me into it' (although I know it is very plausible; many of my friends had the same experience), and The Escapist takes a very dim view of things that are technically illegal, no matter how harmless they are, so just be carefulmoloha said:
I'm glad that got cleared up :]
Anyway, if i'm to be put into Suspension or Probeation, so be it :]
The admins know best :]
I find the whole virginity concept very irritating. To me it really doesn't matter who you did it with the first time. Giving up your virginity isn't some sort of sacrifice or losing anything, in fact you gain an experience. I just can't understand why people would even want to wait to have sex until marriage or some other arbitrary time.
I hardly remember the first time I had sex, besides the fact it wasn't that great. Because we both weren't very good at it. I prefer to remember the first time with my first actual girlfriend who I was in love with. Now that was special.
I hardly remember the first time I had sex, besides the fact it wasn't that great. Because we both weren't very good at it. I prefer to remember the first time with my first actual girlfriend who I was in love with. Now that was special.
Yup, aged 15 with my then-boyfriend. The relationship ended VERY badly (at one point he got my friend really drunk and kissed her in front of me, then asked me to 'give them some space') but I don't really regret it, it wasn't great but it was an exciting experience and I don't think too much about who it was with. I just remember it as something of a coming-of-age moment (corny as that sounds) which was important on its own, despite the guy turning out to be such an arse.