Normally, I'm open to debate on a matter. Save when the matter involves infringing someone else's liberties. In essence, arguing gays should not be permitted to marry is rather like arguing that I should not be able to have milk in my coffee. I do not tolerate it. I do not tolerate any infringements of the rights of me, myself, and those I care about, and since a very close and old friend of mine recently came out of the closet, that means that I do not tolerate the suggestion homosexuals should not be permitted to marry.Furburt said:Don't quite get what you mean there.Rolling Thunder said:/thread, unless anyone wishes to provoke my wrath.Furburt said:I can see no problem with any form of gay marriage or adoption.
I'd say you where a better person, but then again I'm abit of a hopeless romantic, heh.Nemu said:I'm noticing a trend in your choice of topics, JohnJacob...
OT: I'm a lesbian, why am I considered a lesser-person for wanting to be married?
ah, well then. that's remarkably consistent of you. that's also a much more reasonable argument than "well maybe they'll legalize bestiality next."Triple G said:Right. They could as well lead a normal relationship. What they're doing is just getting some lower taxes and that's an exploit. So it should be illegal.cobra_ky said:My aunt and uncle have been married for 25 years and plan on never having children. hence their marriage shouldn't be legal.Triple G said:*Sigh* You typical wanabe-tolerant know-it-all. There is a domain of definition here. Heterosexual marriage is there to back up a family with kids. Hence they are no biological offsprings in a gay relationship, gay marriage shouldn't be legal.cobra_ky said:We should ban heterosexual marriage, since that's what started this whole gay marriage debate in the first place.Triple G said:No gay marriage please. What comes next? Furry marriages recognized by the state?
I hate the institution of marriage as well, it just complicates everything even with the lower taxes, BUT people should do whatever makes them happy.Souplex said:I don't support gay marriage because I hate straight marriage as well. It takes happiness and twists it into resentment and misery. I don't want all the gay people to be as miserable as all the married straight people.
So you say, but in the Church of England, there has been alot of infighting over the allowance of gay and women priests, and their boss is having to drag them kicking and screaming into the modern era.high_castle said:Contrary to popular belief, there are religions and churches out there that don't have a problem with gay marriage. Look at the churches which have sanctioned gay priests, for one. And how many gay couples (in states recognizing their unions) have been married in churches? Plenty. So churches absolutely would allow gay marriage. And if one priest doesn't want to perform a ceremony, that's his choice. But if another does, then that's his as well.Doug said:Firstly, who else will define marriage if not the government? The churchs aren't going to allow gay marriage of their own free will, and financial issues are tied to marriage (especially if it ends in divorce). Further, in the event of death, legally reckonized marriage allows the spouse to try and keep the material and money of the dead partner, without the state or family members trying to cheat them out of it.high_castle said:I see no problem at all with gay marriage. And it's definitely not the government's place to define marriage in any way. It's interesting that the Republican party in America is supposed to be one of small government, yet it's mostly the Republicans who are pushing for a definition of marriage act. I guess big government's alright if it's in line with their line of thinking, but it's just very hypocritical to me.
As for the Republicans, it is very true - they seem to think they have the right to force other people to live the way they choose. And yet, economically, they believe one person should be allowed to fuck up a national or international economy as much as they like without consequence. Crazy, really.
Why is the poll so formally stated, I wish people would get over gay marriage, if they are happy with each other they should be able to get married, it doesn't really matter, here we are whining about something so minuscule that gets attention, we have alot better things to worry about than should we let a man and a man or woman and woman be happy together and have a government accept this.JohnJacobJingle said:Specifically, what unions should the government endorse with the title of marriage, and how should said unions be treated? Should the government try to enforce or endorse these unions? Should the government get involved at all?
My person feelings are that if you want to have a state that does not have a religious or cultural agenda, then you should get out of the business of marriage entirely, since it means such different things to such different cultural/ethnic groups, and trying to accommodate such differing values will be very difficult without having to create in effect separate justice systems for those groups...e.g. I know of some ethnicities where a form of kidnapping is considered perfectly legal by the community at large, and others where spousal abuse and even rape is tolerated by the head of the household.
Thoughts? Trying to get the opinion of a community whose views have so far been rather diverse and thoughtful...and hopefully, this will correct that.![]()
Also, if you are going to use evidence, please include a name or some kind of link so other people can see it...ty!
I mean that they can get married. What they're parading on about isn't marriage, because the legal contract calls for two adults of opposite gender. I have no problems with homosexual marriage, but I do have issue with single-sex marriage.MaxTheReaper said:I guess all those stupid parades and shit are just for show, then?DrDeath3191 said:I'd argue that there's already equality, and some people aren't happy with it. Homosexual people can marry. They just don't want to, really. Otherwise they would just shut up and get hitched already.
I don't really keep up with world issues, especially when it comes to this stuff.
It's depressingly stupid, most of the time, like that guy up there who thinks "gay marriage" leads to "furry marriage(?)," by which I assume he means legalizing beastiality, which is sort of insulting for numerous reasons.
Basically every study ever done on the subject has concluded that legalizing gay marriage would generate MILLIONS in tax income for state governments.Edzor said:The last thing the world needs is for our taxes to go in the pockets of gay people, in the form of government financial aid...
Seriously, am i the only one that thinks that this is WRONG?
I had the same question, and yes, it is clear ^o^Rolling Thunder said:Normally, I'm open to debate on a matter. Save when the matter involves infringing someone else's liberties. In essence, arguing gays should not be permitted to marry is rather like arguing that I should not be able to have milk in my coffee. I do not tolerate it. I do not tolerate any infringements of the rights of me, myself, and those I care about, and since a very close and old friend of mine recently came out of the closet, that means that I do not tolerate the suggestion homosexuals should not be permitted to marry.Furburt said:Don't quite get what you mean there.Rolling Thunder said:/thread, unless anyone wishes to provoke my wrath.Furburt said:I can see no problem with any form of gay marriage or adoption.
Hope that's clear old fellow.
They're bringing it back to voters again.Jenkins said:your about a year late buddy...
I don't see how. Incest doesn't have anything close to the level of cultural acceptance that homosexuality does.DrDeath3191 said:And the Slippery Slope argument does hold a very small amount of water: you could very easily legalize incestuous marriage if you allow homosexual marriage.
Exactly, Incest has always been something of a taboo in nearly every culture.cobra_ky said:I don't see how. Incest doesn't have anything close to the level of cultural acceptance that homosexuality does.DrDeath3191 said:And the Slippery Slope argument does hold a very small amount of water: you could very easily legalize incestuous marriage if you allow homosexual marriage.