Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

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BlueberryMUNCH

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ESCAPIST. Sup guys:].

Right, sex. More specifically, virginity.

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Have you had sex?
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
How many people have you slept with?
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? Do you watch porn? Regularly?
What're your views on anal sex?
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

And hey, if you haven't, why not? Is it out of choice? Why?

Okay, seriously guys, let's keep all of this mature and within forum rules, okay:]..

And as OP, it's only fair if I answer myself:
Yes, I lost it when I was 14. I'm a very jokey kind of person, and we had a good laugh with it ^_^. Was really lovely, too. Have no regrets, and yeah, it's a memory I'll always hold close to my heart.
2, and I have had sexual experiences with 4.
Absolutely fine, as long as you have no regrets.
Yes, I have. Which was probably risky business.
In my opinion, oral sex is a lot less hassle, and it can feel better on some occasions. And I don't mind giving it to girls as long as...that area is well maintained, let's say.

So there you go, and once again, let's keep this civil:].

Edit: Mkay, there's all this debate about oral sex and all that. So basically, I'll add a 'sexual encounter' option in to the poll, and the little question prompts(Y)
...and it won't let me add it in to the poll. Oh well:].


Edit2:Alsooo, please take people's feelings into account, and show respect for their morals and opinions on certain things, kay:].

ANOTHEREDIT: Blargh, sorry about my British slang. Basically, as in 'slept with', I mean had sex with, not literally sleeping with xD.

ANDAGAAAAIN:Right, to cater to our lesbian community- just keep it to first sexual experience, then. Seen a lot of debating about what 'lesbian sex' actually is, so let's keep it simple and broad:].

...><:Also, please feel free to let me know what else I should add in to this OP.

Also, this (props to Trivun, a truly swell chap.)
Finally, I have a little comment to make regarding casual sex, that may seem a little controversial, but I want to know what other people's opinions are. Not sure if it's common outside the UK, though apparently it's pretty common in the UK, but dogging is something that's seen by most of the public as a sick, vile thing that only weirdos and perverts do. Dogging, for those who don't know, is a meeting of various different people, usually with cars, at a secluded spot outdoors (often down a country lane or in empty, sheltered car parks), usually in the middle of the night so no-one happens to wander along and be offended, and then the people dogging proceed to have casual sex, mostly in the cars. Very common among gay guys, straight men, and swinger couples. I just wanted to know what other people's thoughts are on this? Personally, I have two opinions. Those who practice swinging in the daytime risk people seeing them, and often risk young kids or the elderly seeing, and that's something pretty much unforgivable. So I don't agree with that at all. But regarding proper swinging, at night, it's almost always done in places where there is almost no chance of anyone stumbling across them. It's all consensual, and there is almost zero disturbance to anyone in the area, most of whom won't even know what's happening. So as far as that's concerned, where's the problem? If people want to have sex outdoors and there's no chance that they can be seen, then surely it shouldn't be a problem, a least until someone sees them. The legal issue is pretty cloudy, because public sex in the UK is illegal if someone can see it and is offended, but dogging itself, and meeting for sex outdoors if no-one is offended, are perfectly fine. Usually the police only start arresting people if anyone starts complaining, otherwise they leave the doggers alone. So what does The Escapist think about all this?

Wow, never expected this kind of response. Maybe this is the definitive sex thread on the Escapist haha. Thanks everyone for sharing your experiences and whatnot, and keep'em coming!
Just one thing though...some people get upset by this, and it breaks my heart:/. So if you think reading this might get you down in any way, I'd advise you not to:(.
 

delet

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Nope
Nope
Nope
It works. Everyone's got a bit of lust in 'em. Why not work together to make each other feel good?
It's not unprotected if there's protection...

As for why I've not had sex yet, I've not had the opportunity to have sex yet. I'm not in any hurry; it's not my top priority.
 

Stasisesque

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Yes, over 16 under 21.
I'm not answering this one as I have friends on this site, but I'm not at double digits yet!
Absolutely fine, and fun!
I cannot see myself ever having sex without the use of a condom.
 

DanielBrown

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Have you had sex?
Yes.

How old were you when you first did?
13.

How many people have you slept with?
10+

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
I suppose I'm for it.

Would you have unprotected sex if the girl, or you, were on the pill?
I have never had protected sex at all. :$
 

WrongSprite

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Nah. I'm currently 18.

Been offered a couple of times, didn't want to.

Views on casual sex, why not, if both people want to.
 

Fozza

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Yes I have had sex.
I lost my virginity when I was 15 (Almost 16) and 15 is the legal age of sexuall intercourse in Sweden. I've slept with a total of two people, both female so that there's no missunderstanding.
I do believe that casual sex with someone outside a realtionships is wrong (Unless both parts in the relationships agrees on it.)
About the condom thing, it would depends. My girlfriend (which I have been along with since two years back) and I do not use condoms (and she uses pills) since we have agreed that it's both easier and much more pleasant without it.
 

HellsingerAngel

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Have you had sex? Yes
How old were you when you first did? Seventeen
How many people have you slept with? Three
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? It can work for a short time, anything long-term will turn too affectionate to keep it impersonal.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) I have, just to see what it felt like, with my current girlfriend. I was at least as responcible as I could be with it (asked first/made sure she was ok with it/pulled out/etc) and it was certainly worth the experience. Would I do it again? Not unless I got snipped or she got tied, because I choose to be safe about my sex.
 

Mr Montmorency

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No, 17.

I've never been asked or remotely considered as a sexual or romantic possibility for anyone in my entire life.

This has turned me into a bitter, agoraphobic bastard with a superiority complex.

Why lie?
 

Leg End

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1. No.
2. Read Above.
3. Read Above.
4. When the baby comes, get ready.
5. Meh.

Reason why? My attraction isn't really considered... acceptable.
 

Canadamus Prime

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No
n/a
n/a
and I'd rather not get into it. Suffice it to say that I think sex is much too important to go having with just anyone.
Although not a day goes by that I don't wonder what it feels like...
 

Nimcha

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5, I think
Why not, I've done it myself. I see a distinction between having sex out of love and just out of pure lust.
Never used any sort of birth control, but I can't get pregnant anyway.
 

chromewarriorXIII

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I have not had sex (I'm 17). Simply because I don't feel like having sex and it doesn't interest me.

I'm not personally for casual sex but if it works for others than good for them.

Not really sure. I guess it would all depend on how responsible I was feeling as to whether or not I would use protection.
 

FamoFunk

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Have you had sex? Yes
How old were you when you first did? 14
How many people have you slept with? Around 20
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? I'm all for it, infact I enjoy it and loved have a few "Friends with benifits" or "Fuck buddies"
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) As a Female, I would only have sex without a condom (and on birth control myself) in relationships, otherwise it's condom or no sex.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about? I'm all for sex and many sexual partners, obviously. If it's always done safe and I would never (and never have) put myself into a stupid situation (i.e unprotected sex and STI) I also respect those who want to wait til a certain age/relationship/marraige.
 

yoyo13rom

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BlueberryMUNCH said:
ESCAPIST. Sup guys:].
Have you had sex?
How old were you when you first did?
How many people have you slept with?
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
First of all I must reply with your "Sup guys" whit a "Alright. Sup, dude!"
Now some answers:

No.
I'll certainly be over 20.
Currently 0.

I'm not judgmental or anything regarding casual sex, but it seems to me that it is chemically impossible to keep it casual. I mean imo, after having sex with someone you get chemically attached to that person, even though you may not have any prior feelings.

Sex without a condom: no way dude(STDS).
And that's about all I kinda have to say on the subject.