Fagotto said:
Sure thing. I imagine I would still be allowed to adopt though. I'm not interested in having a kid or adopting, but since the kid is already there then in principle there should be nothing wrong with adopting one.
That's a good point, and a way "around" it. What if some people have all the children and "sell" them to others? Then some people might be immortal and still get kids (albeit not biological). It sounds like a flaw if the goal is overpopulation. There are as many people if ten couples have one kid each than if one couple has ten kids.
mikozero said:
so many people adamant they don't want children.
you will change your mind (and i'm perfectly aware that some people will be annoyed by that insistence). it's the biological imperative. the very reason you exist.
What about people who are sterile? Is that the reason they exist? Or do they have no reason? I think it's a sad way to see life. Your sole purpose being to bring more people to the world, who are purposeless too until they do the same, over and over again.
Having kids isn't the only purpose life can have, even if you start with the premise that people need a purpose to begin with. You can bring things to the world other than new people (discoveries, art, etc) or you can be a doctor and save lives, or you can teach other people's children (who might even be older than you, they're still someone's child), and anyways you can adopt, too (the question only talks about bearing children). Not saying it's a choice between one or the other, either, you can be a doctor and have kids, or a teacher and have kids, but you can also have kids and do nothing else, and I don't see why being a doctor and not having kids would be inferior to having kids and not being a doctor, for instance.
Lots of people are better off not having kids (because they wouldn't be able to care for them, because both kids and parents would be miserable, and similar reasons) and it's much better when people are aware of that fact. (Of course you're also free not to want kids if you'd make a great parent.)
Yes, having children is an instinct. Does that mean everyone has it? Not necessarily. Does that mean everyone who has it needs to follow it? Hell no. Many people can make the intellectual decision to fight their instinct if it would have bad consequences in their specific situation.