Poll: If Your Significant Other Cheated, Would You Help Raise The Baby

[Withall]

I'd help raise the child, ONLY if the father somehow made himself short one life. And then it had better be my ex-best friend (and no, I wouldn't be the one that made him short one life), or, if it was my nephew/niece.

Other than that, Fuck that *****. Some more, seeing as she wasn't happy with me.

 

[Mr.logic]

Who in this entire world hasn't made a mistake?

This could be a mistake that would consume your life but I would like to say I wouldn't leave her at least thats what I say now, If the time ever comes to were I am in that situation no I still don't think I would leave her.

 

[Mr.logic]

who are those 3 guys that stay is my question, wtf guys really?

Ask me any question you want. In PMs or in forum chat. I don't care

 

[Rakkana]

I'll never take anybody who cheats on me back.

 

[_Cake_]

If a guy just cheated on me(didn't even get her pregnant) I would leave no matter what. Heck if we had kids and he cheated I would leave no matter what. There is no situation where I would stay with a cheater.

 

[MentalBakura]

I don't even want a child of my own, so I absolutely would not raise another man's child.

 

[dragontiers]

I voted "Female, no matter what".

Honestly, it depends on how sorry he was he cheated though. If he was honestly repentant on cheating, I'd help raise the baby. It's not the kid's fault the father's an ass, and he/she shouldn't be blamed. It needs a mom.

Basically, this. There are a million variables that could change my answer. Why did she cheat, how long did she cheat for, what's her feelings for the guy she cheated with, what's her feelings towards me now, who did she cheat with, what was my relationship with the guy she cheated with (before they cheated), what's his take on the situation, etc, etc, etc. My first concern is whether or not our relationship is salvageable. If it is, I have no problem raising the child. After all, it's not the child's fault. If the relationship is not salvageable, then I have no right to be in the child's life. That would be up to it's parents and/or adoptive family.

 

[HellbirdIV]

Kill them both? Or all three?

Nah. I wouldn't stay though, not my child, woman doesn't deserve my help.

 

[Chevy235]

I would leave. My girlfriend/wife obviously didn't care enough about me to prevent her from cheating. Why would I care about another man's child? His responsibility now.

I'm with you.

She wants to sleep around? Fine, but that kid is her and her boyfriend's problem. NOMB, as far as I'm concerned.

 

[skitzo van]

No. I didn't fuck up, karma's not gonna hunt me down.

 

[Kragg]

who are those 3 guys that stay is my question, wtf guys really?

Ask me any question you want. In PMs or in forum chat. I don't care

how exactly are you looking at this here, your girlfriend/wife of 5 years, or your girlfriend of 2 weeks etc, cause stuff like that matters.

Consume your life is the understatement of the year here, and it is also not a "whoops i made a mistake" kind of thing, this is a huge huge deal.

she didn't just sleep with the guy, she got pregnant, and is keeping the kid. frankly, you can do better, i hope

 

[-Seraph-]

Well if the child is not mine then I'm out and don't care what happens to her afterward.

If the child was mine but I found out she cheated I'd still leave but I'd have enough decency to support the kid. It's still my responsibility after all.

Either way, that woman would be out of my life in a heart beat. When you cheat, you are making a conscious and very clear decision that you have no commitment to your significant other. Why should I stay with someone who cheated on me, what possible excuse or reason can they give to keep me from leaving? None, you can't say your sorry because you did it out of your own free will and to that I say "Fuck you and have a nice life".

 

[Frozen Donkey Wheel2]

No. Here's why:

The kid is not my responsibility because it's not mine.

My girlfriend/wife's well-being is no longer my responsibility because she cheated on me.

I owe them nothing.

 

[Assassin Xaero]

I'd leave, the father should stay and support the damn thing.

 

[HippySecond]

Kill the women then myself... ritualistic suicide FTW!

 

[Mr.logic]

who are those 3 guys that stay is my question, wtf guys really?

Ask me any question you want. In PMs or in forum chat. I don't care

how exactly are you looking at this here, your girlfriend/wife of 5 years, or your girlfriend of 2 weeks etc, cause stuff like that matters.

Consume your life is the understatement of the year here, and it is also not a "whoops i made a mistake" kind of thing, this is a huge huge deal.

she didn't just sleep with the guy, she got pregnant, and is keeping the kid. frankly, you can do better, i hope

I can't lie stuff like that changes things a bit, if it was my wife for 5 years. but if only 2 weeks I would probably say hit the road.

I beileve consume your life was a perfectly reasonable statement. Yes its a huge deal but im not leaving my wife over something like this. the world is consumed by people who would be apathetic towards everyone there needs to be more people willing to sacrifice themselves to try and spread light(and by light I mean Love,Joy,Peace,Patience,Kindness,Goodness,Faithfullness,Gentleness, Selfcontrol). And I know it didn't show alot of selfcontrol or faithfullness for my SO to cheat. but its not showing strong character on my part to leave them the strong thing to do would be to raise the child and love it like it was your own.

Lastly Yes I hope I can do better than A woman who cheats on me. But if that happens to be the case hopefully I am strong enough to do the right thing.

 

[lewism247]

I'd leave her regardless if she was pregnant or not, if she cared so little to cheat on me, why should I care for her enough to help her out of a hole?

 

[sirkai007]

that's really hard to say. I'd like to think that I'm a forgiving person but that's a lot of crazy to deal with. I'm not sure I know what I would do without having cross that bridge.

 

[dragonslayer32]

I am male and I would leave her for cheating. However, if the other man can't support the child, I would probably help it out, It's not the child's fault, it is its cheating mother's fault and the child shouldn't suffer for this.
The gender of the child doesn't matter and the only way i would help support it, is if the father died.

 

[wolfister]

I would turn on me heel the moment she told me and as I was walking out I would yell Fuck YOU CHEATING *****!