Poll: How do you flirt?

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HentMas

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there are 3 easy ways to take your flirting to the next level

1.- eye contact, every so many seconds in your conversation look at her in the eye, even if she is showing you something in a map, make a face of rapt attention to every word she says, smile a little and nod as if whatever she is saying is the absolute truth (unless you don´t agree in which case tell her why you think she is wrong, but still looking at her eyes), oh! don´t stare, that´s just creepy

2.- touch, every so often make contact with her, be it in her back, her arm, graze her hand with yours, reach out and grab her hair (if she makes faces stop this immediately, she might hate to be touched, which is weird and you should leave that instant)

3.- never have awkward silences, whenever one finishes a sentence, find the next possible answer, be it a joke or something serious, points up if its a joke, points down if its a sexist joke, points below zero if its a racist joke, keep those to your friends, and if the topic has ran its course, find the next one the fastest as you can, that will keep her interest, ask her about any topic you know about, or you know she knows about, that will keep things flowing smoothly

BONUS STAGE!!!!.- if you manage to get a girl out on a date, DONT BE SCARED, DONT PANIC, she already accepted to date your sorry ass, so you just have to be you!
 

Vanguard_Ex

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Successfully. Har har har.

Nah, I just make small talk but make it obvious I'm interested in them. If I'm flirting with actual intent, of course.
 

Not-here-anymore

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Um... I inadvertently flirt with everyone. Everyone! Don't mean to half the time, apparently that's just how I talk to people. It's led to some... interesting conversations with gay friends.

I am, however, woefully oblivious when it comes to people hitting on me. Which is upsetting. Probably a result of my pseudo-flirting at all times - I don't recognise it when the real thing's directed at me.

(NB: The above combination is great for alienating any friend of the opposite gender who likes you more than they're willing to say, but doesn't make this clear until you start seeing someone else)
 

ZtH

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Poorly as it were.

For some reason I knew who started this thread before I looked at anything but the topic. Anyway, I often get the "You're a really great guy but..." answer and get friendzoned. It's rather unfortunate. Actually at this point it's even worse, because I don't meet any new people due to some circumstances with my job and school being out of sync with people my own age. Overall I just flirt where I can and hope something catches and turns meaningful.
 

undeserving

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apparently i'm a natural flirt. i just thought i was being nice until a girlfriend pointed out that no one is "that" nice to other people without having an agenda... let me just say, i never cheated on a girl ever ever. Anyway, since the end of that relationship i've made a conscious decision to only date women with sufficient self-esteem to handle seeing me making another girl laugh!
 

MasterOfWorlds

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ZamielTheHunter said:
Poorly as it were.

For some reason I knew who started this thread before I looked at anything but the topic. Anyway, I often get the "You're a really great guy but..." answer and get friendzoned. It's rather unfortunate. Actually at this point it's even worse, because I don't meet any new people due to some circumstances with my job and school being out of sync with people my own age. Overall I just flirt where I can and hope something catches and turns meaningful.
Chances are, if it has to do with sex/relationships, it's from me. Or if it isn't, it will be soon. XD
 

MasterOfWorlds

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undeserving said:
apparently i'm a natural flirt. i just thought i was being nice until a girlfriend pointed out that no one is "that" nice to other people without having an agenda... let me just say, i never cheated on a girl ever ever. Anyway, since the end of that relationship i've made a conscious decision to only date women with sufficient self-esteem to handle seeing me making another girl laugh!
This too. I still flirt with other girls, but I've managed to tone it down a lot since I got together with my gf. She lets me know when I take it too far though, which doesn't happen often, but every so often, somthing slips that wasn;t quite as innocent as the rest of my flirting. I'd never cheat though. I've been cheated on, and it sucks.
 

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MasterOfWorlds said:
I've been cheated on, and it sucks.
only once (that i know of) but yep... crushing. ultra gutting because she was a choir of angels* moment for me...

*http://xkcd.com/310/
 

MasterOfWorlds

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undeserving said:
MasterOfWorlds said:
I've been cheated on, and it sucks.
only once (that i know of) but yep... crushing. ultra gutting because she was a choir of angels* moment for me...

*http://xkcd.com/310/
I wasn't particularly invested in the relationship. She was my first gf, and it was really more of a "Sure, why not." thing for me. The thing that hurt the most was that she'd always go on about how devoutly Catholic she is (I'm not Catholic) and she cheated on me with one of my best friends (also a devout Catholic). To say I've had bad luck when it comes to Catholic people would be a touch of an understatement. It's not the faith, it's just some of the people.
 

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I used to pretty well. I could go from 'feigning awkward boyish charm' to 'overconfident uninterested' I hate to sound full of myself but I've always been very good at reading people. Makes it easy to tell what a girl wants. Well, as far as flirting. Beyond that women are a mystery even to themselves.
 

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MasterOfWorlds said:
To say I've had bad luck when it comes to Catholic people would be a touch of an understatement. It's not the faith, it's just some of the people.
this is massively OT and i'm new here - mods please be kind!

But yeh, given the variety and choice in faith systems available; it's hard to trust people who blindly claim allegiance to the most sinister and corrupt organisation human history has ever known.

*no offence intended*
 

MasterOfWorlds

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undeserving said:
MasterOfWorlds said:
To say I've had bad luck when it comes to Catholic people would be a touch of an understatement. It's not the faith, it's just some of the people.
this is massively OT and i'm new here - mods please be kind!

But yeh, given the variety and choice in faith systems available; it's hard to trust people who blindly claim allegiance to the most sinister and corrupt organisation human history has ever known.

*no offence intended*
With the amount of people on here who are staunchly athiest, I don't think that you'll offend many people. There are plenty of people on here who share your views, and I haven't seen them punished, but I tend to stay away from religious and political discussions. It's just too polarized, and someone ends up being offended, even if the points you make are backed up with fact, and not just some emotional outburst.
 

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MasterOfWorlds said:
undeserving said:
MasterOfWorlds said:
To say I've had bad luck when it comes to Catholic people would be a touch of an understatement. It's not the faith, it's just some of the people.
this is massively OT and i'm new here - mods please be kind!

But yeh, given the variety and choice in faith systems available; it's hard to trust people who blindly claim allegiance to the most sinister and corrupt organisation human history has ever known.

*no offence intended*
With the amount of people on here who are staunchly athiest, I don't think that you'll offend many people. There are plenty of people on here who share your views, and I haven't seen them punished, but I tend to stay away from religious and political discussions. It's just too polarized, and someone ends up being offended, even if the points you make are backed up with fact, and not just some emotional outburst.
fair enough...
getting back on topic... can i buy you a drink? ;)
 

MasterOfWorlds

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undeserving said:
fair enough...
getting back on topic... can i buy you a drink? ;)
Sadly, I'm the drink will have to wait until next year. Also sadly, this wouldn't be the first time I've helped contribute to the derailment of my own thread. I once had a thread that turned into 300 some odd posts about masturbation of all things. XD
 

undeserving

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MasterOfWorlds said:
undeserving said:
fair enough...
getting back on topic... can i buy you a drink? ;)
Sadly, I'm the drink will have to wait until next year. Also sadly, this wouldn't be the first time I've helped contribute to the derailment of my own thread. I once had a thread that turned into 300 some odd posts about masturbation of all things. XD
haha, i really hope it wasn't a thread about responsible parenting or something ^^
no problems with the drink, raincheck :p
 

ZtH

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MasterOfWorlds said:
Chances are, if it has to do with sex/relationships, it's from me. Or if it isn't, it will be soon. XD
I enjoy your threads because of the candor people have in explaining their own situations and the lack of judgement they have when they review others' situations.

As for the cheating, I've had it done to me twice. It's really an awful thing, but I've since come to terms with it for at least one of them. Now I understand where her head was at and I get that the reason that she looked outside the relationship was because in her mind at least our relationship was already pretty much over. It still sucks mightily, but I don't think I would judge people nearly as harshly as I once did for that.
 

Bezz_Ad

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I don't flirt, at least not consciously. And people have thought that I was flirting, which led to some really awkward moments.