female and I wouldnt raise another woman's child espeically when the man I was with was stupid enough to get another woman pregnant
Poll: If Your Significant Other Cheated, Would You Help Raise The Baby
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I wouldn't raise the bastard. But I would call the girl a lot of nasty things (and ask why the **** she hadn't gotten herself an abortion).
If me and her had a kid together i'd stay,and i'd treat the bastard kid like my own when i'm around since it wouldn't be right for my kid to see me treat his half brother badly.
But if its just her and some bastard kid,no i'd be gone like the wind.
But if its just her and some bastard kid,no i'd be gone like the wind.
I said no, although there are various elements at play in this hypothetical situation that aren't really addressed. As someone who has cheated and been cheated on (and not proud of that, let me tell you) I know there are tons of reasons why infidelity happens and some of them are not necessarily the end of the relationship. Still, if it reaches the point where my SO is PREGNANT, then you've got some other issues there two.
For instance, she cheated on me AND DIDN'T USE PROTECTION. What the fuck is up with that?
But despite all that, there are hypothetical situations where I might stay with her and even help raise the child. For instance, how long have we been together? Do we have children? Why are we keeping the child? And how willing are we both to make the situation work?
All that to say, I don't think there can be a blanket answer.
For instance, she cheated on me AND DIDN'T USE PROTECTION. What the fuck is up with that?
But despite all that, there are hypothetical situations where I might stay with her and even help raise the child. For instance, how long have we been together? Do we have children? Why are we keeping the child? And how willing are we both to make the situation work?
All that to say, I don't think there can be a blanket answer.
In the -very- unlikely event that this would happen, I am fairly certain, having talking the eventuality of pregnancy over with my girlfriend, that she would get an abortion. As for staying with her, it depends on the situation and on the person she cheated with. And if she wanted to stay with me. It takes two to tango.
EDIT: How exactly would this scenario be for the female whose boyfriend cheated? I feel like some people were trolling in the poll.
EDIT: How exactly would this scenario be for the female whose boyfriend cheated? I feel like some people were trolling in the poll.
I'd not only leave, I'd probably pull a lion move and eat the little bastard (for once this is meant literally)
Or maybe I'd just throw it in a trash can.
Or maybe I'd just throw it in a trash can.
People are adopted and still have fathers, if someone raises you and they love you they are your father regardless of blood. I hope this is a mis understanding, you could have a proper connection, the child might not be your flesh and blood but it will be raised by you taught by you, cared for by you and interacted with, all with you. In the mind it will be as much your child as any biological son. Your personality will rub off as well as your interests and moral values. I would stay, but it would depend entirely on how she told me and the circumstance of the cheating.tehweave said:
If she's fucking someone else, she's obviously using me for whatever assets I may have. What the hell kind of tool would deliberately enable that sort of behavior once it's made evident? This is going to sound harsh, but I'm nobody's goddamn doormat; that ***** and her kid can starve to death for all I care.
EDIT: However, if something were to happen that would cause the child to be completely separated from their mother and the biological father, I wouldn't have any qualms about adopting and caring for it as though it were my own, because the child is hardly to blame for the circumstances. I probably wouldn't even be able to bring myself to resent him/her, even in the smallest bit. I just refuse to aid in any way that benefits the slut that cheated on me. Is that morally inconsistent of me? Yep, moderately, and I'm hardly hung up on that fact.
EDIT: However, if something were to happen that would cause the child to be completely separated from their mother and the biological father, I wouldn't have any qualms about adopting and caring for it as though it were my own, because the child is hardly to blame for the circumstances. I probably wouldn't even be able to bring myself to resent him/her, even in the smallest bit. I just refuse to aid in any way that benefits the slut that cheated on me. Is that morally inconsistent of me? Yep, moderately, and I'm hardly hung up on that fact.
I'd definitely get the hell out. Not only is the trust gone, but like others have said, you will be constantly reminded of the fact that the kid is the result of your partners utter lack of respect for you, and would almost definitely treat the kid different as a result, and that isn't fair to the kid.
i would forgive my grilfriend, dump her sorry ass....and as she leaves call her back in, and say its all a joke, then dump her again, then id call her at home, say it was all a big misunderstanding....and dump her again, then ill place phony add in the newspaper, have her meet me somwhere, and dump her again. but yes, id help raise the baby, its not its fault that the cheating ***** spawned it, and its another human being.
