Poll: My life: Why it is sub par

[LooK iTz Jinjo]

Sounds like my brother. I'd you're twins so it's ok to beat him up (Generally frowned upon for an older brother to beat up his younger - damn) I'd say just hit him a few times. Though that's just me.

 

[firedfns13]

Only he can change himself, yet he won't because his perception is warped. Basically you have to put up with him. At least he's inept at killing you.

 

[KurtzGallahad]

Do I doubt this? Most defiantly.

It's hard to take something like this at face value. By your own account you are so wonderfully perfectly balanced and your brother is a psycho loser, but nobody believes you... Seriously?

I don't doubt that there is hostility between you two, but I have a hard time believing your version here is unaltered truth.

Edit: Yeah I also wanted to add that I am a person who had a fairly bad case of ADHD as a child and still has a moderately bad case of adult ADD. Why do I bring that up? Because ADHD and ADD don't work that way. It's not a sign of intelligence, it doesn't make you violent, mean, or rude.

I agree, and why did you make this post in the first place (op)? To tell everyone how much you hate your brother, or just to brag about your "Innocence"?
This thread is more or less pointless [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/groups/view/Escapists-Against-Pointless-Threads] and I can't seem to find the discussion value here.

Thanks for posting, it's good to see you read it.

Also, you just discussed it, so your arguement was self defeating.

 

[TheTim]

i hope i never come across that kid, he might leave very hurt.

 

[Soxafloppin]

Well, you answered your own question.

I do feel sorry for you, no one deserves that. At least when you move out you can get away from him.

 

[Tdc2182]

Go back to wear it all started. The Womb.

Finish him there.

Seriously? Tell him you will destroy him if he starts to flip a *****. Maybe you will have to hurt him, but dont go to far to the point of where he might actually kill you.

 

[NeutralMunchHotel]

Honestly, if you are anything like your OP, then you sound like a jerk and I would have no qualms about shutting your arm in a door.

 

[manaman]

Do I doubt this? Most defiantly.

It's hard to take something like this at face value. By your own account you are so wonderfully perfectly balanced and your brother is a psycho loser, but nobody believes you... Seriously?

I don't doubt that there is hostility between you two, but I have a hard time believing your version here is unaltered truth.

Edit: Yeah I also wanted to add that I am a person who had a fairly bad case of ADHD as a child and still has a moderately bad case of adult ADD. Why do I bring that up? Because ADHD and ADD don't work that way. It's not a sign of intelligence, it doesn't make you violent, mean, or rude.

I agree, and why did you make this post in the first place (op)? To tell everyone how much you hate your brother, or just to brag about your "Innocence"?
This thread is more or less pointless [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/groups/view/Escapists-Against-Pointless-Threads] and I can't seem to find the discussion value here.

Thanks for posting, it's good to see you read it.

Also, you just discussed it, so your arguement was self defeating.

I wish to point out there that good sir slipknot4 stated he was unable to find the discussion value as is, and expressed a wish for you to clarify what you wanted discussed in the current topic. He did not definitively state that there was nothing at all with which to discuss no matter how distantly related to the original post, only that you left no specific topic. Even a simple "Does anyone else have any similar experiences?" at the end of the post would have remedied that.

 

[Mechsoap]

personally i would if anyone tryed to kill me 3 times a year i would kill him silently, like pillow or a chainsaw.
now seriuce do something like punching him in the clockwork, or just kill him already and you are off with him

 

[TheComedown]

You seem so smug in your 'I'm better than this thing I have to call a brother' so I have no compassion for you.

Once again, I feel this one sided story conveniently leaves out any of the OPs faults which lead to this crazy story. If you really believe you have done nothing wrong, you sir, are probably in denial. You may not think the little remarks, or interactions w/ your brother meant anything, but from what you have admitted, it meant something to him. Try to think of his plight, instead of excusing yourself of guilt.

Of course, if you don't care about him, you needn't bother listening to anyone who tries to help you make things better with your brother. Just keep on being better than he is. Cause, you know, it's done so well for you up to now.

Listen kid, (you must be a kid since you live at home still) you said:

'I am quite smart, I'm above average for pretty much everything, and I am spectacular at anything involving english. '

1 , The squiggly lines under your text means you made an error.

2 , If you can't realize why someone has so much hate for you, you aren't trying hard enough to be a better man.

3 , Your life isn't sub par if these reasons are why you are unhappy with life. You sound like you live in a house, are able to go to school, and can eat regularly. Sub par life doesn't allow those things.

In closing, you should be grateful for what you have, and try harder to understand why your flesh and blood has such hate for you. It could be a lot worse for you.

He makes many a good point, I also have a dick of a brother, he has done many many many shitty things to me, but while yes i cant name anything I've done to him I'm not gonna say i wasn't a dick to him. You mentioned you yourself had ADHD, maybe you don't have it as under control as you think you do, as is the way with many a mental illness, i would know.

also saying your "above average" and "popular" and all this crap makes you come off as very pretentious and this sounds more like a tread for for your ego and your need for reassurance.

 

[Nerdygamer89]

As other posters have said, this sounds like a "I'm so great and my brother is so terrible, please praise me and empathize with my plight!" post. I'm going to go right ahead and assume that you've done things to piss him off, on purpose or otherwise.

However, if he's really trying to kill you, or even physically assaulting you (however unsuccessfully) he probably needs psychiatric help. Physical violence of that extent as a result of frustration is usually a sign of a disturbed person, possibly even something as serious as antisocial personality disorder, which is why he should be evaluated by a professional. It'll likely only escalate until someone really does get hurt.

 

[Grampy_bone]

Hey OP, if you're so smart why are you whining about this on the internet instead of doing something about it? Are you planning on culling the supportive posts from this thread and shoving them into your brother's face as conclusive proof of his douchery? All I see in your words are a big ol' pity party, victim behavior, and a desperate need for approval from random internet strangers!

It's been said that the things we hate in others are the things we hate about ourselves. I'm guessing our OP here is in pretty heavy denial and is projecting his own flaws onto his sibling; I'd bet dollars for donuts that he and his non-identical brother are much more alike than he seems to think.

 

[Davrel]

Get your brother sectioned. That kind of behavior shouldn't be tolerated; from what you've said, he clearly needs help and supervision.

 

[Kortney]

You sound like you have an ego problem and he sounds like a psycho.

 

[Nerdygamer89]

personally i would if anyone tryed to kill me 3 times a year i would kill him silently, like pillow or a chainsaw.

like pillow or a chainsaw

a CHAINSAW

Wait... what? A chainsaw is your idea of silent? =P

 

[God's Clown]

Tell him to grow a pair and stop blaming others.

 

[KurtzGallahad]

I wish to point out there that good sir slipknot4 stated he was unable to find the discussion value as is, and expressed a wish for you to clarify what you wanted discussed in the current topic. He did not definitively state that there was nothing at all with which to discuss no matter how distantly related to the original post, only that you left no specific topic. Even a simple "Does anyone else have any similar experiences?" at the end of the post would have remedied that.

Thanks for the advice, to all of you.

 

[KurtzGallahad]

You sound like you have an ego problem and he sounds like a psycho.

I do

 

[Kinguendo]

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