Poll: Hes a Virgin and never kissed? Do girls like that?

[Captain Pancake]

I have to say seeing this thread on the hot topic section whenever I pass by just helps to point out my own shortcomings. I'm working on it dammit, stop making me feel insecure!

I say join the military, the amount of nasty stuff you'll end up doing is ridiculous!

Yeah sorry man, women are attracted to confidence and washboard abs, if you're shy, they still want the washboard abs.

A uniform on the other hand will always get you laid...=D

This on the other hand is quite a shallow view.

Well, we're talking about the rules of attraction here, of course it's shallow!

I use to think there was more to it too, but there really isn't, women are just as shallow as man are. Only when we're talking about long term do other stuff begins to factor in, but only after you get through the basics.

-confidence
-money
-washboard abs

Then, you can worry about personality....lol

I'm really not interested in that kind of girl. It might take me longer but it'll be worth it in the long run when everybody's old and saggy.

OMG, those years are the worse, that's when people become bitter and start longing for their youth.

Ending up with a women that hates you 90% of the time because she can't turn heads anymore and you're what she's left with....=O

Honestly, the way I see it, you have to cut off your emotions and just dive in. People aren't people when they're playing the dating game, we're all just toys to each other.

And if you keep playing the game you might just end up finding what you want, it's the only way it'll happen....=/

Still not sure where the "washboard abs" factor into it, beyond boosting self confidence.

 

[Private Custard]

The problem that rears its head time and time again is that women claim to like the idea of the sweet, innocent, virginal type, and always go on about emotional bonds, personalities, trust and all the usual crap.

Then they end up fucking the biggest dickhead imaginable and then cry on the shoulders the sweet innocent ones that are now in the friend zone when it all inevitably goes horribly wrong!

 

[ZodiacBraves]

It's so hilarious how so many guys have voted that a girl wouldn't like that.

That's probably because sad fucks like us think that when we've had sex and kissed a girl, we're all "made men" and girls will like us.

Also make sure you take into consideration the main demographics of this site. I am willing to bet if you took this poll to your local mall you would get vastly different responses from the women you ask.

In general, the people who post on these forums are probably more introspective than the average person, meaning that the women posting here probably care more about things relating to mental prowess than physical prowess.

Maybe, maybe.

I'd say "Sure, sure" gladly, but one can never be too sure.

Your right, without proper proof I wouldn't state what I said as fact, just pointing out that this site probably has a more narrow mix of people than the general public.

 

[2012 Wont Happen]

A lot of girls I know have told me its "cute" that I'm a virgin and haven't kissed anyone. Some have meant it in a sarcastic way, some have genuinely thought it was cute. Depends on the person.

 

[Bakaferret]

Where is the "who cares?" option?

Honestly if a girl gives a crap whether or not a guy is "experienced" then she's not worth dating IMO. Unless you just want to get some. Then I guess she's ideal for you. :/

I guess if I HAVE to choose an option, I would say "Yes", but not really...I mean, I don't like it, but I also don't hate it. And yes I'm a girl.

 

[Burnswell]

Lol, "girls" are not some amorphous multibodied hivemind, its exactly like asking if a guy would like that, girls don't all think the same way. Anyone who thinks that "girls like this" or "boys like that" need to grow a brain. Each an individual, one and all.
If you're really worried about it don't bring it up with her. Just because its something you obsess about doesnt mean its something they'd have even considered.
SPOILER: Guys and girls are actually all exactly the freaking same when you get to know them.
Theres a massive difference between what someone likes and what someone brings up in conversation because its a culturally well known subject.

 

[eggy32]

EDIT: Nevermind.

 

[Shock and Awe]

In general I would say no. That really is not a positive aspect for most girls. Though I do not really think it is big enough to be something that would make a girl run off. There are alos some girls that do like that in a guy, whether because they think it would be fun to be his "first" or because they themselves are at that stage and want to grow with another person who is also there.

 

[Iznat]

I have no idea why this would be important. If I'm attracted to a guy, and I get on well with him, what he has or hasn't done won't bother me, nor will it cloud my judgement.

Besides, means they're a lot more willing to listen to what you like to try make you happy ^^ Not sort of "durr hurr I put this in here and you cum cause that's what all my ex's did."


Not ALL men are like that, but some are o_<

However. It would not alter my opinions of said man were he inexperiences/a virgin.

 

[jopomeister]

More girls say yes, but more guys say no. Interesting.

 

[Frog_Girl]

Is he one of those "no nothing before marriage" christians, because I find that alittle creepy but if he just hasn't got the opportunity I see no big issue... wait, how old is he?

 

[Redlin5_v1legacy]

Depends on the girl, doesn't it. One would hope that the girl wouldn't consider that a vital part of their relationship.

 

[Lineoutt]

Well look at that. That poll shows how much you guys know about us girls . To be honest, it doesnt matter and sometimes it can even be a bit endearing. If the guy hasnt done it yet it means he definitely isnt an asshole who fucks everything that moves, or at least doesnt succeed in fucking everything that moves. Thats something that can be hard to rule out sometimes.

 

[VanityGirl]

As one of the FEW females, I'd prefer that.
I hate jerky manhoes. I mean, I HATE manhoes.

Gimme the kissless virgin anyday.

 

[Kevlar Eater]

Still not sure where the "washboard abs" factor into it, beyond boosting self confidence.

Generally, washboard abs and bulging biceps make 'ginas tingle the same way that smooth legs and a decent rack makes guys grow stiff. There are exceptions to this, however.

*topic* One reason why Option 4 is absurdly high is because I (and possibly more, I dunno) know most girls/women say one thing ("I wouldn't mind a virgin who has never kissed", for example) but their actions prove the contrary. There are exceptions, but there are too few.

 

[technoted]

Evidentally not otherwise it would be under different circumstances.

 

[newfiegirl 110]

If she's into the guy, it's irrelevant. Less bad habits to break that way Besides, there's always the kick of 'instructing'. At least that's my opinion. Then again I tend to be a bit dominant and aggressive, at least according to some people who know me well...lol.

 

[AVATAR_RAGE]

The thing is... I think anyone who hadn't yet had sex would be awful at talking to girls anyway. Hence, probably no.

There is no direct link between sex and talking to girls.

...

You're trolling?

Talking to girls is how you get to know them well enough for them to want to have sex with you. It feels really weird to have to actually write that...

No I am not trolling I am speaking from experiance just because you can talk to girls doesn't mean you can have sex with them.

I talk to allot of girls but it doesn't mean I have or even wanted to have sex with them. Your right in saying that talking to girls helps but it is not a decieding factor.

 

[AVATAR_RAGE]

Lol, "girls" are not some amorphous multibodied hivemind, its exactly like asking if a guy would like that, girls don't all think the same way. Anyone who thinks that "girls like this" or "boys like that" need to grow a brain. Each an individual, one and all.
If you're really worried about it don't bring it up with her. Just because its something you obsess about doesnt mean its something they'd have even considered.
SPOILER: Guys and girls are actually all exactly the freaking same when you get to know them.
Theres a massive difference between what someone likes and what someone brings up in conversation because its a culturally well known subject.

actually this pretty much sums up my feelings there