Poll: Just realised I am bisexual

[Lim3]

Personally, I find plants very erotic.

Bulbasaur comes to mind (female, of course)

Vinewhip? That other seed attack? etc.

I don't share the attraction, but i can see how bulbasaur could be erotic.

 

[xdiesp]

Pff, so last month. Trisexual now is all the rage.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Of course it doesn't define those attractions as equal, I'm saying that (if the study was true) that it would be impossible to be attracted to both sexes equally.

Bisexuality = attracted to both sexes.

Bisexuality =! equally attracted to both sexes.

Your very limited version of bisexuality does not exist, but that is only because you are using a faulty definition.

 

[Mad Scientist]

The hardest part about being Bi is that you are neither gay nor straight (American Societies two standard options)... In theory you'd think this would be the perfect option for all-inclusiveness but in practice it tends to be more isolating. While you get to share somethings with all groups you also guarantee that you will not fully agree with either main group.

Not that I would change myself if I could as personally I couldn't see any other option in life but... it's strange to be viewed as an outsider in both camps.

Yep this pretty much sums up everything I feel about being bi. For the most part its nice but its not without its share of problems.

You might enjoy this thesis:

https://litigation-essentials.lexisnexis.com/webcd/app?action=DocumentDisplay&crawlid=1&doctype=cite&docid=52+Stan.+L.+Rev.+353&srctype=smi&srcid=3B15&key=575b8c735dadfe34c0a4be5859309f12

 

[Arafiro]

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You got it backwards, bisexual is the normal term and pansexual/omnisexual are dumb overly inclusive labels.

Bisexuals are attracted distinctly to two genders (usually to feminine characteristics and to masculine characteristics, but exceptions exist). Pans are attracted regardless of gender characteristics, or to a broad range approximately equally. There is indeed a difference.

I'm not recognizing the label dude. Bisexual is not simply about attraction to two sexes and encompasses gender as well, it can include attraction to more than two genders, as "gender" is a more complex issue.

Bisexuality already encompasses what pansexuality is trying to be, thus the extra label is useless.

No, it cannot include attraction to more than two genders. That is simply incorrect. "Bi" by very definition means two. If somebody is attracted to more than the two genders sexually then they are pansexual.

If you wish to be extremely complex about it, a bisexual could theoretically be panromantic, or indeed a pansexual could be biromantic.


Frankly I'm arguing the point from a fairly objective point of view, as I personally don't recognise more than two genders at all and thus do not really recognise panromantics. Nonetheless, some people choose to identify as such so it's worth mentioning.

 

[Klarinette]

Heh... I'm actually in the midst of an attempt to brainwash myself straight. Being bi just served as an excuse machine for retarded boyfriends, and it seems to be a trendy thing right now. Not sure it's possible to turn yourself, but whatever.

 

[Eldarion]

I personally don't recognise more than two genders at all

Then trying to reason with you is like trying to explain the sky is in fact blue to a brick wall.

Sorry, thats just how it is. Not recognizing more than 2 genders, I can't even start. Not even trying to insult you or say that your point of view is invalid, its just that one cannot argue with someone who is self admittedly blind to a large part of what makes this so complex a topic.

Although, getting totally focused on one part of the word instead of the actual definition isn't a particularly good position. Words have more meaning than the parts that make them up, but your gonna tell me you don't see it that way either.

 

[thefrizzlefry]

to OP: Welcome to the club, hun. There's punch by the TV. We're watching Spaced.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

No, it cannot include attraction to more than two genders. That is simply incorrect. "Bi" by very definition means two. If somebody is attracted to more than the two genders sexually then they are pansexual.

Actually, I think it would depend on what the bi refereed to, and how you define your genders. Most transexuals work to be recognized as their new or chosen gender, so many bisexuals simply recognize them as such, meaning that you're still working with only two genders (just a wider perception of them).

 

[Arafiro]

I personally don't recognise more than two genders at all

Sorry, thats just how it is. Not recognizing more than 2 genders, I can't even start. Not even trying to insult you or say that your point of view is invalid, its just that one cannot argue with someone who is self admittedly blind to a large part of what makes this so complex a topic.

I'm not blind to the complexity of the topic, I merely can't offer much of a personal opinion regarding it.

Anyway, me not recognising more than 2 genders is more to do with my lack of ability to comprehend it than a concious choice to denounce it.
Heck, I'd just be a massive bisexual hypocrite if I intentionally judged people in that way.

 

[BeanDelphiki]

Gay, straight or lying. [http://www.nytimes.com/2005/07/05/health/05sex.html]

If you think you're "bi" chances are you actually "aren't".
Frankly, saying you're Bi is a bit like saying you're a furry; you desperately want to be treated like a minority, all the while navel gazing for silly reasons, but you just AREN'T.

Chances are you're pansexual or omnisexual [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pansexuality]...


Please, don't say you're Bi-sexual.
It's like saying you're "very European when it comes to sex." You'll regret the pretentiousness once you get older.

...You know that study has more holes in it than Swiss Cheese, yeah? Please tell me you can conceive at least SOME issues with measuring people's real-life attractions by whether or not they respond sexually to pre-selected pictures.

I know I'm bisexual. I know I've been aroused by members of both sexes. No study claiming otherwise is going to tell me I don't damn well exist. If it does, it's wrong.

And I don't identify myself as pansexual for various political reasons of my own.

Lastly, you are way overstepping yourself on this thread claiming bisexuality doesn't exist, period. You linked to research done on MEN. What makes you think women's arousal patterns are exactly the same as men's?

 

[HerbertTheHamster]

Just don't join the QUILTBAG people, they're the most annoying dickwads on earth.

 

[BeanDelphiki]

There hasn't even been any work done (to my knowledge) to check whether the male and female methods even measure the same thing -- they just assume that blood flow is an identical signifier for both groups.

Actually, recent research has suggested that it doesn't measure the same thing in men and women - women's self-reported arousal patterns don't remotely match blood flood measurements.

 

[Mad Scientist]

No, it cannot include attraction to more than two genders. That is simply incorrect. "Bi" by very definition means two. If somebody is attracted to more than the two genders sexually then they are pansexual.

Actually, I think it would depend on what the bi refereed to, and how you define your genders. Most transexuals work to be recognized as their new or chosen gender, so many bisexuals simply recognize them as such, meaning that you're still working with only two genders (just a wider perception of them).

Binary transsexuals fit into the binary fine, but you're still ignoring everybody else.

Of course, then you get into tricky little sub-questions about what does and doesn't count as a gender, but either way, limiting to two just because they're the most common ones and the majority of humans are of one of two sexes seems a bit arbitrary.

 

[Freechoice]

I'm a heterosexual male. I am honestly baffled that people find males sexually attractive. I don't begrudge this position of course and I certainly use it to my advantage but any time someone says "sure I'll sleep with you" I'm excited simply because the odds against anyone finding my gender attractive (much less me specifically) seem so astronomical. It's like winning the lottery.

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