Poll: Is Sexual Orientation Nurture or Nature?

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elemenetal150

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maximilian said:
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they found the "gay" gene not to long ago. It in itself does not make on gay but all gay people have it there is a number of factors and at the very least this gene makes you more likely to be gay and would be such a primary draw to being gay that it would in many ways be fighting your "nature"
If this is actually the case can you give me a link? I'm not being snide, just curious.

Again with the Freud......when will you people learn that there is much more out there in psychology then Freud. birth to 3.....birth to 10.....birth to whenever it doesn't matter. I would have to say that I agree with the humanistic theories of psychology and say that we never stop developing. The most important and formative experiences of our life are happening right now and tomorrow. The past while important and birth to 3 while important to showing us at some basic level how the world works, have little to do in the large picture with who I am as a person today at 24. Modern day psychologist (except neo- Freudians) would have a hard time saying that the most formative and important period of your life is birth to 3 at all. How can they be when I am not able to fully appreciate, reason through, and learn from an experience when I am not mature enough, intelligent enough, or had enough experiences in my life to put it in perspective until I am older then 3.
Ding ding ding.
Freud was a brilliant man. His work is superceded now and I was using that example largely as just that; a layman's example. HOWEVER, the fact that we cannot reason is EXACTLY why those years are SO formative. Read any respected behavioral psychology - it is all Freudian derivative. Similarly, the brain at that stage of life acts much like a sponge, that soaks up all information as it attempts to build a world to understand. When we hit a stage of maturity (in this case 3-4-5 years old) we start to obtain the ability to reason, and our brain becomes more like a sieve - rejecting things we believe to be bad. And THAT stuff is based largely on what we have absorbed earlier. The strength or type of the building is derived from its foundations.

Also while classical psychologist have an easy time categorizing things in little groups (psychoanalytical, behaviorist, humanist, cognitive) most modern day psychologist and other professions with at least some psychological background and experience know that to truly have a picture of what people are you need to borrow from many different schools of thought which is why there are so many different things you must know to be a psychologist.
Exactly. I completely agree. But to throw out what I said earlier with little to no proof just because the words "Freud" and "classical psychology" came up is to throw the baby out with the bath water. Essentially, my point stands.
I'm gonna have to disagree on anything "brought to you by Freud" While Freud was an extremely intelligent man and by all rights one of the best observers of his fellow man, Freud's own theories where harmed by several factors which is why he is so discounted today. For one Freud was extremely competitive with his traditional German father and got a lot of slack from his father for a lot of things (enter the reason why same sex parents above all else are so important in Freud's developmental theories). Freud like all classical psychologist used not just the study of human behavior but the study of many things (medicine, philosophy, ancient and modern day religions, etc.) to form his theories on how people act. This practice is criticized by modern day psychologist for taking from popular public belief instead of a mass account of individual private belief. Many scholars also believe that the fatalistic and self serving view that was predominant through out Freud's theory was in part tied in to his cocaine addiction and continued struggle with the substance through out his life. (Remember cocaine was a miracle drug back in the day and Freud actually wrote a article about how cocaine should be used for everything and is the best thing that has happened to humanity....before his use ruined his medical career).

You also forget that behaviorist is more accurate for certain behaviors then others (sexuality not being one of these behaviors). The behaviorist way of thinking came out shortly after Freud and in many ways was in response to Freud (such as Jung's theories were) and are an attempt to deal with the word sex in Freud's own theories. Many of the early theories are based loosely on Freud because it was all they had to work on. These are also the most often taught in the college setting (especially undergraduate, and especially at below the 300 level classes)but not the most often used in the professional setting. I am more of a humanistic/existential (with a dash of Cognitive) kind of guy. For me I would disagree with anything Freud said because there are better theories out there that make more sense.
 

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This is really something that needs to be studied but given the fact that I have seen men who used to be gay turn around and marry (a woman) and have kids and live a normal life I find it hard to believe that homosexuality is anything that a person cannot help.
 

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Flunk said:
As has been shown over and over in various scientific studies, being gay is not a choice and is 100% nature. Sorry, anyone who voted otherwise is wrong.

Pretending not to be gay might be a cultural thing but that doesn't change the fact that you either are straight or gay by nature.
From your post, I'm not sure you understand the difference between "nurture" and "choice". The two are not equivalent. "This can't be consciously changed" is very different from "Oh, yeah, it's all in my genes".

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"You're just born that way" is just strategic essentialism [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strategic_essentialism]. Look into gender and sexuality further and you realize that most of the people writing about it (especially folks who support progressive social causes and queer sexuality) identify many elements as culturally constructed. I guess it's good to see the strategic essentialism actually working, but, goddamn, it's working too well. It's really not a simple either/or thing, people.

-- Alex
 

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Alex_P said:
Flunk said:
As has been shown over and over in various scientific studies, being gay is not a choice and is 100% nature. Sorry, anyone who voted otherwise is wrong.

Pretending not to be gay might be a cultural thing but that doesn't change the fact that you either are straight or gay by nature.
From your post, I'm not sure you understand the difference between "nurture" and "choice". The two are not equivalent. "This can't be consciously changed" is very different from "Oh, yeah, it's all in my genes".

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You're just nitpicking. I think it was obvious to anyone with have a brain that my position is that sexual orientation is inherently biological.

Please improve your reading comprehension skills before flying off the handle next time.
 

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Then why weren't there any gay people 20 hunderd years ago, when being with the same sex was unthinkable?
My theory is 2000 years ago we (like dogs) were driven on instinct. Our instinct told us to reproduce, and this lead us to be attracted to females. Centuries later, we started evolving and became more intelligent. Witch therefor caused us to rely less and less on our instincts. Witch opened our minds to new and different things.

Keep in mind both of these are theories. I have no evidence to support them. They are just my thoughts. Consider this before flaming my inbox you twats.

Failasaurus. I didn't type that... Not entirely sure if you misquoted me, or the person who said that though...
 

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I would like to use the wolf boy anology for this... What I mean by this is that if a baby was taken at birth and was raised by wolfs/dogs(records of such an event does exist) that this child would be show wolf/dog like behavior and little to no human behavior... are to believe that this childs genes drove him to act animal like? no it was his enviorment and interactions that made him what he is today.
 

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Seekster said:
This is really something that needs to be studied but given the fact that I have seen men who used to be gay turn around and marry (a woman) and have kids and live a normal life I find it hard to believe that homosexuality is anything that a person cannot help.
Then we have Ted Haggard and the politician from Idaho (Larry Craig, I think).
 

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I support that "Tabula rasa" theory that people are born with a "blank slate" and everyone and everthing around them during their youth mold them into whatever the hell they become. I'm pretty sure it only happens in movies where a kid raised around a bunch of devout Catholic grews up to be a serial rapist. in regarding the subject at hand, if a person grows up around a subtle amount of gay people and their parents are more tolerant of it, then yeah they'll be (but not exact) more into the same-sex than the opposite. If that makes sense.
 

goodman528

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wow, that's a really nice looking graph we have here.

If we really believe it's more on the nature side, then if tolerant gay people, then after a few generations, they will die out all by themselves.
 

Iron Mal

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Suggesting there is a 'gay gene' is ridiculous, if this was the case then we wouldn't have homosexuals in society today (since they wouldn't have reproduced for obvious reasons and would have 'died out' or have been 'selected against' in terms of evolutionary theory).

The most logical cause of homosexuality is that some event happened during an individual's life which made them think 'I kinda like other guys/girls', just like any other major life choices like career, education, family etc.
 

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I much prefer my sexual orientation because it's my choice, not because I was born that way. I'm straight, and I find nothing wrong with homosexuals, it's curious though that a lot of them hide behind 'nature made me this way.'

I dont deny biology can make you homosexual, biology is complex and powerful, but a lot of these homosexuals who claim its nature usually form this opinion when they're young adults and are usually afraid to defend their "socially abnormal" behavior from their peers in a society that looks down on such individuals.

"It's not my fault at all, its out of my hands" typically removes all blame, at least to those who believe it. I think its more nurture than nature. Humans treat sex as an activity not a biological process even though it is. If you like guys you like guys, if you like girls you like girls. It's a choice that you make and in the modern age you don't need to defend yourself.

Yeah there's prejudice in the world, yes they suck. But I'd rather my orientation be my choice and not God's or Mother Earth's.
 

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goodman528 said:
wow, that's a really nice looking graph we have here.

If we really believe it's more on the nature side, then if tolerant gay people, then after a few generations, they will die out all by themselves.
Iron Mal said:
Suggesting there is a 'gay gene' is ridiculous, if this was the case then we wouldn't have homosexuals in society today (since they wouldn't have reproduced for obvious reasons and would have 'died out' or have been 'selected against' in terms of evolutionary theory).

The most logical cause of homosexuality is that some event happened during an individual's life which made them think 'I kinda like other guys/girls', just like any other major life choices like career, education, family etc.
I'm beginning to believe people aren't reading the thread. We already went over this several times -

Genetics do not work like that. Genes aren't shed because of natural selection in humans. Humans can carry genes that appear to have no effect on their physiology today that will show up in later generations. And then disappear again, and then show up again. This is the easiest way to explain it - we pass on genetic material whether it was beneficial or not.

Read a book about genetics before you start throwing out "but natural selection says we'd breed out homosexual genes." Because that's not true in the slightest. There are people who are straight who are sexually attracted to the same-sex in various strengths. They can still chose to be straight and reproduce with someone of the opposite sex. Their genes will be passed on to their offspring.

confernal said:
I would like to use the wolf boy anology for this... What I mean by this is that if a baby was taken at birth and was raised by wolfs/dogs(records of such an event does exist) that this child would be show wolf/dog like behavior and little to no human behavior... are to believe that this childs genes drove him to act animal like? no it was his enviorment and interactions that made him what he is today.
Yes, but wolf boy doesn't grow a tail and large ears and a thick coat of fur. Those are biological traits that wolves have that the human cannot pick up from his wolf parents. Sexual traits and urges are biologically inherited. Behavior-wise, he can learn to be a human again - all humans still possess the function of logic formation and self-conscious awareness. We humans do learn a lot from mimicking others - but it's not the end-all of the influence on human behavior.

@ Maximillian defending Freud

Dude, it's okay. Yes, Freud was a genius who changed the way that people view psychology. But Freud's main focus in life was to define all abnormal psychology under one premise - that your mother or father (or mother/father figures) are the cause of all your problems. That sexual repression causes you to become a homicidal maniac. That cocaine is the cure for all that ails people.

Most psychiatry moved away from the strict Freudian interpretation of psychological formation back in the 60's. There's Jung, for example, who was his star pupil who turned around and largely modified all of Freud's work. He began to even point out a nature/nurture combination in the way people develop in life.

Also, behaviorists are far removed from Freud. BF Skinner is considered the grandfather of behaviorism, and he absolutely detested Freud. They believe that your behavior is the effect of all stimuli - your environment, illness, people, physiology, etc. They believe that people are programmed by interaction, and the subconscious (which is not the Id - it's merely a part of your mind that directs instinctual behavior not necessarily throwing back to primitive or animal-like behavior) is a backseat driver. If I give you a cookie every time you are polite and shock you when you aren't, you will slowly become unconsciously polite (that's a really loose example and not the best one, but the simplest way I can think of to demonstrate behaviorism).

Rahnzan said:
I much prefer my sexual orientation because it's my choice, not because I was born that way. I'm straight, and I find nothing wrong with homosexuals, it's curious though that a lot of them hide behind 'nature made me this way.'

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Yeah there's prejudice in the world, yes they suck. But I'd rather my orientation be my choice and not God's or Mother Earth's.
Well, your sexual urges are biological, but your choice to act upon them is. There are plenty of people who have attractions to the same-sex, but go on to be purely straight by choice. Most of us can control our sexual desires (those that don't often turn out being the ones in trouble with the law or judged harshly).

What strikes me as funny as that most of the psychological community (even the religious people in the profession) don't find it to be socially deviant. Most open-minded people realize that these people have been around in most civilizations that go as far back as proto-human interaction. What most people calls "deviance" is not what psychologists call deviance (there are variable levels of deviance, and what the layman considers as deviant usually leads to physical or mental harm). Sexually DIVERGENT, sure.

100 years ago children under the age of 15 who were gifted with incredible intelligence and the ability to excel beyond most people twice their age were considered abominations. Most of Western society didn't start looking at these kids as normal with intellectual divergence until the late 1950's. Sexual divergence will become more widely excepted with an expansion to scientific pursuits and education in Western societies. It just takes time.
 

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100 years ago children under the age of 15 who were gifted with incredible intelligence and the ability to excel beyond most people twice their age were considered abominations.
Sorry, to go off track, but that sounds made up. What are you basing that on?
 

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Both more or less equal. I think society can shape a person's view on their own sexuality with roughly the same amount coming from nature itself, in the genes and whatever.
 

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maximilian said:
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actually there is good evidence to prove that incorrect that what you are attracted to sexually is wired into your brain. however what IS formed when you are in that age range and going up to the time when you sexually mature is what things you find attractive or any fetishes that may arise.
I don't follow. Of course what you are attracted to is wired into your brain. What I'm saying is that it is defined post birth through that age range (however, it doesn't end at the age of 3).
yeah i figured you wouldn't follow, so i will make it simple

sexual preference is genetic and wired into your brain

however what stuff you like to do sexually, ie bdsm, hair pulling, positions and fetishes and what the person looks like, is aquired

there is a certain optical illusion you can show young kids and they will not see any both images, they will only see the safe for work one, however if you show adults or sexually maturing people the same picture, they pick out the naked women right off the bat
Yes, I also agree with this. However, "sexually maturing" is a bit misleading. You could state that we are always sexually maturing.
If you read studies on children who have been abused, a key indicator is a pre-puberty knowledge of the sexual organs and sexual activity as a whole. More nurture.
wrong out of all the people i know who were abused as a child, including sexually, they aren't gay or straight

in fact most of them are straight

as for sexually maturing, it's also known as hitting puberty

they only see that once sexual maturity starts, before that they don't know about sex or are uninterested in it.
I agree again, but I would say that this is due to a child being nurtured in an environment where the child is not approached or interacted with sexually. Again, studies back this up (also, I acknowledge that I keep saying "studies back this up". Check wikipedia for a brief summary or PM me for a link, as it's nasty stuff).
actually post your studies here, i'm pretty sure they are rather bad science and done even more poorly, i could prove those studies wrong without even trying

actually you once again missed my point about it as well, you ONLY see sexual images once you start to sexually mature or in terms you'll understand when someone enters puberty

oh and there's more than one little boy who had an older sister, who dressed him up or treated him "girly" when he was younger and they're rather straight
Yeah, I know a guy who dressed up by his own will as a girl when younger. He's straight as well. The point is, being interfered with doesn't mean you become gay, it just means power and sexuality becomes different. One of those differences is the possibility of homosexuality.
actually wrong, most if not all cross dressers are actually 100% straight,they aren't gay or bisexual. this has actually been proven by many studies

also homosexuality is also a possibility if you are raised in a great home with loving parents and nothing bad happening

you'd be surprised to know that MOST ppl have had a sexual/power/social altercation with some significance in their lives. i mean there's a whole freaking subculture revolving around this, it's called BDSM look it up some time

the thing is you can try and spread homophobic and frankly ignorant things about homosexuals but every single thing you list can easily be applied to straights as well
I think you're missing my point and falling into the "homophobic" trap - just like I said. I'm not being homophobic or anti-gay in any way. I'm merely stating it's lazy to say it's black and white pre-birth determined.
Similarly, the very fact that it is indeterminate and wavering is testament to it being nurture, not nature.
I.e. don't get rude and patronising with me, and don't fall back on "gay basher", when I'm clearly not.
wrong it's plain to see that you have some very homophobic tendencies and are rather ignorant about the subject of homosexuality

the fact that you cherry pick things to back up your arguments, ie using Darwin's Theory when it contradicts with your christian theology, makes it rather apparent

there is also the fact that you use some old and very bad arguments that are totally unfounded and have been proven wrong a long time ago
 

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I have come to the conclusion after a lot of thinking and research that sexuality is a natural thing; that is to say that we as humans are naturally beings that are - usually - interested in sex. However, it is very, very heavily influenced by upbringing, culture, and, for a lack of a better term, experience. There are a ridiculous number of possible orientations, and sexual orientation is a fluid thing that evolves over the course of a lifetime. If it were entirely biologically determined then we would have a fixed sexuality throughout our lives, and evidence suggests it is anything but.

I'm not even entirely sure at this point whether or not heterosexism is the biological norm. Certainly that's how we reproduce, but evidence seems to suggest that it's not necessarily the exclusive default method of sexual expression. For example, there are non-human species who practice sex for pleasure as much as they do reproduction, and they don't have qualms about non-heterosexual activity. Many human societies have practiced gay and lesbian sex, including ancient Greece and Rome, yet it was only when the Church intervened that those practices fell out of favour. If you stick your bits in enough places and you're probably going to reproduce somehow, but that doesn't mean you need to restrict yourself to members of the species that you can actually reproduce with.