Oh my god people. Stop trying to equate youth football to all forms of everything in society ever. IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT PEOPLE. Youth football is there to engage kids in a fun, team building activity. It's not a goddamn test on your grade score, it's not a tryout for NFL, it is a kids GAME that kids PLAY (Sorry I don't know how to make italics on this thing). If you have a kid waaaaay above the mean for average level of playing skill and you just let him score those 7 points beyond the rest of the kids, it demoralizes the rest and it stops becoming fun. Honestly if it was the NFL or something serious, it would be a big deal... but it isn't. Stop trying to make it seem like society is putting a handicap on individuality, cause it's not.
Tl;dr: It is a fucking kids league, not the NFL.