Poll: Im in love?

[Mr. Doe]

So fellow escapists. Im very certain Im in love with this girl I know, weve spent alot of time together over the past two years and Ive bought her lunch quite a few times we have alot in common(she doesnt like "nerdy" stuff though.) But even though Ive caught her looking at me with a weird kind of smile (The same kind I get when I look at her) but shes never really said anything with a clear message. I dont know if now is a good time to say something as she just got out of a relationship with a huge D-Bag and Im kind of emotionally crippled. (because the first girl I ever tried to have anything more than freindship with ended up blowing my older brother within ten minutes of meeting him and that prevented me from attempting that again for about two years.) But on that very same hand Ive never been in a relationship or even gotten to hand holding for that matter. Whereas she isnt as unexperienced (which Im fine with but Im not sure if she is.) I just want to know if any of you other people on the forums have relevent advice or opinions.

 

[Gralian]

Go for it, but beware of entering 'the friend zone'

If that happens, you're screwed.

 

[Marter]

I would attempt to start a relationship with her before telling her anything like that. Get to know her even better, and take it from there.

Also, hearing that she just came out of a relationship, it may be best to take things slow at first. Just be there for her for now, and when she isn't hurting, then make your move.

Just my two cents.

Good luck with whatever you do!

 

[Zackary Yakumo]

Just do it! ASk her on a date!If she accepts, well lucky you. if not well...... try again.

 

[Wadders]

Go for it, but beware of entering 'the friend zone'

If that happens, you're screwed.

He's known her for 2 years...

He may already be is already in the friend zone

BonsaiK is your man

But since I want to add a bit more substance, I'll say what I think.

I doubt it will go well. From what it sounds like, you're in the "friend zone". She only views you as a friend, and if you ever hit it off, it will be because you'll be there for her at a difficult time in her life and she will trick herself into loving you as a defense mechanism.

I'd give it up if I were you.

oh christfuck.

I made the terrible mistake of looking at your avatar for longer than 5 seconds, whilst I happened to be listening to this:

 

[HandfulofWolf]

Two years? I think you've settled into a routine now. Sorry friend, but it looks like you're in the dreaded "Friend-zone".

 

[WorldCritic]

I say go ahead and try to talk to her or do something to get closer to her. By the way, why was there a blank fourth option in the poll?

 

[HSIAMetalKing]

I say go back to the blowjob chick bro.

 

[Cherry Cola]

BonsaiK is your man

But since I want to add a bit more substance, I'll say what I think.

I doubt it will go well. From what it sounds like, you're in the "friend zone". She only views you as a friend, and if you ever hit it off, it will be because you'll be there for her at a difficult time in her life and she will trick herself into loving you as a defense mechanism.

I'd give it up if I were you.

 

[Drakmeire]

my advice is that the internet is not a good place to get advice. just ask her out and don't be shy or nervous about it, nothing terrible is going to happen just do it and never look back.
Oh Crap did I just Give advice?

 

[Gralian]

Go for it, but beware of entering 'the friend zone'

If that happens, you're screwed.

He's known her for 2 years...

He may already be in the friend zone

I just couldn't resist.

 

[Wadders]

Go for it, but beware of entering 'the friend zone'

If that happens, you're screwed.

He's known her for 2 years...

He may already be in the friend zone

I just couldn't resist.

Haha once you're there, theres no goin' back

 

[Nmil-ek]

Friendzoned, my advice go get tips from your older brother dudes a playah.

 

[capin Rob]

So fellow escapists. Im very certain Im in love with this girl I know, weve spent alot of time together over the past two years and Ive bought her lunch quite a few times we have alot in common(she doesnt like "nerdy" stuff though.) But even though Ive caught her looking at me with a weird kind of smile (The same kind I get when I look at her) but shes never really said anything with a clear message. I dont know if now is a good time to say something as she just got out of a relationship with a huge D-Bag and Im kind of emotionally crippled. (because the first girl I ever tried to have anything more than freindship with ended up blowing my older brother within ten minutes of meeting him and that prevented me from attempting that again for about two years.) But on that very same hand Ive never been in a relationship or even gotten to hand holding for that matter. Whereas she isnt as unexperienced (which Im fine with but Im not sure if she is.) I just want to know if any of you other people on the forums have relevent advice or opinions.

Ask her to dinner. at a nice resturant

 

[Burck]

Tell her what think, now.

 

[Mr. Doe]

Go for it, but beware of entering 'the friend zone'

If that happens, you're screwed.

He's known her for 2 years...

He may already be in the friend zone

(Scrubs Video)

I just couldn't resist.

That...is...my...nightmare. And to clarify we hung out in like a group setting without any real one on one face-time for the majority of these two years and have just recently been spending more one on one time together.

 

[AquaAscension]

If you like hanging out with her it doesn't really matter if you're in love or not... you've got a friend sort of relationship. Do you want to get more intimate with her or not? If yes, then do. If not, then don't. If you're not sure, then pretend like it's a no. Unless you're sure... don't go for it. People get hurt that way.

 

[Mr. Doe]

I say go ahead and try to talk to her or do something to get closer to her. By the way, why was there a blank fourth option in the poll?

its my first time creating a topic, my bad.