Poll: How do you see virgins?
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haha well i have heard some ridiculously nasty stuff about girls i would have never dreamed them doing that kind of stuff with those kinds of dudes, so after hearing so many different things about a lot of girls i tend to"check out the properties history before i purchase it"Flare Phoenix said:
You shouldn't have any view on Virgins in general, because you don't know shit about them or their reasons for being one. There are too many factors at play for you to have a view on them, trying to sum them all up as either choosing too or lacking social skills is ridiculous.
I have no strong feelings, one way or the other. In any case, I see them as my brethren, as I am one. Also:
a) If they're holding onto their virginity by choice (religion, marriage, finding the right person), I think they're wasting their time. Then again, it's their choice.
b) If they're virgins not by choice (various personality types, physical appearance, basically anything here [http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AcceptableLifestyleTargets]), I feel bad for you, but it gets better or worse, depending on the choices you make.
a) If they're holding onto their virginity by choice (religion, marriage, finding the right person), I think they're wasting their time. Then again, it's their choice.
b) If they're virgins not by choice (various personality types, physical appearance, basically anything here [http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AcceptableLifestyleTargets]), I feel bad for you, but it gets better or worse, depending on the choices you make.
God guys, I thought you realised people viewed you as a hideous sub-species. >_>RedEyesBlackGamer said:
Anyways, I really don't care one way or another if a person is a virgin. I was one until recently, and I haven't noticed anything overly different. Oh, wait; virgins can't sing THIS:
They just haven't had sex. I mean, if they're particularly old, perhaps, it's odd, but there isn't anything bad about it. Big deal.
If in an appropriate conversation it comes up that someones a virgin I'm like "Huh, how about that" and don't give it a second thought.
The only virgins I do view differently are the ones that have allowed the desire for loosing it to become part of their personality and bring it up in every single conversation.
The only virgins I do view differently are the ones that have allowed the desire for loosing it to become part of their personality and bring it up in every single conversation.
Virgins? Me! That's how I see them!
But really, you can't just look at a person who's a virgin and say that "they're this" or "they're that". I'm pretty sure that I'm a virgin simply because I chose to not bother myself with sexual relationships, or any at all, because I had way more important things to care about. Maybe inside, it's because I'm pathetic or unattractive, probably both. But I have made a conscious decision to avoid them because I really can't be bothered. My life isn't especially on track, and adding another layer in the form of a girlfriend would most likely only complicate things even more.
While I would like to, it certainly isn't my focus.
I'm sure that some virgins are like me in that they just don't want to be bothered at this point. There are probably another many that are young and innocent and have no desire for it. And it certainly doesn't surprise me that the fat ugly depressing nerds may be virgins. Especially the ones that don't shower?
Ugh.
All I can say is that while the human subconscious is a force to be reckoned with, and assumptions will happen, you shouldn't think those in the front of your mind. I prefer not to make those assumptions.
But really, you can't just look at a person who's a virgin and say that "they're this" or "they're that". I'm pretty sure that I'm a virgin simply because I chose to not bother myself with sexual relationships, or any at all, because I had way more important things to care about. Maybe inside, it's because I'm pathetic or unattractive, probably both. But I have made a conscious decision to avoid them because I really can't be bothered. My life isn't especially on track, and adding another layer in the form of a girlfriend would most likely only complicate things even more.
While I would like to, it certainly isn't my focus.
I'm sure that some virgins are like me in that they just don't want to be bothered at this point. There are probably another many that are young and innocent and have no desire for it. And it certainly doesn't surprise me that the fat ugly depressing nerds may be virgins. Especially the ones that don't shower?
Ugh.
All I can say is that while the human subconscious is a force to be reckoned with, and assumptions will happen, you shouldn't think those in the front of your mind. I prefer not to make those assumptions.
Bathing in their blood in the moonlight on the shade of the revenant can allow eternal youth. They're fine in my book.
Hehe, it's a good point though. The gays are set, but the rest of us just have to be losers I guess. You have to feel sorry for women sometimes though: if they don't have sex, they are considered a prude; if they do have sex, they are considered a slut.A Weakgeek said:
Given how easy it is to lose your virginity (seriously, just go hire a hooker if you're that desperate), I really haven't had the desire to lose it yet. Partly because the right girl has yet to come along, and partly because I got better things to do then go around chasing girls hoping one of them will let me screw her.
