Poll: Hes a Virgin and never kissed? Do girls like that?

[Ironic Pirate]

I sure as hell hope so.

 

[Ziadaine_v1legacy]

@Tharwin, I very rarely have sex and I can still manage to strike up a conversation sometimes with women. (When my anxiety doesn't kick in)

As for the topic itself, who cares. He's going to learn one day anyway, I never kissed a girl (not including your crappy like pecks) until I was 15 or so. If he feels bad about it, it'll take longer.

 

[jamesworkshop]

This one is directed mostly to the female Escapist out there. Girls in high school always seemed to be attracted to jurky sleep with all the girls make out with everyone guys. Not all but most. And it has me curious. If a girl encountered a good looking guy but he never had sex, or even kissed, would she still be attracted? I personally would say no cus I think girls want a guy who know what hes doing lol.

I'm not a girl but the reality is every guy and girl at somepoint in their life has had little to no experience with women/men everybody has to start somewhere.

Their is quite a big gap between a virgin and a whore not being one doesn't mean that you are the opposite, their is a middle ground.

A woman needs to sleep with a guy in the first place to stop him being a virgin so they clearly are not that put off by being the first time because thats always going to have to have happened at some point.

I think the problem here is the fact it seems common for people to believe that being a gentleman involves nerver ask women on dates in the hopes of forging a relationship don't fall into that line of thinking because it just isn't true.

 

[Katherine Kerensky]

-snip-
Aren't you the one who's always going on about being asexual?

That is so.
Still, doesn't mean I can't post
My view on it is that it does not matter. I myself have no sexual interest, so that may affect my view (As far as not caring) on whether the person I am in love with (Hypothetically) has had sex or not.

-snip-

isnt this where you pull the asexual card? *jab*

*Sticks a card saying "NONSEXUAL/ASEXUAL" to your forehead*
Damn, you saw it coming... still didn't save you
Am I really that easy to guess? :3

 

[Betancore]

Depends on the girl, my position on this one is that I'd prefer someone with experience. I hate that adolescent fumbling and awkwardness, I do not find it attractive at all. I'd prefer someone who knows what they're doing because they've done it before, and is not so distracted that they forget that they're meant to make me feel good too.

 

[Lizardon]

When seeing as one of these guys (although the good looking part is debatable) I certainly hope so.

 

[Ambi]

I am a girl who finds it preferable because when I start to really like a guy, I get jealous of their past. It probably won't change, but it might if I get experience myself >_<

 

[Tharwen]

The thing is... I think anyone who hadn't yet had sex would be awful at talking to girls anyway. Hence, probably no.

There is no direct link between sex and talking to girls.

...

You're trolling?

Talking to girls is how you get to know them well enough for them to want to have sex with you. It feels really weird to have to actually write that...

No I am not trolling I am speaking from experiance just because you can talk to girls doesn't mean you can have sex with them.

I talk to allot of girls but it doesn't mean I have or even wanted to have sex with them. Your right in saying that talking to girls helps but it is not a decieding factor.

Ah. You're looking at it from the wrong side of the argument.

I meant that if you're awful at talking to girls, you're unlikely to get a girlfriend/find someone to hook up with. Hence, people who are awful at talking to girls are less likely to have had sex than those who aren't. Reversing that means that there will be a stronger tendency for virgins to be bad talkers than sexually active people, hence the average virgin will be less attractive for his inability to have a good conversation and the answer to the original question is no.

That doesn't even apply to every person, I'm simply trying to give possible reasons for it.

@Tharwen, I very rarely have sex and I can still manage to strike up a conversation sometimes with women. (When my anxiety doesn't kick in)

I was trying to work out a trend, not an example that worked for everyone.

 

[Kragg]

-snip-
Aren't you the one who's always going on about being asexual?

That is so.
Still, doesn't mean I can't post
My view on it is that it does not matter. I myself have no sexual interest, so that may affect my view (As far as not caring) on whether the person I am in love with (Hypothetically) has had sex or not.

-snip-

isnt this where you pull the asexual card? *jab*

*Sticks a card saying "NONSEXUAL/ASEXUAL" to your forehead*
Damn, you saw it coming... still didn't save you
Am I really that easy to guess? :3

i wish you were that easy

to guess ! to guess !

 

[Platypus3224]

Oh God I hope so.

 

[BehattedWanderer]

Depends on the girl, really.

Everything can be put in a perspective of a circumstance. This way, people can vote so one can get a more clear result.

Fairly clear result, isn't it? Guys are mixed on the matter, and most girls think that it kinda matters, which is nominally something we already knew. It's the old "prude v. whore" argument, and how we each have our number that we think our partner should have, then find out, and formalize our opinions.