Poll: Is Sexual Orientation Nurture or Nature?

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ceeqanguel

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100% nature.
I'll start off with the twin shocker that each and every animal on the planet (Yes, humans are primates therefore animals) is BOTH hetero and homo- sexual. Same sex unions are seen regularly in the animal kingdom. Anyone with a dog can attest to that. Sex is an evolutionary tool wired into our brains.

Chemistry is the basis of neurology. Homosexuality is actually a multi-genomic sequence that is ONLY PARTIALLY related to testosterone.

I really don't think you can nurture someone into changing sexual orientation. The "nurture"part of the equation would rather be societal: in Ancient Greece, it was perfectly accepted for older men to have an ephebus, or a young boy, as a companion.
It was also a fact that said young boy might grow up and be perfectly hetero.

"Deviance" is only a label a society puts on odd sexual behavior. Nothing more, nothing less.

What we label as "sex offence" are sometimes associated with an earlier trauma but most of the time, you can observe an imbalance in serotonin that could be treated with psychotherapy and proper medecine.
 

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Something should be said here:
I can take a person and once I've gotten to know them well enough, I can often pinpoint, with frightening accuracy, any number of things about them and say "this is genetic", "that's upbringing", "you chose that". I've tested myself on it. Granted, this is a bit of an oversimplification since almost everything about us includes all three BUT when I can take my stepson to a doctor and figure out exactly what goes where (so to speak) and THEN get confirmation from his biological father I'm not doing so bad.

So who cares I'm a freakin' Houdini of people histories? Only this: If you REALLY take the time to understand the patterns of nature, nurture, and choice you can pick them out really well. Everything is patterns. You don't need a degree in genetics to understand the underlying pattern. You just need to understand patterns, and then learn enough about genetics, psychology, and choice to get the pattern of humans.

And just to say it again: If you think it's mostly or all nurture, you do not understand how the human is put together.
 

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sneakypenguin said:
sheic99 said:
This reminds me of my favorite anti-homosexuality argument. "Being gay isn't natural, animals don't do it." *Cough Bonobo and Dolphin*cough*

Well, since we are extremely genetically close to Monkeys, I would have to say it is equally nature and nurture.
Hmmm but just because something occurs in nature doesn't mean it's natural there's always outliers and deviants.For example a mother forsaking her young might occur in nature but that doesn't make in a natural behavior.
Just throwing that out there.
That's why I chose two distinct populations as examples.
 

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All people are inherently hetero...courtesy of Evolution. However, because humans have an absurdly advanced brain, that innate tendency can be overrriden by external stimulus. Pavlovian response can override instinct, as our complex, learning brains learn to assossicate pleasure/pain with certain things. That external stimulus turns some people gay/bi.

Again, that is not based just on religion, but the theory of evolution and observation of animals in the wild.
 

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As a Psychology major (And I want to go to grad school) I would have to say that homosexuality is not "natural," but a result of some bad wiring in the brain. That is not to say that I am homophobic, (I have not feelings either way, but it is certainly not 'good for the species.' (I am an evolutionist and Atheist. I do not think that nurture has anything to do with it, as you can raise your child to be tolerant of homosexuality, but not have the child turn gay. He (or, indeed, she) would just be more likely to come out. If my idea (not that I am taking credit for it) is right, it does not matter whether you grow up in the home of Klansmen or the gayest people you can find. the only difference is whether you come out or not. Not coming out hardly makes you strait.
 

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woodwalker said:
As a Psychology major (And I want to go to grad school) I would have to say that homosexuality is not "natural," but a result of some bad wiring in the brain. That is not to say that I am homophobic, (I have not feelings either way, but it is certainly not 'good for the species.' (I am an evolutionist and Atheist. I do not think that nurture has anything to do with it, as you can raise your child to be tolerant of homosexuality, but not have the child turn gay. He (or, indeed, she) would just be more likely to come out. If my idea (not that I am taking credit for it) is right, it does not matter whether you grow up in the home of Klansmen or the gayest people you can find. the only difference is whether you come out or not. Not coming out hardly makes you strait.
really because I am a social work major with a minor in psychology and am in grad school and that is pretty much the oposite of what I was taught
 

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Bulletinmybrain said:
My cat can reason. Dogs can reason. (Such as, you can train them to say.. Not jump on people.. Same way you can train people to live to a standard. (Again though, dogs and cats are not as advanced as us)

How about we agree to disagree? You will not change my view that animals are capable of thought and aren't autonomous.. (Be it how little thought it is, I am going to say they are capable for the most part)
Uh, no.

Cats and dogs do not think on the levels of humans. Sentience is only found in animals that have a direct understanding of their own selves in relation to their environment and comprehend logical deduction. There's only one animal in nature that has that kind of sentience - humans. Proven FACT, since our brains, nervous systems and cognative abilities are expansive in comparison. Plus, cats and dogs don't produce one-eight our brainpower. They possess very few memory skills, except for repetition response which is sensomotor programming. "Fetch, boy," or "roll over, boy," is largely programming based on instinctual correspondence, and not the same as memory retention as found in primates. Recognizing owners or people they know is largely the same thing.

"I think animals can chose." Not like humans, they can't, because they have no logic formation and information processing that's required for sentience. Hence, if they perform homosexual acts (such as the penguins), it's largely biological and has nothing to do with "choice."


maximilian said:
Call me a party pooper, but what scientific evidence is there for a gay gene or of homosexuality at all? Surely "nature" is a highly dubious was of phrasing "unexplained but I hope it's science". You can't use the non-sequiter that "it feels natural so it's science/biology". It feels natural to me to run at the sight of nazi skinheads with knives and chains, but this extends biologically to my having a working limbic system. What has imprinted that in my limbic system was nurture/experience that has leaked into memory. You cannot navigate around the fact that same sex couples cannot biologically recreate, which, via Darwinism/evolution renders homosexuals as either anomaly or a weaker type of human.

So, my answer: 95% nurture and the rest is quota for the unknown.

Of course, a homosexual will comment stating "I've been gay since birth", but the truth is, if you knew anything about basic/classical psychology, we gain memory capacity at the age of three, and some of the most formative and important experiences of our lives (the way we are shaped) shape us between birth and 3.

Similarly, you would be surprised to find that a great number of homosexuals have experienced what could be discribed as a sexual/power/social altercation with some significance in their life. Now, that's a generalisation, and I'm not resting my opinion on it, but it must be concidered in your own testimony or experience. Also, I don't believe you can formulate a recipe for homosexuality on a "nurture" front. Each human is a complex working and the sexual balance within us can quickly become uneven with little significant event.

Lastly, if you disagree with me don't try and accuse me of homophobia. I'm simply pointing out the obvious.
I don't think you are homophobic. However, cognative development that occurs in humans does not include objective thinking and logic formation. As it is introduced in childhood, we begin to evolve our mental understanding, leading to a period of operational learning. Part of that learning is how to cope with natural biological urges and how to interact with objects and other people. Homosexuality is derived in that period of formation.

As I said, half of it is attributed to nurture. We are shaped by our environment. But our biological urges are not specifically shaped by psychological development. It happens the other way around, actually. We're shaped by the stimuli and bodily changes we encounter in life. So half of it is attributed to nature - we respond to our bodies urges.

You can say that chosing to SUBMIT to your homosexual urges is a choice that you have to make. That is true - we are under no obligation to normally listen to what our bodies tell us. In the case of sexuality, it's not as imperative as it once was. It doesn't stop the fact that our bodies still produce these urges.

But genetics does not work in the way you mentioned it - genes that have no primary function at the time can still be passed on. We don't just shed genes that aren't productive. We carry genes that may cause cancer in children down the line, and may not show up in 1/4 of our children. A whole slew of combination of genes - both dominant and recessive - can produce hundreds of permutations that become evident only when the individual is born and lives their lives. That's just the simple description - genetics is not the mere game of "the fittest pass on all their genes and the weak ones never do." The fittest can carry genes that are considered "weak" that never cause it to have a problem at that particular point in time. Scientific fact.

Jinjiro said:
My view is that Nature and Nurture are essentially one and the same, the procedure of 'Nurture' becoming a psychological cooking-pot for our reactive brains.
You are right that they are not exclusive to each other, and both do play a large part in our development. But nature always has the upper hand on nuture, since we are hardwired in certain ways from birth, and that shapes how others treat us, how we feel and react, and how we must take care of ourselves. There is biological evidence that people are stimulated from their own sexual urges to prefer one gender over the other. How we cope with it will stem from a nurture side of things.

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woodwalker said:
As a Psychology major (And I want to go to grad school) I would have to say that homosexuality is not "natural," but a result of some bad wiring in the brain.
Psychology majors need to read the official position of psychology by most of the world's leading psychology associations (such as the APA) - homosexuality is not a disease and not a disorder. So saying it's not "natural" is a personal opinion, and not one of the profession/science.
 

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woodwalker said:
As a Psychology major (And I want to go to grad school) I would have to say that homosexuality is not "natural," but a result of some bad wiring in the brain.
Psychologists who make value judgements like that tend to be the shitty ones.

-- Alex
 

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Edit: changed back
The whole argument that if there was a gay gene we would be extinct or it would have bred out of us is so stupid. We still have genetic diseases all the time. Certain kinds of cancer run in families, heart disease, diabetes, etc. Being gay isn't a disease but using disease is the easiest way to show what I mean. If survival of the fittest applied to humans the way it applied to animals then that stuff would have been bred out of us as well but nope. Because humans don't select mates the same way animals do.
 

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elemenetal150 said:
The whole argument that if there was a gay gene we would be extinct* or it would have bred out of us is so stupid. We still have genetic diseases all the time. Certain kinds of cancer run in families, heart disease, diabetes, etc. Being gay isn't a disease but using disease is the easiest way to show what I mean. If survival of the fittest applied to humans the way it applied to animals then that stuff would have been bred out of us as well but nope. Because humans don't select mates the same way animals do.
Thank you. That is what I was trying to say in my big post up there. Genetics is not the simple game of shedding genes or weeding them out in humans. Even those that appear to be the most fit and survive in our species can carry genes that are detremental to our existence later on in life. These aren't deformities or anomalies - they are actual genetic traits developed like all other genetic traits.
 

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McClaud said:
elemenetal150 said:
The whole argument that if there was a gay gene we would be extinct* or it would have bred out of us is so stupid. We still have genetic diseases all the time. Certain kinds of cancer run in families, heart disease, diabetes, etc. Being gay isn't a disease but using disease is the easiest way to show what I mean. If survival of the fittest applied to humans the way it applied to animals then that stuff would have been bred out of us as well but nope. Because humans don't select mates the same way animals do.
Thank you. That is what I was trying to say in my big post up there. Genetics is not the simple game of shedding genes or weeding them out in humans. Even those that appear to be the most fit and survive in our species can carry genes that are detremental to our existence later on in life. These aren't deformities or anomalies - they are actual genetic traits developed like all other genetic traits.
hahah I changed that post because you said it so perfectly but thanks man
 

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I don't think anyone is born gay, really. Granted, I don't think anyone is 100% gay or straight...

I voted nurture and a little nature.

Personally, I think it's how you grow up, perceive members of the same and opposite sex, and the relationships you build with both types of members. Close emotional relationships usually develop a form of, well, love, if you will, and I think that can go either way, honestly.

Some people might express that love through sex, and that is "nurture," if you will. As in, I think it's a choice to do that or not.

Instinct I would think would always make you more sexually attracted ("lust"-wise) to members of the opposite sex, but I could be wrong, because I don't know how it is if you're gay/bi/lesbian. (ie: nature)

It depends on the definition of Sexual Orientation in this instance.
 

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elemenetal150 said:
McClaud said:
elemenetal150 said:
The whole argument that if there was a gay gene we would be extinct* or it would have bred out of us is so stupid. We still have genetic diseases all the time. Certain kinds of cancer run in families, heart disease, diabetes, etc. Being gay isn't a disease but using disease is the easiest way to show what I mean. If survival of the fittest applied to humans the way it applied to animals then that stuff would have been bred out of us as well but nope. Because humans don't select mates the same way animals do.
Thank you. That is what I was trying to say in my big post up there. Genetics is not the simple game of shedding genes or weeding them out in humans. Even those that appear to be the most fit and survive in our species can carry genes that are detremental to our existence later on in life. These aren't deformities or anomalies - they are actual genetic traits developed like all other genetic traits.
hahah I changed that post because you said it so perfectly but thanks man
No problem. I also laughed after I made my response and went, "Aw, man, he EDITTED his post." lolz

Valiance said:
Some people might express that love through sex, and that is "nurture," if you will. As in, I think it's a choice to do that or not.

Instinct I would think would always make you more sexually attracted ("lust"-wise) to members of the opposite sex, but I could be wrong, because I don't know how it is if you're gay/bi/lesbian. (ie: nature)
That's pretty good. You'd be surprised how much of our nature is a NURTURING part of our lives, though. When your body tells you to do something, you can choose to ignore it. That's the choice you pointed out. And that is individual's right to choose.

These camps that "cure" people of homosexuallity? They operate on the same principle of cults - they can brainwash you to undo parts of your own personality. But sooner or later, you're going to have to choose again, so it's likely you are going to make the same choice as before. Since these camps can't remove your biological urges - just your perceptions of your first choices.
 

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Bulletinmybrain said:
Aschenkatza said:
Bulletinmybrain said:
I had a longer post..But is disappeared.. sO here it is in a nutshell.

Your science fails.

Physical traits are inherited. Until scientists can blame your sexuality on a gene.. (Which I doubt at this point, seeing as all are mapped out)

That said, the only animals that you see whom have relationships with the same sex are primates and such.. Who have the capacity to think, to CHOOSE.
http://www.news-medical.net/?id=20718
1500 animals species practice homosexuality. Read it and be amazed.
My Psych book has a picture of two male wales going at it. I'm sure I can find the picture on the internet if you really want to see better proof.
"Homosexuality is quite common in the animal kingdom"

Read my bold.
Who have the capacity to think, to CHOOSE.
(Incase you couldn't see it under quote stacks)
Then you should edit your post and get rid of the statement "the only animals that you see whom have relationships with the same sex are primates and such" All animals can think and can choose between different things. It would be interesting if an animal couldn't think.
 

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Alex_P said:
carnkhan4 said:
Richard Dawkins' book the selfish gene advocates that a gene seeks to replicate itself as much as possible. A 'gay gene' would be self-defeating. Anyway, your argument falls down easily, if it's inactive it does nothing and if it's active it can't pass on...
That's only if you assume that there's a single gene and it triggers absolute and total homosexuality. At which point you're working with a model of genetics that has little basis in reality.

-- Alex
Here here! There may be genes that help to push one person's sexual orientation more in one of the directions, but there are a number of non-genetic factors that are thought to do this as well. We all start off as female within the womb, it's the exposure to certain hormones that affect how certain parts of the body (ie. the brain) develop.

Saying that animals have choices is misleading. The question is not whether they choose to have sex with a member of a certain gender (they obviously do, else they would not being having sex), but why they subconsciously prefer having sex with whatever gender. You're arguing that animals make a choice to have sex with a certain gender, we want to know why they made that choice.

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