Poll: How do you flirt?

[lolmynamewastaken]

with stammering and plentiful fail.
so long as i don't need to talk i can flirt fine, its just its rare that being mute is an attractive quality.

 

[RA92]

Waggle my tongue, d'uh!

 

[Ryengu]

I don't really flirt at all XP Dunno, it just doesn't flow for me.

 

[dementis]

I flirt with everyone I meet face to face for the first time, regardless of looks or gender, I find it's a good way to make friends

 

[SckizoBoy]

I can flirt... an admission that surprises me.
However, I generally can't keep it up for long.

Unfortunately, when people (in general) meet me for the first time, I will have/be a combination of the following:

1) A massive scowl
2) Walking really fast
3) Pissed off
4) That expression that the Rock used to do (raised eyebrow thingy) coupled with white knuckles
5) Growling like Michael Wincott
6) Concentrating on something to the extent that you can't get my attention without hitting me

So, first impressions of me tend not to be that good. Still, I get by... -_-

PS - Is it weird that a lot of my best friends are married women?

 

[Tourmeta]

Haven't really done it...
...Except for that one glue fighting period, all fun of course.

 

[Denamic]

I honestly have no idea.
I can be just talking normally to a girl, and before I know it, I'm flirting with her.
It just sort of happens.

 

[Haydyn]

Default answer: It depends on the situation. For my lady friends maybe joke around with them a little bit. When the time is right maybe make a sassy comment, like when my friend was helping me carry my coffee table up to my apartmet, and I was standing in front, I asked her if she liked the view. One in particular I am just terrible at flirting with.

Lady friends online? Much more to the point and openly displaying affection, but in a joking manner. Just casually saying things like "(Name), I wuv uuuuu." or "(Name) is so awesomeauce!" They respond surprisenly well. The other day on jumped in my party and said "Horono, I love you!" and left.

Lady friends I'm not very attracted to are fun. I'm much more confident around them and usually a lot more forward. Some I can get away with saying anything. One in particular who I eventually developed strong feelings for I could say ANYTHING to. It was only once I had feelings for her that I stopped being as cocky and things got weird between us. I eventually asked her out, and lafter a few days she gave me the "Don't want to ruin friendship" bullshit. At the time I was hoping she would say no, but looking back I am sadface about it.

Regular girls I run into, I'm not very good at flirting with. It's foreign to me how I can go from "Hello person I just met" to "Let's totally hang out sometime." O well I guess.

 

[Ca3zar416]

Apparently I was flirting with my first girl friend for a bit but didn't really realize it. Also had to have it pointed out to me that she was flirting with me. Yeah......I'm not very good it.

 

[The Apothecarry]

I can make the odd girl gamer on Halo laugh a bit, but in person I can barely bring myself to talk to a pretty girl. I know my twisted mind, and I'm afraid something offensive will slip out.

 

[A Free Man]

I just get clingy kinda and hang around them more. But thats cause Im rarely around a guy that I actually like and think I could get with.

Also this, but with women instead of men. I know, guys aren't supposed to be clingy, but if I like a girl, being around her more means I can hit on her more and my chances of getting a date are better. XD

I also just like talking to people, and you can't really do that if they're not around to talk to.

Yeh I'm a bit like this as well. Sorta just hoping that if your around them enough something might just happen inexplicably haha if only that actually happened ahh well one day....

 

[omagma]

I myself is the master of flirting.
Nothing says "honey, i am interested in you" than breaking the girls knee cap and slamming her head into a table..... what?... dont look at me like that!

but to be realistic.... i kinda suck at it... Hard

 

[Michael Logan]

Well usually the girls approach me, but I guess my flirting is diffrent depending on the girl, I sort of get a feel for what she likes before I start flirting. But I find that alot of girls like if you are teasing them. Which is odd, but hey, whatever works right?

 

[AwesomeSuperMelon]

I'm told I am a natural at it, and also that I do it without even thinking about it. It annoys my girlfriend. All I really do is be generally nice to the girl, throwing in a few well meant compliments about her hair/shoes/clothes/etc...

 

[Smiles]

I can't even tell when I am being flirted on/with? I have tried flirting and it has never gone well...

"so that's a book you are reading... cool, I've read some books too..." (walks away nervously)

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

Oh, my flirting rarely gets me anywhere useful either. Once in a while, but not that often.

Mostly, it ends up with people on the internet arguing about (or calling dibs) on kissing me. ^^;; Which, since I've vowed to never date someone I met on the internet (ever again), is a rather moot point.

Sometimes, talking to you makes me sad. Most of the time though, it's interesting. That, and I like being teased, and for some reason it always feels like you're teasing me, I don't know why. XD

 

[Griffolion]

I just start a conversation with her about anything, i usually try and break the ice by being genuine and saying something like 'i think you're very gorgeous and i'd love to get to know you better, could I buy you a drink?' (or whatever would be appropriate for the setting).

Then it just goes from there. If she's not interested i don't linger around because that's just awkward so i'll find a natural time/place to break off and i will do.

At some appropriate point i'll also see if i could have her number and/or a date for coffee/dinner. If neither, ask if she's on facebook and if it's okay to add her. Though if she's not going to give you a date or a number, adding on facebook is a pointless task anyway if you're purely in the market for a romantic relationship.

I've come to find that most girls will appreciate the transparency and honesty and will reciprocate, so you're not left with the confusion that 'playing the game' can dish out in terms of 'what did she mean by THAT?'.

 

[Aphex Demon]

I do naturally. It's nature, after all.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

Yeh I'm a bit like this as well. Sorta just hoping that if your around them enough something might just happen inexplicably haha if only that actually happened ahh well one day....

That's actually kind of how my current gf and I got together. We talked a lot and liked each other, so dating was just sort of the next logical step. I'd even given up on dating for a while when I met her, so you never know what'll happen.

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