Poll: I need a second opinion on this.

[joe the janitor]

I need a second opinion on this. I'm thinking of phoning this girl I don't know very well (I do know her a little) on a date. I think she likes me because she wrote her name and a heart in my note book. I didn't have the guts to ask her during the end year dance (I didn't care if anyone found out I was just to nervous to ask her). I don't know her phone number, I don't know where she lives, and it's summer vacation. I think I found her in the phone book BUT, would it be a bit weird for someone she didn't know to well to phone her and ask her to hangout?


PLEASE! No one tell what I should have done instead of waiting for the last minute to ask (also if you have nothing good to say don't say anything at all).

 

[Cliff_m85]

Sure, why not.

 

[Noamuth]

It'd be a bit weird, considering she didn't give you her number.. But I reckon it's worth a shot.

 

[Hazy]

Theres a good chance she likes you then. But if you're not sure, still phone her, just don't say "Hey, wanna go out."
Just treat it as a casual get together, and let things develop.

 

[OMGaNOODLE]

Visit her in person first. She may think you're stalking her or something.

 

[joe the janitor]

Thx for the advice!!

 

[Scobie]

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[captainwalrus]

You should ask her in person. Phoning her when you don't actually have her number is kinda weird. Either ask her in person, or ask someone for her number, so if she gets creeped out, you have a kinda valid excuse.

 

[DarkFenix]

I'd say try and find her MSN or Facebook info and maybe talk a bit more you might be able to get the number that way. I only suggest this as looking it up in the phone book could seem a bit weird? But either way I'd go for it you really haven't got much to lose. Plus its better knowing then spending the summer wondering if your missing out. Good luck

 

[brodie21]

dude, take a chance and see what happens, the worst she could say is no.

 

[Avatar Roku]

Look her up on Facebook/Myspace and friend her, that's a good deal less creepy than calling her when she didn't give you her number.

 

[joe the janitor]

I'd say try and find her MSN or Facebook info and maybe talk a bit more you might be able to get the number that way. I only suggest this as looking it up in the phone book could seem a bit weird? But either way I'd go for it you really haven't got much to loose. Plus its better knowing then spending the summer wondering if your missing out. Good luck

Good point.

 

[Kpt._Rob]

I'd say try and find her MSN or Facebook info and maybe talk a bit more you might be able to get the number that way. I only suggest this as looking it up in the phone book could seem a bit weird? But either way I'd go for it you really haven't got much to loose. Plus its better knowing then spending the summer wondering if your missing out. Good luck

Seconded. Looking up her number in the phone book will either seem creepy or desperate to her, and neither of those is a vibe you're going to want to give off. Not only that, but if you give off that vibe to her, she'll probably talk to other girls at your school too, meaning that some of them may begin to find you creepy or desperate as well. Try to find her on Facebook, or if you know one of her friends, ask them about her, if they can tell you're interested in her, chances are they'll talk to her for you, and things will progress on their own.

 

[Ayrav]

If you want to make an omelet you have to break some eggs. Go for it the worst that can happen is that she'll say no. Plus, girls like a boy that will put themselves out there.

 

[joe the janitor]

She only has one other friend at school. In other words shes not one of the popular girls that gossips a lot.

 

[AkJay]

Well, i guess if she asks how you got her number, then you could just tell her she gave it to you, and must have forgotten.

 

[joe the janitor]

Well, i guess if she asks how you got her number, then you could just tell her she gave it to you, and must have forgotten.

Shes not dumb

 

[pantsoffdanceoff]

I see you believe you are under threat of being known as a number hoarder.

Number Hoarder (Slang: # Hoe): A social term used for someone who acquires numbers without the owner's knowledge, and thus comes off on bad terms when any talk arises out of said "hoarded" number. If played badly they can be of sub-stalker status. (See Stalker, Random Enounter, Prank Calls).

Well, i guess if she asks how you got her number, then you could just tell her she gave it to you, and must have forgotten.

Sir Seal provides an excellent way to circumvent this. But really if she's interested then she shouldn't ask at all. Seriously, if Megan Fox called you up, would you really care how she got your number?

 

[riskroWe]

The facebook/myspace idea could work.

Or if you feel evil; use the phone book number, and if she asks "how did you get this number?" you say she gave it to you a while ago but you'd forgotten (and clearly she had too), and you just came across it while sorting through stuff, and it reminded you of how much you wanted to go out with her and you feel really awkward but you believe it's the last chance you'll have with her.

I give no guarantees though.

EDIT: AkJay... ninja'd...