Poll: Ohio mom jailed for sending kids to a better school district. Your thoughts?

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I don't think so, she knew it was illegal and decided to do it anyway. Someone isn't going to let it slip by because 'it's the right thing' so she knew the day would come when they find out. What was she thinking?

"But it's the morally right thing!" There is a chance sending her kids would fill up a slot someone who was legally in the right to go to that school which isn't 'right' at all and I'd be pissed if someone got the space I could have filled when they shouldn't be.

Is Education a right? I'd think it is so but she lied and broke the law. I still think she was in the wrong; perhaps writing a letter or giving a phone call? A 3-page essay on why good education is a right should make them at least think twice and if the media was on her side she'd get to send her kids to the best damn school there is.
 

Danpascooch

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No, she wasn't justified at all.

It sucks she wasn't in the right district, but that doesn't mean you can just illegally lie about it, it was a selfish thing to do and is unfair to all of the other parents who actually obeyed the law.

Could you imagine if everyone did what she did? That good school would be overcrowded and ruined.

If you are in the wrong district, move or send your kids to a private school, if you can't afford that, THEN YOU DON'T GET THAT. It's that simple, yes it sucks, but you can't take an illegal action that would result in a collapse of the education system if everyone did what you did. Life is unfair, it doesn't mean you get to illegally obtain something that the other law abiding citizens don't get.
 

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Guitarmasterx7 said:
I think she's justified in the sense that the law is kind of shit in the first place, but i think she's also justified because her dad DOES live in that district and DOES pay appropriate taxes.
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BanthaFodder said:
legally it was wrong, but morally, she was in the right.
Was she not also stopping other children, whose parents weren't breaking the law, from getting into the school? Is she really morally right here?
Uhh, that doesn't happen. There's no application process for public school. If there are too many kids they hire more staff, they don't deny children educations, so no she wasn't stopping other children from getting into the school.
KrazyShrink said:
I see nothing wrong with circumventing a system that doesn't work. She shouldn't be arrested, this should be taken as a sign that the system needs to be improved.
I couldn't have said it better myself. Though she was only arrested for 10 days, and this news story will probably be enough negative publicity on the policy that it most likely will be drawn into question.
The best way to tell if what someone did is right is to look at the situation of "if everyone did what she did...." in that case it would be absolute chaos, and likely a collapse of the public school system with far reaching ramifications.

So no, what she did was not right, and it was spitting in the face of all of the parents who didn't get in the "good" district and didn't break the law. Why is she "right" do illegally obtain something that law abiding citizens around her aren't allowed to have?

It's wrong, it sucks that she isn't in a good district, but that doesn't mean she is somehow better than everyone else, and allowed to do things they aren't.

There will always be a better district.
 

solidstatemind

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Sutter Cane said:
Honestly for the purposes of my disagreement with you i don't really care about the woman here. My disagreement with you is that laws trump morals and ethics. In fact in one of your posts you linked be to civil disobedience by Thoreau. Wasn't that one of the points that he was trying to make in this essay.

Also I find it interesting that you seem to assume that I am not in college, or that I do not know how to write a college level paper.

I see you are not only talking down to me at this point, but also seemingly to Dags90 as well. I know nothing about the history between you two, but from where i'm sitting, nothing in his post seemed to be particularly antagonistic about his post, he just expressed a different opinion than you did. In fact if anyone in here is coming off as antagonistic, it's you. I don't know if you realize this, but you're coming off as very arrogant.
My outrage at your post stems from the fact that you chose to present only the most incendiary comment that I made. I backed up my position later in the same post, and yet you chose (yes, CHOSE) to try to present my position in the most absolute of terms, rather than to include everything in my post that was germane to the conversation. Perhaps I overreacted, but in my experience, that sort of behavior is what demagogues pursue, rather than an actual discussion, or debate.

Let me present it to you in this light: Laws do in fact trump morals or ethics, because morals and ethics are individual decisions, whereas laws affect all individuals in the jurisdiction where you live. In other words: morals and ethics = the rules you choose for your self, while laws are the rules that everyone has to abide by. Simple logic: you have to abide by the rules that apply to everyone first, because (even if you don't like it) those are the ones that will result in you being cast out from society (in the form of incarceration).

Am I talking down to you? Well, yes: a little bit. From your profile, I know that you are young. You may be in college, or just graduated high-school. Regardless, my personal experiences (which I will admit color my opinions) are such that I think the majority of your learning is ahead of you. Yes, you seem to be intelligent, but at the same time, I could tell that you haven't been trained/ (whatever is least offensive to you) how to defend your position.

For example, you suggest that one of the points Thoreau was trying to make supports your point of view. In fact, it does not. Thoreau was arguing against extreme injustices perpetrated under the excuse of 'well, it's *legal*', and dealt largely with the 'Tyranny of the Majority', which you can also read in the Federalist Papers (James Madison wrote the bulk of this theory)... but ultimately, if you read Thoreau, you'll find that he never advocates breaking the law directly, but rather engage in protest (not paying taxes, sit-ins, etc.) to address grave injustices such as slavery. This is the type of behavior that Martin Luther King, Jr., one of the greatest human beings ever, engaged in, directly crediting Thoreau as his inspiration. Not simply ignoring a law that you don't like.

As for the 'talking down to you/Dags90' thing, I talk down to anyone who tries to pull off some bullshit like "I feel blahblahblah" and provides no foundation to it-- as I said in my previous post: Dags, yet again, said something akin to "Other people say different, but I can't be bothered to actually provide examples." And, like I said in my previous post, that's all well and good, but I'm not going to give you (or him) the time of day unless you provide examples and references. Why? Because any schmuck can say " Oh I read that somebody somewhere said something different than what the well-respected philosophers you're quoting said. " Doesn't that strike you as being a little lame? Seriously?

Bottom line: I am not attacking you, or Dags. I am attacking the point of view you both seem to espouse, which I feel is very youthful and naive.

Do I think you're unintelligent? No. Do I think that you shouldn't contribute to a conversation? HELL NO. But I do think that you (and everyone here on the Escapist) should use logic and reasoning when entering into a debate...

As opposed to quoting someone, editing out everything but the very first line of the post, and trying to make that person look like they are unreasonable. (Do you deny that was your intent in your original quote of me? Because I fail to see why you would take the time to delete the rest of the post from your quote of me if it wasn't.)
 

SL33TBL1ND

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Wait. You can't do that in the US? Ok, just another reason why your politicians are fucking nuts.
 

spartan231490

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Samus Aaron said:
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http://abcnews.go.com/US/ohio-mom-jailed-sending-kids-school-district/story?id=12763654

Is the mom justified in doing this? What she did seems unquestionably illegal, but at the same time, she had a responsibility to give her kids the best quality of living that they could get, and education is a vital aspect in that regard. On the other hand, if people who don't abide by the law don't get punished, then real criminals will be able to manipulate the system more easily. There's no definite answer.

Here's a few arguments from both sides. Feel free to add your own in the comments below.

She was justified:
-She had a responsibility to her childrens' education
-Her kids should not have been denied a better education simply because of where they lived
-If she really had equal opportunity, one school district would not receive priority to another.

She wasn't justified:
-What she did was illegal. If you want this type of thing to change, advocate the changing of the law itself.
-Residents of the other better district paid higher taxes and consequently received a better education. The mom paid less taxes and still got her kids a better education, which is unfair.

So what do you think? Is the mom justified in what she did?
She wasn't justified. She could have moved in with her father, or heaven forbid just moved into the district. The fact of life is that every school district is different, we can't all go where we want. She wasn't paying the school taxes, so when she couldn't pay the money she owed, she had to pay the piper.
 

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SL33TBL1ND said:
Wait. You can't do that in the US? Ok, just another reason why your politicians are fucking nuts.
Why not? Living in the US obligates you to obey the laws within it, it doesn't grant you the right to break them. Her kids could have gotten a free, legal education in her home district, or she could have moved into the other district(in with her father if she had to. She didn't have the money to pay the tuition, but she unfairly got her children into the school anyway. It may not be a large amount, but what she did stole money from the children who legitimately go to that school. The court was right to make her an example, if she was allowed to get away with it, they risk having other parents do this, and if enough kids go to the school illegally, then the quality of education there will drop, unlawfully depriving the kids who live in that school district, and pay those school taxes, of the education that they deserve.
Living in the US doesn't entitle you to impede the education level of an entire school district, just so your kids can get a better public school education.
Also, for those saying that she was justified, it's public high school. One public high school degree is pretty much the same as another. It's not like she was unable to get her kids free and legal education.
 

spartan231490

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Eclectic Dreck said:
Bobic said:
A 10 day sentence? I'm sure she'll get over it pretty quickly.
Except that the simple fact she was convicted will follow her the rest of her life and she will find it substantially harder to do things like gain employment and get loans and whatnot.
Not necessarily, if it's a misdemeanor I don't think she is even required to tell employers about it. Some traffic violations are misdemeanors, and with that sentence, i think this is a misdemeanor, but I'm not sure about that. If this is a felony, then that is BS, but she definitely deserved to be punished.
 

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spartan231490 said:
SL33TBL1ND said:
Wait. You can't do that in the US? Ok, just another reason why your politicians are fucking nuts.
Why not? Living in the US obligates you to obey the laws within it, it doesn't grant you the right to break them. Her kids could have gotten a free, legal education in her home district, or she could have moved into the other district(in with her father if she had to. She didn't have the money to pay the tuition, but she unfairly got her children into the school anyway. It may not be a large amount, but what she did stole money from the children who legitimately go to that school. The court was right to make her an example, if she was allowed to get away with it, they risk having other parents do this, and if enough kids go to the school illegally, then the quality of education there will drop, unlawfully depriving the kids who live in that school district, and pay those school taxes, of the education that they deserve.
Living in the US doesn't entitle you to impede the education level of an entire school district, just so your kids can get a better public school education.
Also, for those saying that she was justified, it's public high school. One public high school degree is pretty much the same as another. It's not like she was unable to get her kids free and legal education.
I'm talking more about your tax structure that prohibits kids from getting an equal education wherever they live.
 

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PinochetIsMyBro said:
She isn't morally in the right. What she did is the equivalent of theft, and theft is wrong. Besides that, her logic is flawed in the first place. Better school does not equal better education, see that 1 billion dollar project in Kansas City that failed utterly if you need proof.

I went to a crappy public school and I did just fine, why? Because I WANTED TO LEARN. If she really cared about her kid's education then she'd encourage them to do the same. No amount of money will raise a child's test scores, this has been proven without a fact. Urban schools spend boatloads more cash per student than rural schools, and do far worse.
I agree with this sentiment. Some of the most successful people ever were self taught. I find that the best judgement of an actually good school is how well they
a. motivate their students to want to learn and
b. get out of the way so that they can do so.
 

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SL33TBL1ND said:
spartan231490 said:
SL33TBL1ND said:
Wait. You can't do that in the US? Ok, just another reason why your politicians are fucking nuts.
Why not? Living in the US obligates you to obey the laws within it, it doesn't grant you the right to break them. Her kids could have gotten a free, legal education in her home district, or she could have moved into the other district(in with her father if she had to. She didn't have the money to pay the tuition, but she unfairly got her children into the school anyway. It may not be a large amount, but what she did stole money from the children who legitimately go to that school. The court was right to make her an example, if she was allowed to get away with it, they risk having other parents do this, and if enough kids go to the school illegally, then the quality of education there will drop, unlawfully depriving the kids who live in that school district, and pay those school taxes, of the education that they deserve.
Living in the US doesn't entitle you to impede the education level of an entire school district, just so your kids can get a better public school education.
Also, for those saying that she was justified, it's public high school. One public high school degree is pretty much the same as another. It's not like she was unable to get her kids free and legal education.
I'm talking more about your tax structure that prohibits kids from getting an equal education wherever they live.
It is impossible to give all children the same education regardless of geographic boundaries. The very children who go to the school have an impact on the school itself, so different class-mates will lead to a different education. Also, the number of children in the school district matter, and most school districts are wayyyy too rural to match the same number of students as an urban school because to do so would require a 7 hour busride for some kids. You cannot make everyone's education identical, it's not tax structure that causes this, it is geographical limitations. further, the difference between a degree(or the education that degree represents) from one public high school to another in the US is negligible in the real world, especially within the same state and with the current state of the economy, so she basically broke the law for no benefit. She would have been better off spending her time helping her kids study.
 

SL33TBL1ND

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spartan231490 said:
SL33TBL1ND said:
spartan231490 said:
SL33TBL1ND said:
Wait. You can't do that in the US? Ok, just another reason why your politicians are fucking nuts.
Why not? Living in the US obligates you to obey the laws within it, it doesn't grant you the right to break them. Her kids could have gotten a free, legal education in her home district, or she could have moved into the other district(in with her father if she had to. She didn't have the money to pay the tuition, but she unfairly got her children into the school anyway. It may not be a large amount, but what she did stole money from the children who legitimately go to that school. The court was right to make her an example, if she was allowed to get away with it, they risk having other parents do this, and if enough kids go to the school illegally, then the quality of education there will drop, unlawfully depriving the kids who live in that school district, and pay those school taxes, of the education that they deserve.
Living in the US doesn't entitle you to impede the education level of an entire school district, just so your kids can get a better public school education.
Also, for those saying that she was justified, it's public high school. One public high school degree is pretty much the same as another. It's not like she was unable to get her kids free and legal education.
I'm talking more about your tax structure that prohibits kids from getting an equal education wherever they live.
It is impossible to give all children the same education regardless of geographic boundaries. The very children who go to the school have an impact on the school itself, so different class-mates will lead to a different education. Also, the number of children in the school district matter, and most school districts are wayyyy too rural to match the same number of students as an urban school because to do so would require a 7 hour busride for some kids. You cannot make everyone's education identical, it's not tax structure that causes this, it is geographical limitations. further, the difference between a degree(or the education that degree represents) from one public high school to another in the US is negligible in the real world, especially within the same state and with the current state of the economy, so she basically broke the law for no benefit. She would have been better off spending her time helping her kids study.
I'm pretty sure that if this woman went to the trouble of breaking the law to get her children to a different school the education difference would not be "negligible". From what I understand of the American education system and what I've read in this thread is that funding is managed by the district where the school is. That is what I'm criticising here.

In Australia, educational funding is handled by our state level of government, ensuring that, at the very least, all children within that state get the same level of education and all schools get the amount of funding that they require. If their parents decide their children require a better education, they send them to a private school, which obviously provides a better education due to the higher fees.

All I'm saying is that this shouldn't have been a problem in the first place. This woman wouldn't have needed to break the law if all kids got the same schooling.
 

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Being from an area where you can choose schools in the area for your children to attend (I'm not sure how it works, just that I've known several people who have gone through school like this) I'm aghast at the situation. But in the same light, she was falsifying documents and such.

I won't say she's being wronged for what she did, more that both she and what prevented her from making choices for her kids were wrong.
 

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El Poncho said:
I think she's justified. I think everyone has the right to a good education no matter how much money they have. The people with more money get a good education, they get better jobs and so still get a well paid job. However if the people with less money have to go to schools which provide a bad education, they will find it difficult to get a well paid job without a whole lot of luck so that means for generations to come they're stuck at the same financial level.

So I think everyone deserves an equal opportunity, but of course that would be COMMUNIST! and it will bring DEATH to the almighty USA!
The people with more drive get a better education and better jobs. Schools are not the only place to learn and anyone with the drive to achieve a high level of education will find ways to learn regardless of their social, financial or geographic situation. Should this mother be thrown in jail? No, that is overboard but she should face fines if she broke the law.

Equality of opportunity is not communist, forced equality is.
 

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solidstatemind said:
My outrage at your post stems from the fact that you chose to present only the most incendiary comment that I made. I backed up my position later in the same post, and yet you chose (yes, CHOSE) to try to present my position in the most absolute of terms, rather than to include everything in my post that was germane to the conversation. Perhaps I overreacted, but in my experience, that sort of behavior is what demagogues pursue, rather than an actual discussion, or debate.

Let me present it to you in this light: Laws do in fact trump morals or ethics, because morals and ethics are individual decisions, whereas laws affect all individuals in the jurisdiction where you live. In other words: morals and ethics = the rules you choose for your self, while laws are the rules that everyone has to abide by. Simple logic: you have to abide by the rules that apply to everyone first, because (even if you don't like it) those are the ones that will result in you being cast out from society (in the form of incarceration).

Am I talking down to you? Well, yes: a little bit. From your profile, I know that you are young. You may be in college, or just graduated high-school. Regardless, my personal experiences (which I will admit color my opinions) are such that I think the majority of your learning is ahead of you. Yes, you seem to be intelligent, but at the same time, I could tell that you haven't been trained/ (whatever is least offensive to you) how to defend your position.

For example, you suggest that one of the points Thoreau was trying to make supports your point of view. In fact, it does not. Thoreau was arguing against extreme injustices perpetrated under the excuse of 'well, it's *legal*', and dealt largely with the 'Tyranny of the Majority', which you can also read in the Federalist Papers (James Madison wrote the bulk of this theory)... but ultimately, if you read Thoreau, you'll find that he never advocates breaking the law directly, but rather engage in protest (not paying taxes, sit-ins, etc.) to address grave injustices such as slavery. This is the type of behavior that Martin Luther King, Jr., one of the greatest human beings ever, engaged in, directly crediting Thoreau as his inspiration. Not simply ignoring a law that you don't like.

As for the 'talking down to you/Dags90' thing, I talk down to anyone who tries to pull off some bullshit like "I feel blahblahblah" and provides no foundation to it-- as I said in my previous post: Dags, yet again, said something akin to "Other people say different, but I can't be bothered to actually provide examples." And, like I said in my previous post, that's all well and good, but I'm not going to give you (or him) the time of day unless you provide examples and references. Why? Because any schmuck can say " Oh I read that somebody somewhere said something different than what the well-respected philosophers you're quoting said. " Doesn't that strike you as being a little lame? Seriously?

Bottom line: I am not attacking you, or Dags. I am attacking the point of view you both seem to espouse, which I feel is very youthful and naive.

Do I think you're unintelligent? No. Do I think that you shouldn't contribute to a conversation? HELL NO. But I do think that you (and everyone here on the Escapist) should use logic and reasoning when entering into a debate...

As opposed to quoting someone, editing out everything but the very first line of the post, and trying to make that person look like they are unreasonable. (Do you deny that was your intent in your original quote of me? Because I fail to see why you would take the time to delete the rest of the post from your quote of me if it wasn't.)
I'm sure you can agree, however, that before one has faced the more harsh reality of life (usually post-education) in their jobs, and have integrated themselves into the society as an "adult" - that they will hold idealistic views.

There is an old saying in Denmark, where I'm from, that goes: "When you're young, you vote with your heart. When you get older, you vote with your brain"

I am not pleading conservative opinions here, I am just asking you if you will not agree that one is more driven by emotion as one is young?

I am not going to dispute any of your points, as I find myself entirely in agreement, but will ask you, instead: "Can you not overlook the idealistic views of those who are young?"

Surely you were more driven by heart/less driven by brain, when you were young? I think such is the case with everyone. That being said, I agree entirely that quoting your out of question is besides that point, and shouldn't be swept under the rug because of it. Likewise, I think engaging in a debate with no other intention than "I disagree, but cannot be bothered to enter an actual argument" is equally nonsensical.

Mind you, I am not defending either of the people in question here, much less do I know them - I just think there is very little reason for you to be (or appear to be) so agitated.

Younger people will likely hold their idealistic views close to heart. You will be able to view a bigger picture. They will say "Well, it shouldn't be like that!", you will say "Well, it has to be like that, because of[...]". You cannot expect everyone you argue with to be as intelligent (not to mention knowing, given your own life-experiences and age) as you. I respect that you refuse to argue on such rubbish terms, but would then advice you to rather avoid the argument entirely.

I know this seems like some sort of raised finger, telling you what to do and what not to do, but that's not really the intention. I'm trying, in a diplomatic way, to have you accept that some young people on these forums are simply childish in the way they perceive the world - as is expected from them. There is no sense in becoming upset that these people will occasionally become rabble-rousers. It is in their nature.
 

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She committed fraud, the circumstances don't matter

Further the skill has an "out of district" option, but you had to pay for it, she wanted the benefits but wouldn't pay the price.

Finally I saw a couple posts saying education should be free, it isn't free, never has been and never could be. In public schooling that all revolves around taxes. Taxes aren't going away and SOMEONE has to pay the bill for all that "free" education. Teachers need salaries, text books and computers to do their jobs oddly enough...
 

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Slycne said:
El Poncho said:
So I think everyone deserves an equal opportunity, but of course that would be COMMUNIST! and it will bring DEATH to the almighty USA!
Actually school vouchers are typically supported by the "commie hating" right. It's the left and their association with the teacher's unions that is the typical opponent of them.
Or maybe the left think its better that the money used to give a small number of people a much better education should be spread around so more people get a better education.

OT: While I understand why she did it, what she did was wrong and she should be punished. I don't like a number of laws in the UK, but that doesn't give me the right to break them whenever I want.
 

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she did what was best for her childeren but its still wrong like stealing bread to suport your family
 

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Jodah said:
Justified? Yea, probably. Should she be punished? Absolutely. Whether or not a law is right or wrong does not dictate whether it should be followed or not. There are many laws I do not agree with but if I break one of them and get caught, I expect to be punished. It may lead to me trying to change the law in the future but that does not excuse past crimes.
For the will to abide to the laws to be so strong that even when they fail you follow them, there should be a better reason aside from "the book says so". Seriously, how much they paid you?