Maybe I was just a spoilt child, but my siblings and I got the toys we asked for! When we went to the shops, my sister would whine to get a new Barbie doll and I would whine to get a new Lego set.maninahat said:All the way through childhood, girls are generally discouraged from "boy stuff" and encouraged to like "girl stuff", and as it happens, boy stuff consists of technical orientated toys, games and entertainment whilst girl stuff consists of magic, pink and haircare. The process is self-sustaining too - parents get kids the toys they would have got as a child, whilst girls and boys will want the toys they see their corresponding friends and siblings playing with.
Would you support the notion then that girls, as "fully-formed human beings", are biologically more predisposed to like pink stuff? You're an exception to this of course, and everyone is individual in their tastes, but I'm sure you are aware that generally "girly" things are pink and girls tend to get pink things.MetalMagpie said:Maybe I was just a spoilt child, but my siblings and I got the toys we asked for! When we went to the shops, my sister would whine to get a new Barbie doll and I would whine to get a new Lego set.maninahat said:All the way through childhood, girls are generally discouraged from "boy stuff" and encouraged to like "girl stuff", and as it happens, boy stuff consists of technical orientated toys, games and entertainment whilst girl stuff consists of magic, pink and haircare. The process is self-sustaining too - parents get kids the toys they would have got as a child, whilst girls and boys will want the toys they see their corresponding friends and siblings playing with.
Up to about the age of six, I wore dungarees pretty much the whole time, because that's what my parents dressed me in and I didn't care very much about clothes. From the age of four, my sister was throwing tantrums if my mother tried to dress her in anything that wasn't pink. My sister wanted to be "girly". She liked dressing up as a princess and treating dolls like they were real babies. I wanted to be an inventor/scientist/explorer. I liked digging holes in the garden and constructing marble runs out of cardboard.
My sister is now a copywriter. I'm a software developer. We are evidence points A and B in my mother's theory that children are actually fully-formed human beings from the moment they enter this world (rather than being blank slates). Because, in her words, "I treated you both exactly the same, but you were still completely different people from before you could even talk".
So why did my sister choose to like "girly" stuff and I didn't? We were both girls growing up only two years apart, watching the same TV programs and adverts (due to there only being one TV in the house which could only be watched during certain times). We saw the same billboards on the way to school, and were taught by the same teachers. Why did my sister get excited by adverts for dolls, while I got excited by adverts for Lego?Mcoffey said:That doesn't mean there wasn't societal influence put upon you. Look at advertisements, television shows, your peers at the time. Why did your sister consider pink to be "girly", as you said? Would she have wanted to be an inventor or a scientist as you did if she had understood those to be "girly" as well? And if they were, would you?MetalMagpie said:Maybe I was just a spoilt child, but my siblings and I got the toys we asked for! When we went to the shops, my sister would whine to get a new Barbie doll and I would whine to get a new Lego set.maninahat said:All the way through childhood, girls are generally discouraged from "boy stuff" and encouraged to like "girl stuff", and as it happens, boy stuff consists of technical orientated toys, games and entertainment whilst girl stuff consists of magic, pink and haircare. The process is self-sustaining too - parents get kids the toys they would have got as a child, whilst girls and boys will want the toys they see their corresponding friends and siblings playing with.
Up to about the age of six, I wore dungarees pretty much the whole time, because that's what my parents dressed me in and I didn't care very much about clothes. From the age of four, my sister was throwing tantrums if my mother tried to dress her in anything that wasn't pink. My sister wanted to be "girly". She liked dressing up as a princess and treating dolls like they were real babies. I wanted to be an inventor/scientist/explorer. I liked digging holes in the garden and constructing marble runs out of cardboard.
My sister is now a copywriter. I'm a software developer. We are evidence points A and B in my mother's theory that children are actually fully-formed human beings from the moment they enter this world (rather than being blank slates). Because, in her words, "I treated you both exactly the same, but you were still completely different people from before you could even talk".
Your parents may have treated you the same, but our culture very much stratifies the genders, either consciously or unconsciously, and that has a very large impact on us as children.
We're our own people, certainly, but to say that our environment, and those that inhabit it, have no influence on us is ignoring a great deal of facts.
She's a smart woman.Jessica Downs said:Trouble is, I don't think that any forced, top-down change would be effective. I think the best answer for female gamers is to keep plugging away, keep playing games, keep reaching out to other women outside gaming culture who show a spark of interest, and not to allow themselves to get completely hardened to those aspects of gaming culture to the point where they're part of what makes other women feel excluded.
I think you may be missing the point. The issue isn't that no women work at Sony or that the divide isn't an exact 50/50 split. Tons of women work at Sony for one thing, and for another a 50/50 split is unlikely to occur for various other reasons.Toy Master Typhus said:So at the Sony Playstation4 showing there was an uproar in hate email after words, over the fact that there were no women presenters...
I'm aware of the fact that pink (being a lighter version of red, a very masculine colour) used to be used for boys, and blue for girls. It isn't about colour, so much as what colour is attached to. Everything my sister loved (dolls, princess outfits, etc.) came in pink, so she wanted to wear pink. My toys didn't come in any particular colour, so I didn't especially care. Our difference in clothing is symbolic of our differences in more important things.maninahat said:Would you support the notion then that girls, as "fully-formed human beings", are biologically more predisposed to like pink stuff? You're an exception to this of course, and everyone is individual in their tastes, but I'm sure you are aware that generally "girly" things are pink and girls tend to get pink things.MetalMagpie said:Maybe I was just a spoilt child, but my siblings and I got the toys we asked for! When we went to the shops, my sister would whine to get a new Barbie doll and I would whine to get a new Lego set.maninahat said:All the way through childhood, girls are generally discouraged from "boy stuff" and encouraged to like "girl stuff", and as it happens, boy stuff consists of technical orientated toys, games and entertainment whilst girl stuff consists of magic, pink and haircare. The process is self-sustaining too - parents get kids the toys they would have got as a child, whilst girls and boys will want the toys they see their corresponding friends and siblings playing with.
Up to about the age of six, I wore dungarees pretty much the whole time, because that's what my parents dressed me in and I didn't care very much about clothes. From the age of four, my sister was throwing tantrums if my mother tried to dress her in anything that wasn't pink. My sister wanted to be "girly". She liked dressing up as a princess and treating dolls like they were real babies. I wanted to be an inventor/scientist/explorer. I liked digging holes in the garden and constructing marble runs out of cardboard.
My sister is now a copywriter. I'm a software developer. We are evidence points A and B in my mother's theory that children are actually fully-formed human beings from the moment they enter this world (rather than being blank slates). Because, in her words, "I treated you both exactly the same, but you were still completely different people from before you could even talk".
I ask because pink wasn't always a girly colour. Pink used to be a boy's colour and blue was for girl's. It changed sometime in the beginning of the 20th Century, but before then, blue was strictly a girly thing. I don't rule genetics out, but if biological predispositions factored significantly into an entire sex's tastes and attitudes, then a change in colour fashions should hardly stop most girls from buying a bunch of blue crap.
I'm not really sure a four-year-old child is aware of gender norms (or the idea of rebelling against them). All I remember from my mindset at that time was that building stuff was fun and dolls were boring! Similarly, two-to-four-year-olds don't really pick their friends. My and my sister's friends as young children were just the children of my parent's friends. Perhaps interestingly, my sister has stayed friends with many of those people even as an adult, whilst I've entirely lost touch with them.Mcoffey said:Like I said, it's an influence. It doesn't define who you are but it does have an impact. Did your sister like the girly things because they were seen to be girly, and she felt the need to conform to her gender? Did you feel the need to rebel against gender norms? Did she have female friends that she felt would accept her more if she were more traditionally female? Did you have friends that liked legos more than dolls? There are a myriad different reasons, many that we aren't even aware of, but they do exist.MetalMagpie said:So why did my sister choose to like "girly" stuff and I didn't? We were both girls growing up only two years apart, watching the same TV programs and adverts (due to there only being one TV in the house which could only be watched during certain times). We saw the same billboards on the way to school, and were taught by the same teachers. Why did my sister get excited by adverts for dolls, while I got excited by adverts for Lego?Mcoffey said:That doesn't mean there wasn't societal influence put upon you. Look at advertisements, television shows, your peers at the time. Why did your sister consider pink to be "girly", as you said? Would she have wanted to be an inventor or a scientist as you did if she had understood those to be "girly" as well? And if they were, would you?MetalMagpie said:Maybe I was just a spoilt child, but my siblings and I got the toys we asked for! When we went to the shops, my sister would whine to get a new Barbie doll and I would whine to get a new Lego set.maninahat said:All the way through childhood, girls are generally discouraged from "boy stuff" and encouraged to like "girl stuff", and as it happens, boy stuff consists of technical orientated toys, games and entertainment whilst girl stuff consists of magic, pink and haircare. The process is self-sustaining too - parents get kids the toys they would have got as a child, whilst girls and boys will want the toys they see their corresponding friends and siblings playing with.
Up to about the age of six, I wore dungarees pretty much the whole time, because that's what my parents dressed me in and I didn't care very much about clothes. From the age of four, my sister was throwing tantrums if my mother tried to dress her in anything that wasn't pink. My sister wanted to be "girly". She liked dressing up as a princess and treating dolls like they were real babies. I wanted to be an inventor/scientist/explorer. I liked digging holes in the garden and constructing marble runs out of cardboard.
My sister is now a copywriter. I'm a software developer. We are evidence points A and B in my mother's theory that children are actually fully-formed human beings from the moment they enter this world (rather than being blank slates). Because, in her words, "I treated you both exactly the same, but you were still completely different people from before you could even talk".
Your parents may have treated you the same, but our culture very much stratifies the genders, either consciously or unconsciously, and that has a very large impact on us as children.
We're our own people, certainly, but to say that our environment, and those that inhabit it, have no influence on us is ignoring a great deal of facts.
We were the same gender, in the same environment, but we grew up with completely contrasting tastes and interests.
EDIT: For example, I'm a Criminology major and when I was very young, I would sit with my grandmother and watch detective shows with her. It was a ritual for us, and we always liked to do it. It's of course not the sole reason I chose my field (There are many), but I can't ignore the potential influence of viewing Hercule Poirot and Law and Order when I was five.
When I was a kid, I hated everything girly. Hated pink, hated Barbie, flowers, dresses, New Kids on the Block, didn't play with dolls, any of that. All my relatives knew I liked drawing, animals, dinosaurs, learning about science and overall pretty gender-neutral stuff. Yet every birthday, I was always dismayed to open present after present of troll dolls and girl toys I would never want to play with, and it was only the hope for that occasional video game from my mom and dad (who hated me playing video games) that would make me happy. I guess that my aunts and uncles just went with the "default girl gifts" because they had better things to think about than what I might really like, what with their busy adult lives, but I guess that's kind of the problem.MetalMagpie said:Maybe I was just a spoilt child, but my siblings and I got the toys we asked for! When we went to the shops, my sister would whine to get a new Barbie doll and I would whine to get a new Lego set.maninahat said:All the way through childhood, girls are generally discouraged from "boy stuff" and encouraged to like "girl stuff", and as it happens, boy stuff consists of technical orientated toys, games and entertainment whilst girl stuff consists of magic, pink and haircare. The process is self-sustaining too - parents get kids the toys they would have got as a child, whilst girls and boys will want the toys they see their corresponding friends and siblings playing with.
Up to about the age of six, I wore dungarees pretty much the whole time, because that's what my parents dressed me in and I didn't care very much about clothes. From the age of four, my sister was throwing tantrums if my mother tried to dress her in anything that wasn't pink. My sister wanted to be "girly". She liked dressing up as a princess and treating dolls like they were real babies. I wanted to be an inventor/scientist/explorer. I liked digging holes in the garden and constructing marble runs out of cardboard.
My sister is now a copywriter. I'm a software developer. We are evidence points A and B in my mother's theory that children are actually fully-formed human beings from the moment they enter this world (rather than being blank slates). Because, in her words, "I treated you both exactly the same, but you were still completely different people from before you could even talk".
But that is an assumption....Bara_no_Hime said:Sony chose nothing but men to represent itself. The women who work for Sony weren't asked to come present it's work.
That is the issue as I see it - that Sony is choosing to ignore women and focus only on men.