Poll: Is sex an important component of your life?

[searanox]

virginz 4 lyfe!

Seriously. I've pretty much just decided to avoid anything even remotely sex-related, by this point, because it just winds up depressing me. It's all basically completely unfamiliar to me - not just the act, but the ritual surrounding it; I've never performed it before and I'm at the point now where I don't think I could really learn. Being completely repulsive in the eyes of the rest of the world doesn't really help, but frankly since the rest of the population is so utterly deserving of my vomit, I get the impression I'm not missing all that much.

 

[MessiahOfPants]

I love to have sex, but I also love to play video games. My last girlfriend would get annoyed by this. Not that I ever passed up having sex with her, it's just afterwords we would cuddle for a good 30 minutes or so and then I'd get outta bed and start playing games. Usually an RPG or something single player so I wouldn't have to speak into a microphone and wake her up if she fell asleep. I'm an affectionate guy. I love to hold hands, hug, kiss, tickle, snuggle... god it sound really lame after kissing. So I tend to do it when we would go out, or when we're were watching tv. We did these two things pretty often. I should probably stop posting before I start rambling.

 

[Mariena]

If you know me just a little bit, you'll have found out by now that my lust is insatiable.

 

[Ultimateslayer]

I dunno...
Since i've a girlfriend I get laid quite frequently.
It doesnt really loose its appeal but If I cant hit for a week or two it doesnt really matter either.

 

[Andalusa]

I'm a virgin, for 2 reasons.
1. I'm under-age
2. No relationships (I'm a lonely person).

I'm 15 at the moment, but 16 in July. I've never had any kind of boyfriend and I'm not in a rush to get one, I'm not going to jump on the first boy I see when I am 16 just to fit in with everyone else in my year at school.

 

[Zykon TheLich]

Its worse when you?re both drug users and like to smoke and pop pill's [SCUM ADDITION snort/smoke coke/rocks], then fuck like bunnies till the morning comes [SCUM ADDITION: Then do loads of brown and curl up in a happy little snuggly post coital bundle]. After wards both drugs and sex aren?t as good with out some one you love.

Nail, head...and drug bunny women are almost always more...um...interesting, in bed.

It's badness is squared when it all inevitably fucks up though (just thought I'd add that to avoid looking like I'm saying yes children coke, heroin, love & sex is the bestest thing EVARR. It is (IMO), it just then turns into the shittest thing EVARR, EVARR, EVARR)

 

[cyber_andyy]

I'm a virgin, for 2 reasons.
1. I'm under-age
2. No relationships (I'm a lonely person).

I'm 15 at the moment, but 16 in July. I've never had any kind of boyfriend and I'm not in a rush to get one, I'm not going to jump on the first boy I see when I am 16 just to fit in with everyone else in my year at school.

Didnt stop me when I was 14, Ah what a wonderful country the UK is.

No but that isn't an excuse to go do it, just because of your country.

See I was the same I told myself not to have sex with this girl before a certain time when it would be super romantic, but we didn't, it just kinda happened. It was still romantic which is what it should be but it was strange, how easy it can be to be lured into doing it.

I'm 15 now, 16 in october, but I still think that even though I have done it and am older now that I would want it to be really romantic each time and special to do, not too often but often enough y'know?

Also your cats cute.

 

[EvilMaggot]

im 17 years of age... my first time when i was 15... its gets better and better everytime also im in the experimental part handcuffs hurray!!

 

[sirdapfrey]

Every person is different of course. Sex is more important to some than others. Personally, I don't know what I would do without regular sex. However, it is only satisfying up to a certain point if it's not with the right person. Luckily for me, I fell in love with a woman who feels the same about sex and intimacy as I do. So we love to have sex with each other and it just gets better and better!

 

[Silver]

I think sex is greatly overrated. In all senses of the word.

First off, there's people who's lives revolve around sex, trying to score with as many people as possible, and having a new people in bed every day, and then talking about it all the time.

Overrated.

Then there's the opposite, there's people who think that sex should be abolished, and that it's sinful, and horrible.

Overrated.

Then there's the romantic people who thinks their first time is supposed to be really special, and has to mean something, and everything has to be perfect, and what not.

Those are almost the worst of the bunch.

Seriously, it's not that hard of a concept and it's not that special. You take genital A, and insert it in genital B, or whatever other orifice you find avaviable. Or you take genital B, and stick whatever you find in it, or grind it against another genital B.

That's all there is. Sure, it feels nice, it's a pleasant way to spend your time, but damn people, get over it already. It's not that special. Just take it for what it is, and stop making it into some sort of satanistic ritual that is the pinnacle of a relationship. Seriously.


That said I don't have sex all too often, I am a hopeless romantic, and I couldn't care less. I wouldn't mind having sex more, but I don't think it's that important an act. And then I have apparently screwed up about friendships and such, but I could see myself and a friend engaging in sexual activies with no romance behind it, and I don't think our relationship would change, or that we'd go to hell for it.


Sorry 'bout the rant.

 

[curlycrouton]

"It's nice from time to time"

That's me. Sure, it's cool maybe once a week or once every two weeks, but more than that and it starts to get meaningless (in my eyes anyway).

 

[Ionami]

Sex is a good fun way to stay healthy. It burns calories. Oh but in all seriousness i appreciate it once and a while. This chick i work with though total sex addict she had a headache for the last week because she wasn't getting any.

She should be in therapy, because it sounds like she has a history of sexual abuse stemming from childhood. And yes I'm serious, this is not sarcasm.

And I would also venture to guess that she is an addict. Which if she is, should be looked into as well.

 

[LLORTREPUS]

I'm getting laid right now.
And i'm at work.
Multitasking is great, thank god for laptops.

 

[Dr.smallprint]

sex is nothing unless you love the girl. if you dont love her, well your hand can do the same thing

 

[MrHappy255]

I am sure no one has said this yet (sarcasm) but duh... I mean number one if you wish to have a proper relationship it is actually an important stepping block and for those of you who write it is boring, I really hope you were kidding.

Wow

 

[Fraught]

I'm a virgin, since I'm underage.
I'll resurrect this thread in a few years, when I've had sex.

 

[CoziestPigeon]

I've been dating the same girl for 4 years, we have a really good sex life. Sometimes I want it a little too much, but its awesome. I definitely couldn't live without it. If we broke up I would go through a huge hooker/bar floozie phase.

 

[Xerosch]

I had enough ONS to know that sex isn't fulfilling for me if I'm having it just because I can. It's much better when I have it with a person that really means something to me and that I know better than just average.