urprobablyright said:
I think I'll just warn you against giant, sweeping generalizations.
I typically read all of a thread before posting in it so I can make sure I'm not treading old ground and my post isn't redundant.
My post is based on actual experience, yours is based on guesswork. I don't think I'm the one doing the generalising.
Porn industries exist in one form or another in almost every country in the world. In my scenario, the girl I was with was mainly involved in prostitution locally, but would hop on a plane to do film shoots elsewhere (making porn films isn't legal in my city so the industry base in Australia is located elsewhere), something which is easily affordable with the type of money she was making. She also knew a lot of other people in the industry so I was able to get a reasonable consensus about these people in general, because like many guys, I was curious about these things.
Tackling your points one by one:
- She is certain to have had better, and bigger.
Already covered.
- She is probably stretched beyond imagining.
No more than someone who has recently been a mother. Also remember that all muscles in both men and women benefit from regular exercise.
- She is probably insanely self absorbed to the point that she would be angry if you were not paying attention to her.
Maybe in some cases, but generally these girls get a lot of male attention so they want a break from it when possible. I barely saw this girl more than once a week during the whole time we were going out, and we would only ever ring each other for purposes of hooking up the next meeting.
- She would always be faking.
Don't you think she gets sick of faking it at work?
- She would be a compulsive flirt.
No way. My then-girlfriend was the most direct, non-flirtatious girl I've ever met in my life. She was the one who initially approached
me (unusual - most girls are a little afraid to do this) and I had her address within about two minutes of talking to her. She certainly didn't fuck around. As for flirting with others while we were together? Not without some money in her hand or a camera rolling.
- Judging by my occasional porn... safaris, she wouldn't be any good anyway.
Not sure what porn you watch or what you consider "good sex", but girls who work in that industry (with a few very rare exceptions) don't like to do it the way they do it on film. Don't expect to see your favourite fantasy scenes re-enacted.
- She would never get wet.
Pfft. These girls can get wet
on cue. Otherwise, how much pain do you think they'd be in? Trust me, this isn't an issue. Certainly never came up as an issue for me. Besides, there's always lube.
Dating a porn actress/prostitute isn't for everyone. It's not the fantastic fantasy experience that some might be thinking it is, but it's not necessarily the bimbo-minding experience that some people might stereotype it as either. You have to be a certain type of guy to really cope - the OP definitely isn't that certain type of guy. Neither are you, but then that's okay, because you don't really want to go there anyway.
