That seems to be different for each social circle, because my friends and me talk about everything incl. whatever happens on various sexual encounters.gaszy said:Surprisingly this is close to true men actually DON'T talk much about what there girls do for them in the bed as its kinda a taboo subject for a normal male convo. Most of those more personal convo's only happen late at night when everyone is super relaxed and even then people still feel awkward. Personally i don't have a problem with talking about it but for whatever reason lots of guys do.
Oh that sounds biased, from what you write and the "at school" comment i will chalk that up to you being young, like in your teens around 15-18? In that age it may seem that way, but that gets severly better when folks get out of their teens, on the other hand "better" might be the wrong word, want I mean to say is both genders are equally crazy when it comes to romantic/sexual stuff, in my expirience at least.Woops some how screwed up this quote chain... anyway I put it mostly down to testosterone/being a dick/girl being forceful Pretty much if a girl is going for your dick and you aren't in a completely clear state of mind (drunk) OR really love your girlfriend its really hard to say no, like really hard. Just the fact that we a programmed to go "SEX. FUCK YEAH GIVE ME SOME OF THAT I WANT TO HAVE IT SO I CAN SPREAD MY GENES" makes it really hard for us. Also you have to realize men can fake relationships, like no joke they can fake the WHOLE THING they just want sex sometimes and usually those guys are the pricks are the type of people I am surrounded by at school...
Well like I posted above, from your perspective it may seem that way, but thats only because you only see one side of the medal. Men and Women are equally selfish, crazy, ruthless, whathaveyou when it comes to romantic/sexual encounters. Just in different ways.EeveeElectro said:I want to know why some men are so... cold. They just seem "Girl A likes me and I like girl A cos she has a vagina! I shall use this! But now here's girl B and she also has a vagina! I've upset girl A because she loves me but I don't care because I'm too busy getting sucked off by girl B! I certainly am not gonna regret losing girl A cos I'm a selfish bastard!!"
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In my experience men go first and foremost for physically attractiveness, superficial that seems shallow or cold like you say, but women go just for different equally shallow things first. For example confidence, signs of recourses, social status...