Please see the arguments above. If she doesn't wish to have a child she should either abstain or make this clear to her partners. If she makes it clear then they have no right to demand she goes through with the pregnancy because the consequence of sex is no longer a child and both partners agree. If she just leaves it without saying anything then the she has deceived her partner as the immediate consequence of sex is a child and she should have said if she wished to change this since it's she who wishes to deviate from the presumed course of events.LadyRhian said:Oh, so because it only affects a small portion of women who get pregnant, no it's of no import? And this is only one thing that can affect women who are pregnant. There are many. Basically, you are asserting that if a man has sex with a woman, he can choose to enslave her because he wants to have a child, and she may not. i.e. his feelings trump her right to her body.
That's zombies.danpascooch said:Sure, but did you go all the way through to the brain? The only way to kill a baby is to destroy the brain.BGH122 said:Me, for carrying out that scenario, right now, as I type.danpascooch said:Now the hardest question of all, who is more fucked in the head?
You for thinking that scenario would be fine?
Or me for coming up with that scenario?
I'm the surgeon. I just stabbed the shit out of that baby's eye.
All those poor handless people, or illiterate people, or...Dr.Sean said:If it can't sign a signature, it's not a person.
No, it is still not okay to kill the unborn child because it isn't the fault of the child but of the rapist. A woman shouldn't take out her sadness or anger on an unborn child, not unless of course that rapist was a hideously mutated freak like the 'Hills Have Eyes' way.RMcD94 said:Pro them all, up to birth. Just using their own logic against people.Normalgamer said:So your anti-sex, anti-masturbation AND anti-abortion?
How'd you know when that is?Composer said:to me life begins with the first sentient thought
so take that how u want it
A sperm has the potential to create line.BNguyen said:I believe it to be murder.
It's not that someone is taking a thing that "technically" doesn't have life, it's that it is taking a potential life.
Besides, if it was you as the fetus, would you consider it I'm not yet alive, so I didn't really die, or "you prevented me from living out my future".
Besides, why should a person say, "I didn't want this baby until it was too late to prevent it by using birth control, etc., so now I want it gone."?
The chain is slightly longer than a fertilised egg (by a single step).
Why arbitrary line?
If it was me as the foetus (an utterly stupid conjecture, I hate what ifs with a passion), I would be unconscious or not alive, so either way, I wouldn't give a fucking damn.
Also: "I didn't want this baby because I was raped, and then held captive until I was rescued, so now I need an abortion but it's illegal"
Is that okay to you?
Besides, think of the sperm you stopped from becoming a full-grown person.BNguyen said:to go further, I don't feel as though a person, specifically a pregnant woman, has any right to decide who should die and who shouldn't. If the mother doesn't feel ready or is unprepared for taking care of the child, she should put it up for adoption, not remove it.
Besides, think of it from the unborn child's perspective as if it were a full-grown person:
"I didn't get the chance to live because you "have the right to choose whether I should continue to develop or not". What about the rights I had? I was a person too."
If you define human as being able to survive independently then they aren't human. I'm pro-killing parasites (comatose people). Though I think they pay for it, no? Otherwise kill them.Not all humans are capable of surviving on their own, so the argument, "it can't survive on its own, so it's not human and therefore it is okay to kill" is just idiotic. A comatose person can't survive without machines to feed them and keep their heart rate in check, so does it mean they are no longer human because they can't care for themselves?
Why does the mother's life trump the foetus?I'd find it okay if the fetus died in the womb and needed to be removed, but as long as it is developing and could live, it should be allowed to grow. Only when the child or fetus or whatever is seen as a threat to the mother's life should it be dealt with.
If this is indeed the case then fair enough, let's abandon that string of argument. I'm aware that vasectomy only cuts the vas deferens, but I'm also aware (personally) that doctors also warn the recipient that it will probably leave them unable to conceive. If this is incorrect then that's good new for everyone. More options are always positive.LadyRhian said:False premise. Vasectomy only cuts the vas deferens, the channel that sends the sperm to the penis. You could still collect the sperm from inside the man's body. And you can insert a cell that has undergone meiosis into another sperm cell (after having cleaned out the original genetic material, and use that to fertilize the egg.
If one party (be it the mother or the father) chooses to have the child and then changes their mind then the baby should be aborted, since neither parents wants it. If the baby is afflicted with a disease/disorder which will severely negatively impact its ability to function then it should be aborted, because whilst this may cause trauma to the parents it's unethical to bring a child into the world which will outlive its parents but not outlive its dependence upon their care. We can't tell the future and society may not always be able to care for the severely disabled, this isn't in the child's best interest. The child's best interest is relevant here because it definitely will be born and ergo doesn't just have 'potential' best interests (as a non-living thing can't possess interests), but has real future interests. I'm not sure how the mother's state of mind as altered by hormones affects my initial point, please elaborate. If this is the father's only chance to have a baby this is trumped by the baby's future rights in the case that it will be born incapable of functioning adequately, the father's rights aren't applicable to the other conditions.LadyRhian said:If a woman chooses to have the pregnancy and then changes her mind. I'd say it depends on what is making her change her mind. What if she wanted to end the pregnancy if the baby was afflicted with Tay-sachs, or because of horrible genetic abnormalities? Would you cry foul? What if changes in her brain chemistry brought on by the pregnancy were making her, essentially, go crazy? How about if each of those cases were the last chance for the father to have a kid?
Legality did not figure into my argument, mostly on account of the fact that I did not find abortion to be murder and the OP has nothing to do with legality.RMcD94 said:There are already laws in place that determine whether abortion is legal or not
Of course not, but if you had read...Is it okay for 740 lives to be lost?
It does possess some but not all. I won't define "life", it already has been defined.A fertilised egg possesses no characteristics of life either. (Nothing different from an egg apart from extra chromosomes, and I hope that you really are not going to define life as that)
Google search it. The definition isn't fungible.Define characteristics of life please.
By the way, why can't anyone spell 'fetus'? it's not 'foetus'
A fetus (also spelled foetus, f?tus, faetus or fætus, see below) is a developing mammal or other viviparous vertebrate after the embryonic stage and before birth.
Hah. Stupid USAmericans, fucking up language as per.F?tus or foetus is the British, Irish and Commonwealth spelling, which has been in use since at least 1594.[4]
Your analogy to cancer is false. You didn't partake in an action with another human in possession of wishes and desires relating to the development of your cancer which brought it about.Kiriona said:... Pardon, but didn't you just say that us girls give birth to children? Sooo... yeah, I think it's VERY much about us females, since, you know, we have to carry the thing around for nine months, bend over backwards to take care of ourselves and go through the horrific life experience that is child birth... I think we have just as much right to abortion as we do having a cancer tumor removed. If a fetus or embryo is a human being, then why doesn't the census count them? How come they aren't given social security numbers before birth? And why is it an abortion with humans, but with a chicken, it's am omelet? why is it okay to kill a chicken's fetus and eat it, but we can't touch a human fetus? So many questions...BGH122 said:Uh, because that lump of tissues is a vestigial human being? It's fairly arbitrary that you're female and females happen to birth children. This isn't about women, or women's rights, this is about the child and whether or not it has a right to life and whether or not its right to life trumps your right to govern your own body.Kiriona said:Personally, I just wish people would kindly take their nosiness OUT of my uterus and start paying attention to more important things. Like the fricking economy. Seriously. No one's interested in a girl's periods, of her pap-smear exams... why the hell does everyone suddenly become so riveted when it comes to a lump of undeveloped tissues being removed?
But like I said, what happens in my internal organs, including my uterus, is no one's business. Honestly, hasn't anyone any respect for privacy anymore?
PS. I f-ing hate children... you know... in case you didn't notice... Goodnight!![]()
No, I'm showing that the physical doesn't always trump the emotional. It's also possible that a man can be child-oriented and in possession of an extremely low sperm-count. In such a case a woman aborting his only chance to have a baby would be destroying his hopes, but this is irrelevant. My point was valid in showing that physical discomfort isn't superior to emotional discomfort.LadyRhian said:Yes. Are you equating a man not being able to force a woman to have a baby as "utterly destroying all his dreams and ambitions"?
And perhaps the mother has no possible ability or desire to support a child, but now both she and it will be chained to an existence that is going to be miserable. That does not help anyone.BNguyen said:No, it is still not okay to kill the unborn child because it isn't the fault of the child but of the rapist. A woman shouldn't take out her sadness or anger on an unborn child, not unless of course that rapist was a hideously mutated freak like the 'Hills Have Eyes' way.RMcD94 said:Pro them all, up to birth. Just using their own logic against people.Normalgamer said:So your anti-sex, anti-masturbation AND anti-abortion?
How'd you know when that is?Composer said:to me life begins with the first sentient thought
so take that how u want it
A sperm has the potential to create line.BNguyen said:I believe it to be murder.
It's not that someone is taking a thing that "technically" doesn't have life, it's that it is taking a potential life.
Besides, if it was you as the fetus, would you consider it I'm not yet alive, so I didn't really die, or "you prevented me from living out my future".
Besides, why should a person say, "I didn't want this baby until it was too late to prevent it by using birth control, etc., so now I want it gone."?
The chain is slightly longer than a fertilised egg (by a single step).
Why arbitrary line?
If it was me as the foetus (an utterly stupid conjecture, I hate what ifs with a passion), I would be unconscious or not alive, so either way, I wouldn't give a fucking damn.
Also: "I didn't want this baby because I was raped, and then held captive until I was rescued, so now I need an abortion but it's illegal"
Is that okay to you?
By the way, why can't anyone spell 'fetus'? it's not 'foetus'
Your avatar begs to differ :,DBGH122 said:I hate children too. I have absolutely no desire to have any (I think they destroy their parent's lives, frankly), but that's not relevant to moral reasoning.
Haha xDThe Hairminator said:Your avatar begs to differ :,DBGH122 said:I hate children too. I have absolutely no desire to have any (I think they destroy their parent's lives, frankly), but that's not relevant to moral reasoning.
No, the immediate consequence of sex is not a child. Not for the many people who have sex and do *not* get pregnant, either from not being at the right place in their cycle, or of male or female impotence. So, basically, a woman has to either be willing to get pregnant or deliberately make it so she can never get pregnant, before she ever has sex? And then, of course, she has to tell the other partner or partners (lets not be shy here) about her inability to have a child (if she can't) simply because he or they might be wanting to get her pregnant when she can't be, because she's gone and gotten her tubes tied or some such when he or they weren't looking. Is that what you are saying?BGH122 said:Please see the arguments above. If she doesn't wish to have a child she should either abstain or make this clear to her partners. If she makes it clear then they have no right to demand she goes through with the pregnancy because the consequence of sex is no longer a child and both partners agree. If she just leaves it without saying anything then the she has deceived her partner as the immediate consequence of sex is a child and she should have said if she wished to change this since it's she who wishes to deviate from the presumed course of events.LadyRhian said:Oh, so because it only affects a small portion of women who get pregnant, no it's of no import? And this is only one thing that can affect women who are pregnant. There are many. Basically, you are asserting that if a man has sex with a woman, he can choose to enslave her because he wants to have a child, and she may not. i.e. his feelings trump her right to her body.
As I've said, if her life is in danger (as ascertained by a doctor) at any point in the pregnancy then this takes precedent over the man's emotions and the child's potential life.
That's a terrible argument. It becomes murder only when it's more dangerous to someone else? What?Caligulove said:If an abortion is conducted within the recommended time of pregnancy, before it becomes (more) dangerous/harmful to the woman getting the abortion, then no- I don't think it's murder. It's a bunch of cells that WILL come together and become a living being, but are still far from it at that point.
Uh huh. ARE THEY ALLOWED TO ABORT OR FORCED TO GO THROUGH CHILDBIRTH UNWILLINGLY?subtlefuge said:Legality did not figure into my argument, mostly on account of the fact that I did not find abortion to be murder and the OP has nothing to do with legality.RMcD94 said:There are already laws in place that determine whether abortion is legal or not
Of course not, but if you had read...Is it okay for 740 lives to be lost?
The 740 is the number of rapes that would end in childbirth, theoretically of course.
Now you're just being annoying.It does possess some but not all. I won't define "life", it already has been defined.A fertilised egg possesses no characteristics of life either. (Nothing different from an egg apart from extra chromosomes, and I hope that you really are not going to define life as that)
Google search it. The definition isn't fungible.Define characteristics of life please.