Poll: How do you see virgins?

[DeleteThisAcc]

Why do everyone think that if you are virgin you are some ugly idiot?
What is wrong with you people? Is it really so good to lose virginity at 13 years?

I'll tell you what I think about young non virgins that isn't in SERIOUS relationship (yes, SERIOUS, not "oh you look cute... lets have sex for a week and then break up"). I think these are cheap slaves of pleasure that have no will power. I am atheist, virgin, 22 years old, any non virgin woman has zero chances becoming my wife (insert forever alone pic here).

 

[Killclaw Kilrathi]

I'm not but I have a few friends who are. Whether that affects how I feel about them depends on what kind of virgin they are.

There are two major kinds I've encountered. The first are the laid back, "I haven't had sex yet but meh" types, I can respect that and it doesn't affect my opinion about them one bit. Some people choose not to have sex, others just haven't met the right person or had the opportunity come up. Fair enough.

The second are the self-entitled, "Why won't anybody love me?!" kind. They want sex, not a relationship but just sex, with anyone, anywhere, just so they can say they have. They might even be mildly attractive, heck I've seen worse get laid. But their attitude and constant passive aggressive demand for attention drives people away and makes them socially inept. What bugs me the most however is their sense of entitlement. They always blame others for their situation, it's never them. And they think that just acting nice around women should result in sex, they treat them like objectives instead of human beings and call them greedy or selfish when it doesn't work. There's no reasoning with them, I've tried both the touchy feely don't-hurt-their-feelings approach, and the tough love hit-them-with-reality one too. It all just bounces right off of them, it's like talking to a brick wall. They refuse to change, they sit there and expect the world to change for them.

The ironic thing is that the people in the first category always end up having sex, and often getting into awesome relationships. But I know people from the second category in their mid-thirties who still haven't been laid, and instead of wising up they just whine even more, until they've alienated and worn out the pity of every person who tried to help them.

There is the third kind that pisses me off the most. It's the kind that thinks been a virgin makes them better than everyone else.

Oooh, how about a third and a half kind? TECHNICAL virgins who think they're better than you! They've taken it in every way except that one, and they still say they're "saving themselves for marriage" and consider themselves better than you.

 

[aaronobst]

Whatever their reasons it doesn't matter

I've never understood the prestige-like status some people seem to think they own once they get laid. I didn't have sex until I was 19 and all my mates sure were a on high fucking horse

 

[Killclaw Kilrathi]

It's idiotic things like this topic that force so many people to have sex at such a young age. Now whether or not your first time is really that important I would have no idea as I am still a virgin myself, but making people feel like crap just because they haven't partaken in the meaningless act of sex is pathetic.

If you judge someone negatively purely because they are a virgin, then you deserve to be stabbed in the face.

To be honest, most answers I've seen in this topic are pretty positive to indifferent about virgins. Personally it's how they act that affects my opinion of them, as it does with everyone else.

 

[Hristo Tzonkov]

Nothing wrong with being a virgin.Some people are just unlucky.Other's really shouldn't procreate.What's bad is that the public sees losing your virginity as a milestone and a sign of maturity.Having a girlfriend is more a social status which ruins a lot of relationships and encourages people to act like douchebags both men and women.

 

[Broady Brio]

As one myself, while I had the chance to, I didn't.

Simply because I wouldn't have wanted to. I didn't see how I'd benefited much from it.
(Besides being able to say "I Just Had Sex!"[footnote]And it wouldn't have felt so good.[/footnote])

 

[The Funslinger]

I view them as someone who has not had sex. Their reason is their own, I'm not going to judge them one way or another.

This, I'd say. I'm not judging them. Except the ones who act all cocky about sex and are generally pests towards the opposite sex. They irritate me like nothing else.

 

[Dimensional Vortex]

I view virgins as people who just haven't had any sex, there is nothing wrong or good about being a virgin. There is, however, something wrong about being a virgin for a negative reason, like you're a virgin because when a girl says "Hello" you punch them in the face. But just virgins are fine, I will judge and define people on who they are not their lack of sexual encounters.

 

[Flare Phoenix]

It's idiotic things like this topic that force so many people to have sex at such a young age. Now whether or not your first time is really that important I would have no idea as I am still a virgin myself, but making people feel like crap just because they haven't partaken in the meaningless act of sex is pathetic.

If you judge someone negatively purely because they are a virgin, then you deserve to be stabbed in the face.

To be honest, most answers I've seen in this topic are pretty positive to indifferent about virgins. Personally it's how they act that affects my opinion of them, as it does with everyone else.

I was talking more about the idea of the topic in general. I just found it to be a ridiculous question with no real answer. It'd be like if someone created a topic saying "How do you see black people?". Unless you say something along the lines of "I see them the exact same as I see everyone else", you'll come off looking like a massive dickhead.

The thing that annoys me is so many people only want a relationship to have a relationship. Like you said, it's more of a symbol of importance rather than something meaningful. I used to be like that: for the longest time I would whinge about how I've never had a girlfriend, until one day I stopped and asked myself why I wanted a girlfriend. And you know what? I couldn't come up with an answer better than "because society dictats that you're a loser if you don't".

After that, I've stopped caring about it so much. If it happens, fine, but I'm perfectly happy on my own.

 

[Chaza]

I my self am a virgin so I have nothing against them.
If it's by choice then good for them if not then I can understand how they feel.

 

[Chris^^]

I view them with my eyes...

OT I don't see them as any different to anyone else, sex is just an act, if you let it change you as a person then more power to you but me? I don't see it as anything special..

 

[Therumancer]

So, it is likely that many here are virgins and many are not. The question isn't whether or not you ever had sex but rather how do you view someone who is a virgin? The type of person isn't in question because they are how you would image a virgin to be, whatever that might be. This thread is not meant to bash on virgins (I am one myself) but is analyze people's perspectives on sex.

To make this a little easier, I've included a poll.

Depends on the age and situation.

For a lot of children, which can include up until the teen stage, the "young and innocent" thing can apply. For people with certain upbringing it might be a matter of self control and morality.

The "too pathetic to get any" thing applies in many cases as well.

I don't think I have any one thought that summarizes my feelings on the subject.

 

[katsumoto03]

I see them as people who have yet to experience sex. That's literally all we can assume about them with only the fact that they are virgins to go on.

 

[noble cookie]

I judge someone mostly by whether their an asshole or not, never if their a virgin, I couldn't care less, tbh.

 

[holy_secret]

I would like to have sex with a virgin
But their just people. People whose flower needs a pluckin'.

 

[megaraccoon]

people will shag when they want who cares if they are virgins don't make them any less human personally though im so glad not to be a virgin cuz sex with me missus is just to damn fun.