Poll: Im in love?

[Mr Montmorency]

Word of advice from personal experience. Never tell her you love her. Ever.

I'd deduce from what you've said that there's not enough to make a move yet. But you want to keep an eye out for signs of interest. She can touch her hair or her lips around you, or she'll let you into her personal space, even allowing you to touch her non-sexually, like for hugs or you touching her face.

Also, be sure to stay far away from the crazy ones who sit in the corner one minute and are acting happy the next, in both instances asking for hugs and attention, and will screw with your head non-stop with the mixed signals.

 

[Nietz]

Go forth, my child! Conquer, stuff and mount your trophy!
Seriously, why wouldn't you go for it? It's better to have tried than to be wondering afterwards what might have happened.... and blah blah blah all those clichés.
All I'm saying is that answer is quiet obvious.

 

[Burck]

Go for it, but beware of entering 'the friend zone'

If that happens, you're screwed.

He's known her for 2 years...

He may already be in the friend zone

(Scrubs Video)

I just couldn't resist.

That...is...my...nightmare. And to clarify we hung out in like a group setting without any real one on one face-time for the majority of these two years and have just recently been spending more one on one time together.

Tell her the truth, whatever that may be- do not stretch the truth. Do you love her? Say that, but if its just a crush, tell her that.

Even if it doesn't go how you want it to, you will be able to live easier with yourself having told the truth.

I told a girl I loved her (that was the degree I felt for her), and even though she didn't want to go out, we have developed some bizarre yet amazing bond. I was sad when I found out beforehand, but that weekend, I was... REALLY happy. And I was sick, too, but that didn't stop that smile from forming on my face so many times.

It will be how it will be. Go for it.

 

[DazZ.]

Don't say anything whilst she has just finished with someone. Also whoever said get tips from the brother has the right idea.

I happened to be listening to this:

That has nothing on the original! Should have kept the bass from the first at least.
(And add more "Wao"s.)

 

[PoliceBox63]

Dude just go for it, life do be short ;]

 

[Wadders]

Don't say anything whilst she has just finished with someone. Also whoever said get tips from the brother has the right idea.

I happened to be listening to this:

That has nothing on the original! Should have kept the bass from the first at least.
(And add more "Wao"s.)

Yeah the original is pure class, but a mate linked that Borgore version to me on Facebook so I thought I'd check it out

 

[Manicotti]

100 bucks says you're more in love with the idea of being in love than with the actual person herself. Happens all the time and especially to people with no hard experience with relationships.

You want advice, go find out more about this person - or at least tell us more, because there's something about her that you either don't know or are afraid to admit. Figure out if what you two have in common is more important than what you don't, and if it isn't, then forget about a future with her. Better to break your heart yourself, now, than to have someone else do it later with less mercy when you actually have something to lose.

 

[Danzaivar]

I say go back to the blowjob chick bro.

Honestly I'm with this guy, hell yes.

 

[FallenJellyDoughnut]

Knock her unconcious and drag her back to your cave.
Also, relationship thread is what you need.

 

[The Arc of Eden]

Ask her out. I've been in this situation before and fell into 2 worst-case-scenarios at once. The first being She is unaware of your feelings and will start dating someone else after she recovers, before you can even get a word in edgewise. The second being that when you tell her how you feel, she tells you she never even thought of you that way, in which case your screwed from the get go. So ask her soon, and just be genuine, thats all you can do.

 

[BlackWidower]

People think they know what's going to happen. There are all these rules, like being stuck in the "friend zone". I don't buy any of that.

As a great fictional character once said, "the best relationships, the ones that last, are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship."

I mean think about it, you already care about each other, you also have a lot in common with her. It's the definition of friendship and the perfect foundation for a real relationship. As a crap singer once said, "how can (you) be lovers if (you) can't be friends?"

Just ask her out on a date! Worst she can say is no, and while that may seem pretty bad, you'll get over it. It's not like she's going to be offended by your request and therefore it'll kill your friendship. Odds are she would be flattered.

I've been rejected by girls myself, several times, and honestly, I got over it, and we were able to remain friends. So just ask her out, and make it clear it's a real date so as to avoid any confusion.

The best piece of advice I can give you is take it slow. If things go too fast you might scare her off. I know because that happened to me once. Man was I an idiot.

NB: This is coming from a guy who has been single his entire life. Though that doesn't mean I'm wrong.

 

[BoxCutter]

I say go back to the blowjob chick bro.

This is helpful and intelligent advice.

 

[likalaruku]

I may be harsh, but I don't believe in rushing into romance without becoming friends & staying just-friends for at least a solid year. Perhaps you're just in lust with her? Then again, I don;t even believe in romance; it's just friendship + attraction + business partnership. I wouldn't even date a guy I didn;t intend to marry (aka make him pay my bills & do my taxes for me in exchange for sex, food, & offspring).

 

[Mr. Doe]

100 bucks says you're more in love with the idea of being in love than with the actual person herself. Happens all the time and especially to people with no hard experience with relationships.

You want advice, go find out more about this person - or at least tell us more, because there's something about her that you either don't know or are afraid to admit. Figure out if what you two have in common is more important than what you don't, and if it isn't, then forget about a future with her. Better to break your heart yourself, now, than to have someone else do it later with less mercy when you actually have something to lose.

Get ready to fork over the dough than. This Girl and I have a deep interpersonal connection strong enough to override 2 and 1/2 years of me telling myself "Im no good for anyone just get to 18 join the Military and die." Shes funny, quirky, unique and beautiful we have a similar sense of humor, We like the same foods, we're both artistic and we are both of Scots ancestry. And we're both pale enough to make Marilyn Manson tell us to go outside.

 

[DeadlyYellow]

Friendzoned, my advice go get tips from your older brother dudes a playah.

Either that or Mr. Doe wanted a ride on the community bike.

Step up dude. Train Man is not exactly a role-model for romance.

 

[Mr. Doe]

Pitch black cynicism snip

Its definetly not lust I dont think of "Activities" in such a way I have always thought the nature of your emotions should be the first thing you consider when asking yourself should "I try?"

 

[Hiphophippo]

You probably are. Best just to give it a while instead of regret it later.

 

[Manicotti]

100 bucks says you're more in love with the idea of being in love than with the actual person herself. Happens all the time and especially to people with no hard experience with relationships.

You want advice, go find out more about this person - or at least tell us more, because there's something about her that you either don't know or are afraid to admit. Figure out if what you two have in common is more important than what you don't, and if it isn't, then forget about a future with her. Better to break your heart yourself, now, than to have someone else do it later with less mercy when you actually have something to lose.

Get ready to fork over the dough than. This Girl and I have a deep interpersonal connection strong enough to override 2 and 1/2 years of me telling myself "Im no good for anyone just get to 18 join the Military and die." Shes funny, quirky, unique and beautiful we have a similar sense of humor, We like the same foods, we're both artistic and we are both of Scots ancestry. And we're both pale enough to make Marilyn Manson tell us to go outside.

I stand corrected, then. Go ask her to something, and good luck.

 

[Mr. Doe]

100 bucks says you're more in love with the idea of being in love than with the actual person herself. Happens all the time and especially to people with no hard experience with relationships.

You want advice, go find out more about this person - or at least tell us more, because there's something about her that you either don't know or are afraid to admit. Figure out if what you two have in common is more important than what you don't, and if it isn't, then forget about a future with her. Better to break your heart yourself, now, than to have someone else do it later with less mercy when you actually have something to lose.

Get ready to fork over the dough than. This Girl and I have a deep interpersonal connection strong enough to override 2 and 1/2 years of me telling myself "Im no good for anyone just get to 18 join the Military and die." Shes funny, quirky, unique and beautiful we have a similar sense of humor, We like the same foods, we're both artistic and we are both of Scots ancestry. And we're both pale enough to make Marilyn Manson tell us to go outside.

I stand corrected, then. Go ask her to something, and good luck.

You stand at your computer? /wit

 

[BlackWidower]

I may be harsh, but I don't believe in rushing into romance without becoming friends & staying just-friends for at least a solid year. Perhaps you're just in lust with her? Then again, I don;t even believe in romance; it's just friendship + attraction + business partnership. I wouldn't even date a guy I didn;t intend to marry (aka make him pay my bills & do my taxes for me in exchange for sex, food, & offspring).

Cynical much?

100 bucks says you're more in love with the idea of being in love than with the actual person herself. Happens all the time and especially to people with no hard experience with relationships.

You want advice, go find out more about this person - or at least tell us more, because there's something about her that you either don't know or are afraid to admit. Figure out if what you two have in common is more important than what you don't, and if it isn't, then forget about a future with her. Better to break your heart yourself, now, than to have someone else do it later with less mercy when you actually have something to lose.

Get ready to fork over the dough than. This Girl and I have a deep interpersonal connection strong enough to override 2 and 1/2 years of me telling myself "Im no good for anyone just get to 18 join the Military and die." Shes funny, quirky, unique and beautiful we have a similar sense of humor, We like the same foods, we're both artistic and we are both of Scots ancestry. And we're both pale enough to make Marilyn Manson tell us to go outside.

Dude, fucking go for it. Don't even hesitate. Like I said, worst case scenario is rejection. But that is a lot worse than spending the rest of your life wondering what might have been. Rejection is a lot better than regret.