Poll: How Many Of You Are On Speaking Terms With Your Ex(es)?

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pineom1

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With one I'm on speaking terms and until she got a boyfriend "other" terms. With my most recent one no because she still had feelings for me and stuff happened which I'd rather not elaborate on, I'd talk to her but she won't talk to me. The one I'm on terms with dumped me, and my most recent one was mutual.
 

Mister Benoit

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Meh, depends how long I was with the person or if I still actually care to talk to them.

This one girl whom I dated for 4 years it took me a long time before I could have a civil conversation with her, we don't talk a ton but every now and then drop each other a message just to keep up.
 

LawlessSquirrel

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I am, although we don't talk much. I sense passive hostility every now and then, but for the most part we're still friends.

I hear a lot about how you can't be friends with your ex...I don't get it to be honest. How bad does your breakup have to be that you never want to see each other again?
 

Quaxar

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Admiral Stukov said:
No, she moved to Canada, I think that answers it.
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Had to be said!

OT: No. After over one year of her running to me for her various problems, mainly whining about her bf, she decided to ignore me about two months ago.
*shrugs* Good for me I guess.
 

Jack and Calumon

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Andy of Comix Inc said:
For a long time, we weren't. Then something happened I didn't even notice and all of a sudden we're best friends. There's no sexual tension, there's a bit of awkwardness but I think what happened was we realized that the break-up was mutually beneficial - that we were young and stupid and experimenting - and so it went from "I hate you so much how could you leave me" to "thanks for ending it before it got too out of hand, friend."

Relationships are weird...

Jack and Calumon said:
Calumon: X-Rays are scary! They show you're bones and stuff. :S
I can't believe that, after numerous and countless dirty threads, participating in sexually and emotionally-charged adult conversations, Calumon has still not picked up on even the most basic of adult terminology. What are you feeding that guy?!
Pasty and baked goods, but Blindfolds keep everything pure. Earmuffs work too!

Calumon: Adult conversations? You mean like numbers and boring work stuff?
 

MissDK

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Not at all... So far I've dated the cheater AND the beater, so I don't get along with them very well XD My current boyfriend is super sweet though!
 

MissDK

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Not at all... So far I've dated the cheater AND the beater, so I don't get along with them very well XD My current boyfriend is super sweet though!
 

Woodsey

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Laurie Barnes said:
Yes I am on speaking terms with my exes, one of them plays DND with me and my other friends, and she is hot. The worst part is there is still a lot of sexual tension, and I still have feelings for her, so sometimes I think it might be better if we didn't hang out at all.
DETACH YOURSELF!

TheXRatedDodo said:
Still in touch with my last 2 ex's, don't really have much in the way of a middleground though, we're just civil and talk a little and then whatever I end up talking about inevitably weirds them out.

Talking about spirituality in the western world obviously isn't okay with people. \o/
Eh, whatever. ^_^
How do you manage to get from a simple, civil conversation on to spirituality?

OT: After a while, you just stop giving a shit. So yeah, most I think, if I come face-to-face with them.
 

Spade Lead

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I have two exes that I speak to regularly. Other than those two, and one that I rarely talk to (I haven't spoken to her in over 6 months), I don't speak to any of my exes. In fact, my ex-fiance I have purposely driven out of my life.
 

Cain_Zeros

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I am not. In the case of the latest one I wish I was, but that's how things go I guess...
 

ace_of_something

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Well most of them I would talk to them if I ran into them or whathaveyou but it's not like I'm actively communicated with them.
 

fordneagles

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Swollen Goat said:
Yes, I still speak with my ex-wife. Our personalities still mesh wonderfully, but our lifestyles couldn't be more opposite (me-let's plan ahead and save some money. her-WHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE) so that's why we're not together any more.
Pretty much this, except it's my ex-boyfriend. Coincidentally we're still housemates and we still get on amazingly well, we were always besties first and lovers second, so when the relationship ended we had the bestie thing to fall back too :) He's the only boyfriend I've had outside of high school and the only one I still talk to. Guess the maturity you gain when you're thrown into the real world helps a lot :D I don't have anything against the boyfriends I had in high school, we just grew apart (mostly after the relationship) so I don't really see them anymore.
 

fatmrbunko

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we slowly started talking and then she had a hate me like me thing going on and today for the 1st time since 'it' happened she actually hugged me which was reaaaaally surprising and kinda uncomfortable
 

notyouraveragejoe

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I'm good friends with one of my exes and relatively good friends with another. Really I'm only not on speaking terms with one ex cuz I've been generally avoiding her since we broke up since even though she dumped me she's still very clingy and very annoying. Though really I try to stay friends with my exes because in my mind I must have liked them to have gone out with them so they'll still make good friends.
 

FamoFunk

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With two of them yes, one I talk to on a regular basis and still see ocasionally the other; we'll talk if we just so happen to see eachother etc. and it's always friendly :)

Some others - I wouldn't even know if I walked past them in the street.