Poll: School District about to Get Sued

Recommended Videos

Vykrel

New member
Feb 26, 2009
1,317
0
0
its obviously ok for students to pray in school, even faculty, alone or with anyone willing to join them. its not ok for them to force a prayer, especially for such an important ceremony.

Damon is right
 

BiscuitTrouser

Elite Member
May 19, 2008
2,860
0
41
Bobic said:
Also, wasn't the whole people should just suck it up thing my point 3 quotes ago? We're in danger of agreeing here.
Bit of sarcasm on my part. Walking into a bible belt school, leading a non Christian prayer and expecting them to suck it up is not a good plan. I was saying that asking everyone who isnt part of that group to just awkwardly stand there and deal with it wouldnt go well if they were not a majority.
 

beniki

New member
May 28, 2009
745
0
0
Lt Blasphemer said:
beniki said:
Sad. A waste of time and money. All on the emotions of a single hormonal teenager, who considers his own feelings to be of greater importance than the people around him.

This, is only sad.
It's not because of a teenager. It's because it's against the law. The teenager only pointed that out.
And is now aggressively going against the hope of people around him, with calls for a national reaction to the situation. By his words, he is 'one of three atheists in town'. He realises he is in the minority, and understands that his other classmates would like to have the prayer. And yet still won't let the few minutes of local tradition stand.

The law is there for the protection of those who cannot protect themselves. Does he really consider himself in need of protection from kind words asking for help? Is that protection worth the unhappiness of 90% of the people around him?

This is a situation born from the selfishness of the most awkward time of your life, and made problematic by hiding behind a law designed to protect government from religious control. It is sad that the kid cannot see he is being used by other people. Sad that they should try to use him like this. Sad that he cannot see how much he is hurting people. Sad that the precedent will be set against other traditions. Sad that the colour of life is washed out a little bit.

Like I said, this is only sad.
 

Bobic

New member
Nov 10, 2009
1,532
0
0
BiscuitTrouser said:
Bobic said:
Also, wasn't the whole people should just suck it up thing my point 3 quotes ago? We're in danger of agreeing here.
Bit of sarcasm on my part. Walking into a bible belt school, leading a non Christian prayer and expecting them to suck it up is not a good plan. I was saying that asking everyone who isnt part of that group to just awkwardly stand there and deal with it wouldnt go well if they were not a majority.
How about this? If the school is mature enough to let other religions have a public prayer, not just their predominant one, they get to have group prayers. If the place is full of ignorant twonks, like you seem to suggest, they get nothing.
 

Bags159

New member
Mar 11, 2011
1,250
0
0
beniki said:
Sad. A waste of time and money. All on the emotions of a single hormonal teenager, who considers his own feelings to be of greater importance than the people around him.

This, is only sad.
Yeah, upholding the law is extremely sad. Damn hormonal teenagers; why won't you think of the greater good?!?!?1
 

ragestreet

New member
Oct 17, 2008
463
0
0
Bags159 said:
beniki said:
Sad. A waste of time and money. All on the emotions of a single hormonal teenager, who considers his own feelings to be of greater importance than the people around him.

This, is only sad.
Yeah, upholding the law is extremely sad. Damn hormonal teenagers; why won't you think of the greater good?!?!?1
The greater good?!? BURN IN THE NAME OF THE EMPEFOR HERETIC!

 

beniki

New member
May 28, 2009
745
0
0
Bags159 said:
beniki said:
Sad. A waste of time and money. All on the emotions of a single hormonal teenager, who considers his own feelings to be of greater importance than the people around him.

This, is only sad.
Yeah, upholding the law is extremely sad. Damn hormonal teenagers; why won't you think of the greater good?!?!?1
Yes. Why doesn't he think about the greater good.

Laws are there for the protection of people. Is he really in need of protection from prayer?
 

Small Waves

New member
Nov 14, 2009
596
0
0
It's a public school, so no prayer of any kind should EVER be allowed. I am taking the kids side because not only is it illegal in that state, but it also violates the First Amendment. It's a double-whammy of "Do not do this shit".

He called them out on it, and look how his teachers and classmates responded. The only reason no one challenged it prior to then is because you would need to have brass balls to call out an entire school district in the Bible Belt, home to the most diehard conservatives and ruthless evangelical Protestants in the United States, if not, the world.
 

Bags159

New member
Mar 11, 2011
1,250
0
0
beniki said:
Bags159 said:
beniki said:
Sad. A waste of time and money. All on the emotions of a single hormonal teenager, who considers his own feelings to be of greater importance than the people around him.

This, is only sad.
Yeah, upholding the law is extremely sad. Damn hormonal teenagers; why won't you think of the greater good?!?!?1
Yes. Why doesn't he think about the greater good.

Laws are there for the protection of people. Is he really in need of protection from prayer?
You can't ignore a law simply because you don't believe he needs its protection. Sorry.
 

sunburst

Media Snob
Mar 19, 2010
666
0
0
beniki said:
And is now aggressively going against the hope of people around him, with calls for a national reaction to the situation. By his words, he is 'one of three atheists in town'. He realises he is in the minority, and understands that his other classmates would like to have the prayer. And yet still won't let the few minutes of local tradition stand.

The law is there for the protection of those who cannot protect themselves. Does he really consider himself in need of protection from kind words asking for help? Is that protection worth the unhappiness of 90% of the people around him?
A kid insists his school follows the law and gets ostracized for it. His loving, forgiving, Christian peers bombard his Facebook page with hatred. A teacher openly insults him. He's forced to leave the state after his own mother tries to cut him off from his biggest supporter, his older brother. But his rights don't need protecting because he's in the minority? And black people should've shut up and used the other fountain, right guys?

Some people think they can get away with anything as long as the majority agrees and they throw a "Praise Jesus!" on the end. They're wrong. Considering a girl led the congregation in the Lord's Prayer at the graduation ceremony anyways, I hope they get the hell sued out of them.

Man, why do we even have a Religion & Politics forum when stuff like this ends up in Off-Topic all the time.
 

Small Waves

New member
Nov 14, 2009
596
0
0
beniki said:
Bags159 said:
beniki said:
Sad. A waste of time and money. All on the emotions of a single hormonal teenager, who considers his own feelings to be of greater importance than the people around him.

This, is only sad.
Yeah, upholding the law is extremely sad. Damn hormonal teenagers; why won't you think of the greater good?!?!?1
Yes. Why doesn't he think about the greater good.

Laws are there for the protection of people. Is he really in need of protection from prayer?
Laws are also in place to prevent discrimination. Prayer shouldn't be seen ANYWHERE outside of private schools.
 

beniki

New member
May 28, 2009
745
0
0
Lt Blasphemer said:
beniki said:
Lt Blasphemer said:
beniki said:
Sad. A waste of time and money. All on the emotions of a single hormonal teenager, who considers his own feelings to be of greater importance than the people around him.

This, is only sad.
It's not because of a teenager. It's because it's against the law. The teenager only pointed that out.
And is now aggressively going against the hope of people around him, with calls for a national reaction to the situation. By his words, he is 'one of three atheists in town'. He realises he is in the minority, and understands that his other classmates would like to have the prayer. And yet still won't let the few minutes of local tradition stand.

The law is there for the protection of those who cannot protect themselves. Does he really consider himself in need of protection from kind words asking for help? Is that protection worth the unhappiness of 90% of the people around him?

This is a situation born from the selfishness of the most awkward time of your life, and made problematic by hiding behind a law designed to protect government from religious control. It is sad that the kid cannot see he is being used by other people. Sad that they should try to use him like this. Sad that he cannot see how much he is hurting people. Sad that the precedent will be set against other traditions. Sad that the colour of life is washed out a little bit.

Like I said, this is only sad.
There is nothing sad about enforcing the law. It doesn't matter to me what his reasoning is. The school is is in violation of the law and he was right to call them on it. The only thing that he was guilty of is standing up for himself and kind of being a jerk about it. And I do not see how this is "hurting people". It's not like they're no longer allowed to practice their religion, the school just isn't allowed to organize a religious ceremony, and righteously so.
Well, I'll set aside his reasoning then. I find his 'emotionally stressing' argument to be weak at best. I've never known anyone to be hurt by someone else asking their imaginary friend for help.

The law here is being used to go against the traditions and wishes of the community. Most of the students want it back in. It has value to the Christian students. It might not even be the prayer itself, but the tradition that has value. It not being there lessens the experience of graduation for them. They will notice it's absence and make the day less complete.

Upholding the law is a fine thing, when it is helping people. In this case, it is only hurting people, and breaking the law would mean one boy rolls his eyes for a few minutes. Is this law still worth being upheld?
 

beniki

New member
May 28, 2009
745
0
0
Bags159 said:
beniki said:
Bags159 said:
beniki said:
Sad. A waste of time and money. All on the emotions of a single hormonal teenager, who considers his own feelings to be of greater importance than the people around him.

This, is only sad.
Yeah, upholding the law is extremely sad. Damn hormonal teenagers; why won't you think of the greater good?!?!?1
Yes. Why doesn't he think about the greater good.

Laws are there for the protection of people. Is he really in need of protection from prayer?
You can't ignore a law simply because you don't believe he needs its protection. Sorry.
Why not? Laws are for the protection of people. People aren't for the protection of laws.
 

Bags159

New member
Mar 11, 2011
1,250
0
0
beniki said:
Bags159 said:
beniki said:
Bags159 said:
beniki said:
Sad. A waste of time and money. All on the emotions of a single hormonal teenager, who considers his own feelings to be of greater importance than the people around him.

This, is only sad.
Yeah, upholding the law is extremely sad. Damn hormonal teenagers; why won't you think of the greater good?!?!?1
Yes. Why doesn't he think about the greater good.

Laws are there for the protection of people. Is he really in need of protection from prayer?
You can't ignore a law simply because you don't believe he needs its protection. Sorry.
Why not? Laws are for the protection of people. People aren't for the protection of laws.
Because this is highly opinionated; I believe he needs protection, you don't. A lot of things aren't horribly objective.
 

beniki

New member
May 28, 2009
745
0
0
sunburst313 said:
beniki said:
And is now aggressively going against the hope of people around him, with calls for a national reaction to the situation. By his words, he is 'one of three atheists in town'. He realises he is in the minority, and understands that his other classmates would like to have the prayer. And yet still won't let the few minutes of local tradition stand.

The law is there for the protection of those who cannot protect themselves. Does he really consider himself in need of protection from kind words asking for help? Is that protection worth the unhappiness of 90% of the people around him?
A kid insists his school follows the law and gets ostracized for it. His loving, forgiving, Christian peers bombard his Facebook page with hatred. A teacher openly insults him. He's forced to leave the state after his own mother tries to cut him off from his biggest supporter, his older brother. But his rights don't need protecting because he's in the minority? And black people should've shut up and used the other fountain, right guys?

Some people think they can get away with anything as long as the majority agrees and they throw a "Praise Jesus!" on the end. They're wrong. Considering a girl led the congregation in the Lord's Prayer at the graduation ceremony anyways, I hope they get the hell sued out of them.

Man, why do we even have a Religion & Politics forum when stuff like this ends up in Off-Topic all the time.
I read the 'insult' from his teacher. Is it true? Did he actually have much interest in what happened on his graduation day?

And yes, it's sad how people are reacting to it. A big waste of time, and a great amount of bad feeling over nothing.

The civil rights of black people in America is an entirely separate issue. Forgive the expression, but you can't look at the things in black and white terms. In this case, it would have been a few minutes of listening to something he didn't agree with. You can't liken that to decades of slavery and persecution, and is perhaps an insult to those that have suffered because of it.

What makes them wrong? A law? Laws can be changed. If the law changes, are they still wrong? People think they can get away with anything as long as they don't break a law. Does that make it right?

And I thought we still were on topic :p
 

icaritos

New member
Apr 15, 2009
222
0
0
Char-Nobyl said:
icaritos said:
Majority rule is not always correct. There are a ton of examples that clearly illustrate that (earth is flat, zeus causes thunder, burning witchs is a-ok are just a few examples).
Okay...and? You're invoking 'slippery slope' logic if you're taking those examples and using it to call into question the validity of any majority opinion.

icaritos said:
When the founding fathers decided to make the U.S. a secular country, it wasn't out of empathy towards the non-religious but rather to protect the religious. It stands as a matter of fact that religions are mutually exclusive, that is if my god is true, yours is false. If I go to heaven, you burn in hell. By sponsoring any specific religion state wise, you deny and openly condemn any other religion that diverges from their beliefs.
Not the way I remember it. The parameters for entry into the various forms of afterlife generally have to do with morality, not with believing highly-specific things. It probably helps to follow the religion (since it generally states what those morals and values are), but I don't see the usual characterization of a kind and loving God condemning everyone who happened to be reading a slightly different version of the same general story.

icaritos said:
Saying that they should offer prayers to all religions is ridiculous, there are far too many of them to account for.
That's fortunate, because I never suggested they do that.

icaritos said:
The moment of silence that they had decided upon was by far the best solution, giving time for self-reflection and religious prayer while maintaining neutrality. However they broke that for some ridiculous rant, defying the 14th amendment.
I can't help but feel like if the kid had simply asked for something like a moment of silence, it might've actually yielded results. Structure a sound argument around it, appeal to a diversity of beliefs, etc.

Instead, he threatened the superintendent with action from the ACLU. Is it really surprising that things didn't go over well?

icaritos said:
Saying "just stay quiet and let them pray" is not a fair solution, and in fact goes against the religious freedom the American flag is so fond of proclaiming.
...wait, what? Hang on, let me get this straight: allowing others to pray out of respect for their beliefs despite not having them yourself is a violation of American religious freedom...but threatening legal action if those same people don't keep their prayers to themselves is not?
"If a man abide not in me, he is cast forth as a branch, and is withered; and men gather them, and cast them into the fire, and they are burned." John 15:6

"Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God's one and only Son. John 3:18

The disbelievers are an open enemy to you. 4:101 (Quran)

The only true faith in God's sight is Islam. Quran 3:19

A recent phenomenon in India has been the rise of Hindu fundamentalism that has led to political mobilization against Muslims. (Wikipedia on Hinduism)

That literally took me 2 min in google to find. Your theory that they aren't mutually exclusive is just downright false.

Also my original examples had nothing to do with slippery slope, i wasn't implying that allowing state religion would lead into witch burning, just that majority consensus does not equal argument validity.

Another point, the boy did in fact suggest a moment of silence, which the school was at first forced to adhere to. However they changed plans halfway and allowed to students to mount an impromptu prayer (which they rehearsed for). Here is the video of the event, you can see how the moment of silence is changed to prayer http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DYLpZIv8xFY


Religious freedom means you can have your religion, I can have my own, and the state shall not support one over the other. Allowing for the school prayer is an attack on non Christians as it validates their positions over others. The U.S. is a secular country, and as an atheist I'm frankly tired of Christians persecution protests when they aren't allowed to inject their beliefs into others personal lives.
 

SilentCom

New member
Mar 14, 2011
2,417
0
0
Bobic said:
I'd say it's ok if people in the school want to have a big group prayer, but it should be perfectly acceptable for people to sit out. Saying that no-one should pray is just as bad as saying everyone should.
I second this. Religion is not mandatory but should not be disqualified because people can't agree.

Edit: It also depends if the school is a religious school or not. A catholic school has every right to lead prayers because it is part of the school. Public schools should not lead prayers though.