Poll: If a member of the opposite sex came up to you right now...

[pulse2]

Where is the 'Who the f are you? And nahthanks, being so forward you are likely to have HIV' option?

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

It's Christmas eve, I just came out of the shower, and my whole family are in the house.
So er...probably not? xD haha.

But heyho, I'm free on the 29th?!

 

[CRoone]

There's a time and place for casual encounters, but I don't go for strangers or acquaintances. I'm asexual, anyway (I'm not aromantic, but that's a different story).

 

[Icehearted]

Spoiler: I would refuse...

...for fear of burning pee.

 

[Lexodus]

Nope.

Let's just say after a very STRICT catholic school upbringing (They wouldn't even let me wear shoes that were any color but gray, white, or black for Christ's sake!) I'm pretty much not going to have sex before marriage. Feel free to say it's stupid or whatever, but hey, at least it's practicing patience and restraint in a way...

Nah, it's hurting yourself by denying your own physical needs and teaching you that you're a horrible, horrible person and sex is bad, wrong and will make you go to hell, etc., and it builds your expectations up to this whole massive epic deal, and when it happens you'll be horribly disappointed. Sex is a big part of a functional relationship, particularly because you find out what you like, and whether you're compatible with your chosen partner. Worse still, loads of people will rush into a marriage just to get to the sex, and, particularly if they're part of a religion or denomination which frowns upon divorce, they're pretty much stuck there. Also, if you can see how fucking ridiculous your upbringing was (shoes), why not this?


OT: Sure, although I'd be surprised as to how they got into my bathroom without my family knowing.

 

[The Unworthy Gentleman]

Yes. I'm single, she's what I define as attractive and she's up for it. I don't see why I'd say no in that situation. Ii's not degrading at all to have some strange.

 

[Twilight_guy]

No. I don't trust anyone this forward and it's quiet clear that this is a confused or unstable girl so I'm not going to take advantage of that.

 

[Sebenko]

As long as it's my definition of attractive (i.e. geeky), and she's ok with a camera (What? It's my boyfriend's one condition for this sort of thing to happen.).

 

[XJ-0461]

No. I'd much rather be with my girlfriend than some random woman.

 

[EchetusXe]

I think most people would say either "yes", "no thank you, I'm a rapist and so I prefer non-consensual sex" or "I am paranoid that my girlfriend will see this post somehow and so I'll say no".

 

[LadyRhian]

No. Just NO. Even if they were hot and attractive to me, I would have to know them a hell of a lot better before I would jump into bed with just anyone, even a hot and attractive someone. For us women, there's a fear of pregnancy. For anyone, there is a fear of STDs. And if someone just ran up to me and said the equivalent of "Let's Boink!" I'd have to worry about their sanity and mental health as well. Screwing or wanting to screw someone you just don't know is something only nymphomaniacs do (and their male equivalent, which I think is called Satyriasis), and that's not healthy.

Who wants to be a notch on the bedpost or a mark on someone's wall? Not me, and I have a better opinion of myself than that.

 

[nunqual]

I would feel awful cheating on my girlfriend. Even though she'd never find out I couldn't live with myself.

 

[Casual Shinji]

I'd be inclined to say 'F*CK YEAH', but I would probably feel threatened by this strange girl's assertiveness.

Plus, couldn't we have a little pillow talk before hand?

 

[Fraught]

Only if:

A: I know her.

Dude. OP mentioned you'd never see that person again.

Do you really want that?

 

[alittlepepper]

Nope. I'm in a relationship already and have no need or desire to bed with anyone else, unless it was someone I am already extremely close to and my partner was aware/joining. Even then, very likely not, like 99% of the time not.

 

[superbatranger]

I don't want my first time to be with someone I have never met before, regardless of the fact that they're attractive. I have too much respect for myself.

I'll give that a few months to change, lol.

...What's that supposed to mean? You think in a few months I'll be so desperate that I'll jump on any girl who offers me sex? I find that insulting.