Poll: Proposition 8: Should homosexuals be allowed to marry in a fashion legally recognized by the state?

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sabotstarr

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j0z said:
Keep the government out of it.
Unless it is an abusive relationship, in which case, lock the offender up.
This, as long as it is consensual to both parties and no abuse is being committed. Whatever religion you belong to, you should not be forced to undergo physical harm from the one that pledged to be with you forever.
 

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high_castle said:
j0z said:
Keep the government out of it.
Unless it is an abusive relationship, in which case, lock the offender up.
But that's the thing. You can't have partial recognition with something like this. If there's no legal recognition of marriage, there's no spousal abuse. It would still be an assault charge, of course.

I see no problem at all with gay marriage. And it's definitely not the government's place to define marriage in any way. It's interesting that the Republican party in America is supposed to be one of small government, yet it's mostly the Republicans who are pushing for a definition of marriage act. I guess big government's alright if it's in line with their line of thinking, but it's just very hypocritical to me.
eh? why would anyone be "pushing" for the DOMA when it's already federal law?
 

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JohnJacobJingle said:
Specifically, what unions should the government endorse with the title of marriage, and how should said unions be treated? Should the government try to enforce or endorse these unions? Should the government get involved at all?

My person feelings are that if you want to have a state that does not have a religious or cultural agenda, then you should get out of the business of marriage entirely, since it means such different things to such different cultural/ethnic groups, and trying to accommodate such differing values will be very difficult without having to create in effect separate justice systems for those groups...e.g. I know of some ethnicities where a form of kidnapping is considered perfectly legal by the community at large, and others where spousal abuse and even rape is tolerated by the head of the household.

Thoughts? Trying to get the opinion of a community whose views have so far been rather diverse and thoughtful...and hopefully, this will correct that. :)

Also, if you are going to use evidence, please include a name or some kind of link so other people can see it...ty!
Its simply a matter of how youve been raised and of how it will affect you in the future, the new generation is mostly supporting the homosexuals but their are those individuals who are lost thanks to highly extremist religious parents
 

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There are good reasons for there to be a legal basis for marraige, or any union between two people. Legal recognition that you and your long-term partner have a special relationship with each other is important for various reasons, the most important being taxation and inheritance.

However, it is not the business of the state to determine who should make up these unions, and certainly not to create a hierarachy of 'marraige' for hetrosexuals and 'civil partnerships' for homosexuals, as is being done in some countries in lieu of full gay marraige.
 

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j0z said:
Keep the government out of it.
This is the best answer. Really.

I don't know why it is so important to get government recognition in the first place.
 

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Triple G said:
No gay marriage please. What comes next? Furry marriages recognized by the state?
We should ban heterosexual marriage, since that's what started this whole gay marriage debate in the first place.
 

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Nemu said:
OT: I'm a lesbian, why am I considered a lesser-person for wanting to be married?
This.

Anyone who opposes gay marriage considers homosexuals to be less than human. This is repugnant. And I would characterize myself as homophobic. I don't really like homosexuals, but they still deserve to be treated like people. My opinion matters nothing when it comes to basic human rights. this goes for everyone else, too.

And do not even bother bringing up civil unions. That is separate but equal, which the supreme court has already ruled is not equal and therefore unconstitutional. The only way to make civil unions work is to turn all marriages into civil unions, gay or straight.
 

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cobra_ky said:
Triple G said:
No gay marriage please. What comes next? Furry marriages recognized by the state?
We should ban heterosexual marriage, since that's what started this whole gay marriage debate in the first place.
*Sigh* You typical wanabe-tolerant know-it-all. There is a domain of definition here. Heterosexual marriage is there to back up a family with kids. Hence they are no biological offsprings in a gay relationship, gay marriage shouldn't be legal.
 

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j0z said:
Keep the government out of it.
Agreed.

Separation of church and state, marriage is, if I remember correctly, a religious ceremony.

Gov should have any power over non-violent religious rituals, Civil Unions are great, I know straight people who've gone and gotten a civil union because they don't want to be married under Christian Churches, but I don't think the state has a right to force priests to marry people if they don't want to. If they do want to, which some priests do, then that's all the better.

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MaxTheReaper said:
Then go away.
Nobody cares about your opinion anyway.
I wish it were so, but a great many people share that view.
 

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Gay marriage... a deep theme indeed.

I believe it depends on the people, not just gay people, but society as a whole, I think that when Gay marriage went legal in the UK it was because their contribution to society (in tax form before and after the marriage), the number of gay people wanting to marry and society ideals on sexuality made this possible.

So, if they want recognition then the goverment (and the society that supports the goverment) must share some common ground on the matter, not just gay people, I don't know how things are like whenever you live, but if you believe its possible, then it probably is.
 

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Triple G said:
cobra_ky said:
Triple G said:
No gay marriage please. What comes next? Furry marriages recognized by the state?
We should ban heterosexual marriage, since that's what started this whole gay marriage debate in the first place.
*Sigh* You typical wanabe-tolerant know-it-all. There is a domain of definition here. Heterosexual marriage is there to back up a family with kids. Hence they are no biological offsprings in a gay relationship, gay marriage shouldn't be legal.
My aunt and uncle have been married for 25 years and plan on never having children. hence their marriage shouldn't be legal.
 

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MaxTheReaper said:
Triple G said:
No gay marriage please. What comes next? Furry marriages recognized by the state?
Slippery slope arguments are a logical fallacy, even if you were kidding.

Topic: Okay, look.
We gave the womenfolk the right to step out of the kitchen.
We gave the black folk the right to not be beaten viciously for being black.
What's wrong with giving the gay folk rights just like everyone else?

Are you against equality?
Against puppies?
Against love?
AGAINST...FREEDOM?

Then go away.
Nobody cares about your opinion anyway.
You're on slippery slope as well.
MaxTheReaper said:
Are you against equality?
Not really, but I see no purpose in gay marriage.
MaxTheReaper said:
Against puppies?
How is Gay marriage related to puppies? Oh wait... Let's not go there.
MaxTheReaper said:
Against love?
They can "love" each other until their asses fall off. But marriage is a step too far.
MaxTheReaper said:
AGAINST...FREEDOM?[/I]
Dude wash away your Braveheart-facepaint. Stop pulling this old-school capitalist trick.
 

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cobra_ky said:
Triple G said:
cobra_ky said:
Triple G said:
No gay marriage please. What comes next? Furry marriages recognized by the state?
We should ban heterosexual marriage, since that's what started this whole gay marriage debate in the first place.
*Sigh* You typical wanabe-tolerant know-it-all. There is a domain of definition here. Heterosexual marriage is there to back up a family with kids. Hence they are no biological offsprings in a gay relationship, gay marriage shouldn't be legal.
My aunt and uncle have been married for 25 years and plan on never having children. hence their marriage shouldn't be legal.
Right. They could as well lead a normal relationship. What they're doing is just getting some lower taxes and that's an exploit. So it should be illegal.
 

DrDeath3191

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If homosexual people want to get married, who are we to stop them? If a gay man and a gay woman get hitched, I see no problem in it.
 

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Why should marriage have any say in taxation and shit like that? Like, fuck the government, man!

No but seriously, I never understood why gays want this right of marriage so badly, it only seems to make us heteros miserable.

But if they want to legally and religiously bind themselves to another person, what the fuck is that anybody's business?

Edit: Seriously though, fuck the government...
 

Zac_Dai

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lol this thread again.

I remember the last one going on for a bajillion pages.

But you go get that 10,000 view badge op!!!
 

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MaxTheReaper said:
Triple G said:
Not really, but I see no purpose in gay marriage.
So, "No, I'm not against equality, but I don't think everyone should be treated the same."
I'd argue that there's already equality, and some people aren't happy with it. Homosexual people can marry. They just don't want to, really. Otherwise they would just shut up and get hitched already.