Of course the immediacy of consequences are relevant. If I walk up to a man in the street and shoot him because he may, perhaps, one day, have threatened my life this is neither morally nor legally permissible. It's the immediate consequence of an action which determines its moral permissibility because we can't see beyond immediate consequences with any certainty. The only likely immediate consequence to sex is a child, not an abortion.kingpocky said:How does the immediacy make a difference? When the consequences occur doesn't matter. People shouldn't partake in actions which have consequences they can't handle, whether those consequences are immediate or in the distant future. Sex entails possibly getting a woman pregnant, which entails the woman possibly getting an abortion, which entails possible "emotional trauma."
Of course, I think that just puts both the man and the woman on the same level. However, since the woman is the one actually carrying the baby, the consequences are greater for her. Thus, her right to not have the baby overrides his right to force her to have it.
Nor have you shown how her going through pregnancy trumps the man's feelings of emotional trauma. Let's say he's been diagnosed as impotent and knows this is his only chance to have a child, doesn't the gravity and permanence of this make her desire not to go through nine months of discomfort seem utterly selfish and irrelevant?