Bara_no_Hime said:
Although it did work with my current gf, and we've been together for a year, so I guess I did something right.
Poll: How do you flirt?
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Although it did work with my current gf, and we've been together for a year, so I guess I did something right.
I find the poll options to be... poorly calibrated to the question at hand.
So I'll just say that I rarely have the balls to flirt, but am quite successful when I do bother. Mostly I don't really notice that I'm doing it, just sort of start paying more attention, making making more eye contact, and directly my jokes specifically at them (but in a playful way).
Really, all you have to do is pay attention.
So I'll just say that I rarely have the balls to flirt, but am quite successful when I do bother. Mostly I don't really notice that I'm doing it, just sort of start paying more attention, making making more eye contact, and directly my jokes specifically at them (but in a playful way).
Really, all you have to do is pay attention.
I can be subtle, but sometimes, when I know a girl likes me, I get much more straighforward. I once flat out told a girl to give me her number. To my surprise, she did. XDNimcha said:I prefer subtlety!MasterOfWorlds said:
But maybe I'm too subtle, most girls don't even seem to notice.
I'm kind of shy when I meet new people so I find it difficult. Most of the time I'm too focused on being myself to think about flirting.
I generally just talk to girls I don't know, and actually meet a lot of people that way. going to an all boys high school helped me to break any and all shyness because if I didn't approach every girl I was interested in, I would never meet women. I must say, I'm very proud of myself for becoming such a confident person, and I consider myself to be quite good at dropping sweet little compliments, and saying just the right thing.
I have no capacity to flirt lol. First 2 Gfs were online-only and they failed. Ive since had 2 more girls and 1 guy hit on me, and one girl irl "semi" go out with me who I took to the prom. And with my gf right now it was love basically at first sight but we never said anything for a while. Flirting confuses me since Im such a blunt person.
I flirt with everyone I'm attracted to.
Not that I'd actually go there with most but, a little flirting is just plain fun for me.
Not that I'd actually go there with most but, a little flirting is just plain fun for me.
I can't do it >.<
I'm too scared to approach a guy like that... being a guy and all... yeah...
Besides that, I wouldn't know how to approach it. I have no idea how to flirt :9.
I'm too scared to approach a guy like that... being a guy and all... yeah...
Besides that, I wouldn't know how to approach it. I have no idea how to flirt :9.
I don't... At least, I don't try to. I just talk to girls; I don't know if what I say could be considered "flirting" or not.
On the other hand, I am completely incapable of just walking up to someone and talking to them if I don't know them.
As for people flirting with me, I am completely oblivious.
On the other hand, I am completely incapable of just walking up to someone and talking to them if I don't know them.
As for people flirting with me, I am completely oblivious.
How do I flirt?
Badly, if my loneliness is any indication.
with everyone who isn't in fact the one I actually like, if the past five years of self-loathing are anything to go by.
Other, if I'm answering this poll!
having said that, if I'm talking to a girl online I will make fairly blunt statements alluding to doing a bit of the horizontal mambo. I like to think it's part of my charm.
Badly, if my loneliness is any indication.
with everyone who isn't in fact the one I actually like, if the past five years of self-loathing are anything to go by.
Other, if I'm answering this poll!
having said that, if I'm talking to a girl online I will make fairly blunt statements alluding to doing a bit of the horizontal mambo. I like to think it's part of my charm.
Some men would find that endearing.trollnystan said:
Oh, my flirting rarely gets me anywhere useful either. Once in a while, but not that often.MasterOfWorlds said:
Mostly, it ends up with people on the internet arguing about (or calling dibs) on kissing me. ^^;; Which, since I've vowed to never date someone I met on the internet (ever again), is a rather moot point.
Poorly.
I'm just pretty inexperienced when it comes to human "courtship rituals". A while back, there was a girl who was definitely into me, and I was clueless until she decided to hold my hand. Even then, I had no idea how to navigate the moderate make-out session that followed. It worked out all right in the end, but I was just confronted by how bad I am with the opposite sex.
I'm determined to change that.
I'm just pretty inexperienced when it comes to human "courtship rituals". A while back, there was a girl who was definitely into me, and I was clueless until she decided to hold my hand. Even then, I had no idea how to navigate the moderate make-out session that followed. It worked out all right in the end, but I was just confronted by how bad I am with the opposite sex.
I'm determined to change that.
I generally don't flirt, because I'm terrible at it, I've got a bad self image (I'm not good enough), and when I'm actually interested I'm too shy to actually do anything.
In fact, when someone's flirting with me, I have no idea until afterwards, when my friends tell me that they were signaling so hard aliens perked up and looked our way.
In fact, when someone's flirting with me, I have no idea until afterwards, when my friends tell me that they were signaling so hard aliens perked up and looked our way.
