HSIAMetalKing said:
Nobody buys one of these to suggest that their vagina is actually a gossamer-white flower. People who wear butterfly pendants don't think they're butterflies. And nobody is making a "big deal" out of anything-- it's jewelery, and vaginas are as natural as butterflies or flowers. There should be no reason for having this discussion, yet many people still perceive the vagina as something "disgusting" and shameful. You only have to look at this thread to realize this. That concept has been perpetuated throughout history, and whether you acknowledge it or not it has a negative impact on women. Wearing jewelery like this is one very tasteful, very unobtrusive way to bring the image of female genitalia into a more positive light.
Very true- vaginas are totally natural. My vagina is just part of my body, as much as my hands or my big fat beer gut and I think about it very positively- it's just a small physical part of who I am.
But this whole so-called perception of the vagina being "disgusting" and "shameful"- is this not also true of male sexual organs? It isn't an oppressive misconception exclusive to women, and I also don't believe that the relaxation of old modesties has been restricted to one gender, or made harder for another.
And to me, as a woman, I have never felt that public opinion regarding vaginas has ever impacted on me in the slightest way. Not getting paid the full amount for doing a job because I'm a woman? Not being allowed to vote because I'm a woman? These are disgusting and shameful perceptions that should be eradicated.
People can call my beef curtains ugly all they want- I don't feel wearing a vulva necklace would make them change the mind or help me prove otherwise.