Poll: Proposition 8: Should homosexuals be allowed to marry in a fashion legally recognized by the state?

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Souplex

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I don't support gay marriage because I hate straight marriage as well. It takes happiness and twists it into resentment and misery. I don't want all the gay people to be as miserable as all the married straight people.
 

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Furburt said:
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Furburt said:
I can see no problem with any form of gay marriage or adoption.
/thread, unless anyone wishes to provoke my wrath.
Don't quite get what you mean there.
Normally, I'm open to debate on a matter. Save when the matter involves infringing someone else's liberties. In essence, arguing gays should not be permitted to marry is rather like arguing that I should not be able to have milk in my coffee. I do not tolerate it. I do not tolerate any infringements of the rights of me, myself, and those I care about, and since a very close and old friend of mine recently came out of the closet, that means that I do not tolerate the suggestion homosexuals should not be permitted to marry.

Hope that's clear old fellow.

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Firstly, TripleG, Capitalism is the finest economic system around, and to say otherwise you'd damn well better find some facts that back you up. Secondly, explain precisely how Gay Mariage is 'a step too far'. And explain to me how and why lesbians might 'love each other until their asses fall off', please. In fact, please, explain most of your statement.
 

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Nemu said:
I'm noticing a trend in your choice of topics, JohnJacob...

OT: I'm a lesbian, why am I considered a lesser-person for wanting to be married?
I'd say you where a better person, but then again I'm abit of a hopeless romantic, heh.
 

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Triple G said:
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No gay marriage please. What comes next? Furry marriages recognized by the state?
We should ban heterosexual marriage, since that's what started this whole gay marriage debate in the first place.
*Sigh* You typical wanabe-tolerant know-it-all. There is a domain of definition here. Heterosexual marriage is there to back up a family with kids. Hence they are no biological offsprings in a gay relationship, gay marriage shouldn't be legal.
My aunt and uncle have been married for 25 years and plan on never having children. hence their marriage shouldn't be legal.
Right. They could as well lead a normal relationship. What they're doing is just getting some lower taxes and that's an exploit. So it should be illegal.
ah, well then. that's remarkably consistent of you. that's also a much more reasonable argument than "well maybe they'll legalize bestiality next."

though it does raise the question of how to go about legislating that every married couple must have children. would adopted children count?
 

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I don't support gay marriage because I hate straight marriage as well. It takes happiness and twists it into resentment and misery. I don't want all the gay people to be as miserable as all the married straight people.
I hate the institution of marriage as well, it just complicates everything even with the lower taxes, BUT people should do whatever makes them happy.
 

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high_castle said:
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I see no problem at all with gay marriage. And it's definitely not the government's place to define marriage in any way. It's interesting that the Republican party in America is supposed to be one of small government, yet it's mostly the Republicans who are pushing for a definition of marriage act. I guess big government's alright if it's in line with their line of thinking, but it's just very hypocritical to me.
Firstly, who else will define marriage if not the government? The churchs aren't going to allow gay marriage of their own free will, and financial issues are tied to marriage (especially if it ends in divorce). Further, in the event of death, legally reckonized marriage allows the spouse to try and keep the material and money of the dead partner, without the state or family members trying to cheat them out of it.

As for the Republicans, it is very true - they seem to think they have the right to force other people to live the way they choose. And yet, economically, they believe one person should be allowed to fuck up a national or international economy as much as they like without consequence. Crazy, really.
Contrary to popular belief, there are religions and churches out there that don't have a problem with gay marriage. Look at the churches which have sanctioned gay priests, for one. And how many gay couples (in states recognizing their unions) have been married in churches? Plenty. So churches absolutely would allow gay marriage. And if one priest doesn't want to perform a ceremony, that's his choice. But if another does, then that's his as well.
So you say, but in the Church of England, there has been alot of infighting over the allowance of gay and women priests, and their boss is having to drag them kicking and screaming into the modern era.
 

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Specifically, what unions should the government endorse with the title of marriage, and how should said unions be treated? Should the government try to enforce or endorse these unions? Should the government get involved at all?

My person feelings are that if you want to have a state that does not have a religious or cultural agenda, then you should get out of the business of marriage entirely, since it means such different things to such different cultural/ethnic groups, and trying to accommodate such differing values will be very difficult without having to create in effect separate justice systems for those groups...e.g. I know of some ethnicities where a form of kidnapping is considered perfectly legal by the community at large, and others where spousal abuse and even rape is tolerated by the head of the household.

Thoughts? Trying to get the opinion of a community whose views have so far been rather diverse and thoughtful...and hopefully, this will correct that. :)

Also, if you are going to use evidence, please include a name or some kind of link so other people can see it...ty!
Why is the poll so formally stated, I wish people would get over gay marriage, if they are happy with each other they should be able to get married, it doesn't really matter, here we are whining about something so minuscule that gets attention, we have alot better things to worry about than should we let a man and a man or woman and woman be happy together and have a government accept this.

What I'm trying to say is this: SHUT UP! let it happen if you don't like it don't do it, nobody is being physically or mentally hurt(rare exceptions) by letting them call eaach other husband or wife.
 

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I'd argue that there's already equality, and some people aren't happy with it. Homosexual people can marry. They just don't want to, really. Otherwise they would just shut up and get hitched already.
I guess all those stupid parades and shit are just for show, then?
I don't really keep up with world issues, especially when it comes to this stuff.

It's depressingly stupid, most of the time, like that guy up there who thinks "gay marriage" leads to "furry marriage(?)," by which I assume he means legalizing beastiality, which is sort of insulting for numerous reasons.
I mean that they can get married. What they're parading on about isn't marriage, because the legal contract calls for two adults of opposite gender. I have no problems with homosexual marriage, but I do have issue with single-sex marriage.

And the Slippery Slope argument does hold a very small amount of water: you could very easily legalize incestuous marriage if you allow homosexual marriage.
 

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The last thing the world needs is for our taxes to go in the pockets of gay people, in the form of government financial aid...

Seriously, am i the only one that thinks that this is WRONG?
Basically every study ever done on the subject has concluded that legalizing gay marriage would generate MILLIONS in tax income for state governments.

http://www.law.ucla.edu/williamsinstitute/publications/EconImpactCAMarriage.pdf

http://www.scribd.com/doc/14047416/Economic-Impact-of-Allowing-SameSex-Marriage-in-Vermont
 

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Rolling Thunder said:
Furburt said:
Rolling Thunder said:
Furburt said:
I can see no problem with any form of gay marriage or adoption.
/thread, unless anyone wishes to provoke my wrath.
Don't quite get what you mean there.
Normally, I'm open to debate on a matter. Save when the matter involves infringing someone else's liberties. In essence, arguing gays should not be permitted to marry is rather like arguing that I should not be able to have milk in my coffee. I do not tolerate it. I do not tolerate any infringements of the rights of me, myself, and those I care about, and since a very close and old friend of mine recently came out of the closet, that means that I do not tolerate the suggestion homosexuals should not be permitted to marry.

Hope that's clear old fellow.
I had the same question, and yes, it is clear ^o^

I agree with you completely. Why is someone a lesser being simply because the church says says so? Yes, this is all because of the church. Before the church branched its influence out to the rest of civilized word, greece, japan, china, india etc... It was fully accepted.

As a matter of fact, in greece, homosexuality was considered more of a bond than heterosexuality. As in japan, with the code of bushido, it promoted 'brotherly love' at the exclusion of women.

In china and india homosexuality was considered perfectly normal.

Though often ignored or suppressed by European explorers and colonialists, homosexual expression in native Africa was also present and took a variety of forms.

In native american culture, it was actually embraced. A common form of same-sex sexuality centered around the figure of the Two-Spirit individual. Typically this individual was recognized early in life, given a choice by the parents to follow the path and, if the child accepted the role, raised in the appropriate manner, learning the customs of the gender it had chosen. Two-Spirit individuals were commonly shamans and were revered as having powers beyond those of ordinary shamans. Their sexual life was with the ordinary tribe members of the same sex.

Among many Middle Eastern Muslim cultures egalitarian or age-structured homosexual practices were, and remain, widespread and thinly veiled. Though, same-sex intercourse now carries the death penalty In some more conservative areas. Though there is quite a difference in legality and real-world enforcement.

In many societies of Melanesia, especially in Papua New Guinea, same-sex relationships were an integral part of the culture until the middle of the last century


So why is it so wrong?
 

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I'd honestly make marriage between a man and woman. You won't hear me crying or see me protesting if someone else makes homosexual marriages legal, but I'll stick to my personal beliefs if the decision is mine. I'm not a homophobe at all, have nothing personal against homosexuals, but I was raised in a Baptist church (not a Westboro-Baptist, something a little more sane), I have chosen my beliefs, and I'll stick to them.

No one needs to worry about my opinion on this, anyways; I don't ever plan on entering the realm of politics, so I won't be making that into law.
 

cobra_ky

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DrDeath3191 said:
And the Slippery Slope argument does hold a very small amount of water: you could very easily legalize incestuous marriage if you allow homosexual marriage.
I don't see how. Incest doesn't have anything close to the level of cultural acceptance that homosexuality does.
 

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cobra_ky said:
DrDeath3191 said:
And the Slippery Slope argument does hold a very small amount of water: you could very easily legalize incestuous marriage if you allow homosexual marriage.
I don't see how. Incest doesn't have anything close to the level of cultural acceptance that homosexuality does.
Exactly, Incest has always been something of a taboo in nearly every culture.

And, as I said above, homosexuality has been accepted in many cultures around the world.