Poll: If a member of the opposite sex came up to you right now...

[SamtheDeathclaw]

I have morals, so that'd be a no. ]: But I DO love how inclusive the original post is, that's pretty awesome.

 

[PhunkyPhazon]

This is a toughie. My body is screaming "FUCK YES!", but my mind is rather worried for this girls' mental state. I guess I'll say no, but it's not absolute.

 

[Mr Shrike]

I wouldn't to be honest... I'm kinda taken. Not in a relationship, per se, but taken.

 

[Riobux]

Nope. I'm just not into the idea of meaningless sex.

 

[Frotality]

well obviously i would be very skeptical as to the truth in this question..i would have to assume something was up...its more than likely that i would wake up in a tub of ice with a missing kidney or something.

of course, im far, far, far too desperate to care, so yes, in a heartbeat.

 

[Stalk3rchief]

I don't know. I mean, every Animal/Male instinct and hormone would try and force me to say yes, but in my experience, when a girl comes on that randomly and that strong it's generally either a bad idea or just not worth (IE, she's hollowed out and not good to get that close to in the first place.)

 

[Flying Dagger]

Wouldn't screw up what I've got with my girlfriend for something I could get from her tbh.

I can't stand seeing her upset so wouldn't do something stupid like that.

 

[DYin01]

Right now? No no, I've got a lovely girlfriend.

If I was single? Depends on my mood, I suppose.

 

[Caligulove]

So would it always go straight to the 'never seen again' part when you have sex with them?

Cos I would say that I wouldn't for the sake of getting to know them better and getting an actual, lasting and better long-term sexual relationship with this person- though if they would always mysteriously vanish the first time I slept with them... that changes things.

Would I want to get to see someone multiple times and garner a better experience and fonder memories, or a single, shorter memory with some good sex

 

[Lexodus]

Nope.

Let's just say after a very STRICT catholic school upbringing (They wouldn't even let me wear shoes that were any color but gray, white, or black for Christ's sake!) I'm pretty much not going to have sex before marriage. Feel free to say it's stupid or whatever, but hey, at least it's practicing patience and restraint in a way...

Nah, it's hurting yourself by denying your own physical needs and teaching you that you're a horrible, horrible person and sex is bad, wrong and will make you go to hell, etc., and it builds your expectations up to this whole massive epic deal, and when it happens you'll be horribly disappointed. Sex is a big part of a functional relationship, particularly because you find out what you like, and whether you're compatible with your chosen partner. Worse still, loads of people will rush into a marriage just to get to the sex, and, particularly if they're part of a religion or denomination which frowns upon divorce, they're pretty much stuck there. Also, if you can see how fucking ridiculous your upbringing was (shoes), why not this?


OT: Sure, although I'd be surprised as to how they got into my bathroom without my family knowing.

Eh, still, I see sex before marriage leading to more problems anyways, I'd just prefer to wait at this point. Besides, having sex with someone you honestly care for and love is probably better then just casual sex for pleasure with whomever anyways.

Why would you assume that having sex before you were married would have to be with somebody casually?

 

[Katherine Kerensky]

-Snip-
Well. Note to self: cancel that trip to Grey's >_>

There goes my weekend plans.

Oh, but the scenario I was answering for would be if a stranger came up and asked me for such an out of the question thing <3
In which case they would be leaving in more pieces than they met me as <3