my dad is cool, the only time hes told me off was when i said "this resteraunt is expensive"
he sorta said "arent i allowed to treat my kids?". when my ps2 broke, he went out THAT DAY and got me a slimline silver ps2. it wasnt even a birthday or anything, which was nice
my stepmum is also cool, accepting me and my brother really well when she married my dad, dispite the fact i was definitly somewhat a brat. she also does charity work, which is MAJOR cool
my actual mum is a hypocrit, one of the worst kinds of people
she hates nosy people, but when somethings wrong its her usiness to know about it and sort it out, even when EVERYONE doesnt want her to. she always looks for the most efficient outcome, ignoring emotions in the process, despite being very emotional herself
she has a lot of emotional baggage from her childhood, and spiritual baggage from her previous marriage (she cannot accept that my dad is a good man/father e.g. he says "ill rent a hotel when i visit you so no-one has to go out of their way" she says to me "he doesnt want to be in the same house as you"), which she constantly tries to get me and my brother to talk to her about, but its not my responsibility to look after her emotions, so i havent talked to her much in about a week.
an also, whenever she quotes anyone else, she puts on this really dullard voice, as if the other person is thick. she does it to me when shes quoting me!
overall, she is just not cool