Poll: How Many Of You Are On Speaking Terms With Your Ex(es)?

[The Afrodactyl]

I still speak to all three of my exes.

1 - lots of sexual tension there, but still kinda comfortable to talk to one another.
2 - nothing really happened, so we went back to how we were before the "relationship".
3 - very, very awkward due to some pregnancy *cough* scares, but we manage.

 

[Jamboxdotcom]

well, my first ex is one of my best friends and married to my (#1) best friend. my most recent ex, however, despite being a much more amicable breakup, and our having been extremely close even before we started dating, won't talk to me at all. weird.

 

[Zaik]

One yes, another I talk to on a really limited basis because restricting it to a minimum keeps it more interesting for me, and the rest no.

 

[Penguinness]

Not really, I don't really count her as an ex anymore either. I think it's that we didn't really have much to talk about that ended it in the first place!

I'm not sure I would be on speaking terms with exes, I mean it'll prolly just hurt if they start speaking to you all friendly and casual after breaking up. Depends on how serious the relationship was, how long it lasted, and if we were really good friends beforehand.

 

[HentMas]

Yes of course, i always treat kindly the females in my life in the hopes of ever being able to nail them again

who wouldnt??

[/joke]

na, to be fair, we always broke up because of stupid things, so when i found them again i would laugh and chat with them as if nothing ever happened, hell, i am divorced and still hang out with my ex wife and my son, just last sunday we went to a pool party with other mutual friends, we are good friends, we just never worked as a couple... and that is true with all the girls that were part in my life.

 

[Abbyrose07]

Not with either of them...if I see them around town we pretend not to know each other...lol.

 

[NezumiiroKitsune]

Speaking terms yes, but for reasons unrelated to breaking up, we don't talk often. It's now often months between ever seeing each other. Going to university has made this true of many friends however, only a few have stayed in touch online properly (as in more than the occaisonal like and comment on facebook).

 

[Rayne870]

I am with 2 of a few. 1 it's an acquaintance sort of thing not much of note there. The other...every time something bad happens in her life she comes crying to me and I don't have time to fix her problems anymore, especially when I wrote a 6 page letter describing everything that the jerk she went off with would tear apart in her life. She still suffers from all of that, and I feel bad that I can't be what she needs anymore...but yup that's going on.

 

[Penguinness]

Have to post because this thread now keeps putting this song into my head when I see it:

 

[Astoria]

One of my exs one of my best friends and the other I don't talk to but that's because we just ended up with different group in high school, it wasn't a bad break up or anything like that.

 

[DustyDrB]

One of my exes is married now so that's just kind of awkward. The ones that are still in the same area as me are also ones that I had an ugly breakup with. We most definitely do not speak.

 

[Creator002]

Sort of, but mainly no because she's in Darwin and I'm in Melbourne. We chat on Facebook and MSN once in a blue moon.

 

[Zaverexus]

Only one really, and we are very close friends.
Another I see frequently so we have to at least exchange a word or two (literally just one or two) but she still annoys me to death so I try to avoid it.
Another may occasionally text me, but I don't even respond any more, I avoid her like the plague; in fact, I can't be sure which is worse.

 

[ThatLankyBastard]

Actually, me and my Ex are best friends!

We just broke up because the relationship wasn't really going anywhere... She's more like a sister than a lover I guess!

 

[zfactor]

Where's the option for "I don't have any?" Because that is mine...