Nope and don't have too much interest. If the opportunity presents itself I would go for it, but the amount of time some guys spend JUST to get laid is pretty sad.
Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.
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Have you had sex? Yes.
How old were you when you first did? Fifteen.
How many people have you slept with? I am not sure
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? I think it is a dangerous game to play, I was told when I was in my early teens " Don't have sex with any girl you would not want to marry" sounds like good advice to me. Works both ways also.
Would you have unprotected sex if the girl, or you, were on the pill? Even if she's on the pill I would use a condom unless I was married to her and didn't care if she got pregnant. Keep safe, kids!
...Anything else you'd like to talk about? Yes. Why do kids today think they know what true love is at 13 14 15 and feel they have to have sex protected or not., Unfortunately sometimes end up adding to the world population
How old were you when you first did? Fifteen.
How many people have you slept with? I am not sure
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? I think it is a dangerous game to play, I was told when I was in my early teens " Don't have sex with any girl you would not want to marry" sounds like good advice to me. Works both ways also.
Would you have unprotected sex if the girl, or you, were on the pill? Even if she's on the pill I would use a condom unless I was married to her and didn't care if she got pregnant. Keep safe, kids!
...Anything else you'd like to talk about? Yes. Why do kids today think they know what true love is at 13 14 15 and feel they have to have sex protected or not., Unfortunately sometimes end up adding to the world population
1. No
2. N/A
3. N/A
4. I have no problem with other people having casual sex, but it's not something I would agree with.
5. No way. I wouldn't even consider sex without some form of protection. It's just not worth it.
I'm 23, still a virgin and in no hurry to have sex at all. To me, sex is the ultimate expression of your love for one person. I will only consider having sex with someone when I know I love them and it's not just lust for them.
This may sound a little extreme to some people but it honestly disturbs me how casual some people can be towards sex. Sure, it's your body, as long as you both consent, what's the problem? But just take a step back and look at what you're doing... this sort of act takes such trust and mutual respect between two people, something you won't get by sleeping with any old person. Maybe I'm old fashioned, call me mad if you like, but I really think the value of sex has been totally undermined and just doesn't mean anything any more.
I love my girlfriend, I'm prepared to commit myself to her for the rest of my life. If the opportunity to have sex presents itself, I'm ready to make that step. But untill then, I'm perfectly happy with what I have.
2. N/A
3. N/A
4. I have no problem with other people having casual sex, but it's not something I would agree with.
5. No way. I wouldn't even consider sex without some form of protection. It's just not worth it.
I'm 23, still a virgin and in no hurry to have sex at all. To me, sex is the ultimate expression of your love for one person. I will only consider having sex with someone when I know I love them and it's not just lust for them.
This may sound a little extreme to some people but it honestly disturbs me how casual some people can be towards sex. Sure, it's your body, as long as you both consent, what's the problem? But just take a step back and look at what you're doing... this sort of act takes such trust and mutual respect between two people, something you won't get by sleeping with any old person. Maybe I'm old fashioned, call me mad if you like, but I really think the value of sex has been totally undermined and just doesn't mean anything any more.
I love my girlfriend, I'm prepared to commit myself to her for the rest of my life. If the opportunity to have sex presents itself, I'm ready to make that step. But untill then, I'm perfectly happy with what I have.
Sorry to be picky... but how would you know, before having casual sex, that you would not regret it later? Surely that is what regret is, wishing you had not gone through with something. I know that there would be instances where you will KNOW that you'll regret it later on... but you can't possibly predict every outcome.BlueberryMUNCH said:
1)No, and I am 17.
2 & 3)Never really been majorly interested. Have had other things to deal with.
4)If you think casual sex is something you want, go for it. Not really my bussiness medeling in others affairs. (No pun intended.)
5)I would double up just to be safe.
2 & 3)Never really been majorly interested. Have had other things to deal with.
4)If you think casual sex is something you want, go for it. Not really my bussiness medeling in others affairs. (No pun intended.)
5)I would double up just to be safe.
So lonely.
Horrible track record with females. First one I actually noticed at the grand old age of 20, I never had the balls to talk to.
Next one I chatted up over the net turned out to be a man.
Horrible track record with females. First one I actually noticed at the grand old age of 20, I never had the balls to talk to.
Next one I chatted up over the net turned out to be a man.
Yes
15
8
So long as contraception is used and both parties are conseting I see no problem.
Yes, if they are my partner and I trust them.
15
8
So long as contraception is used and both parties are conseting I see no problem.
Yes, if they are my partner and I trust them.
YesBlueberryMUNCH said:
Depending on whether you count oral for males, 18 or 20
5. To varying degrees, but these five can be undoubtedly called "slept with".
I don't see myself ever having casual sex, but I have no fundamental objections to it. For myself - why bother if you have your hand.
Umm, probably maybe. Since it's anyway going to be my girlfriend/fiance/wife, getting pregnant might be inconvenient, but not a crisis.
woo-hoo! a sexual history quiz!
...I just wish more people, specifically women, thought along those lines...
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what do I win?
Yep.BlueberryMUNCH said:
17.BlueberryMUNCH said:
More than I can remember... but I can remember 12.BlueberryMUNCH said:
So long as all involved agree that it's casual, it's the best way to keep oneself satisfied.BlueberryMUNCH said:
...I just wish more people, specifically women, thought along those lines...
Nope. Condom or I'm gone.BlueberryMUNCH said:
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what do I win?
So is tribadism sexual intercourse, and why is it different from oral sex? Digital penetration, is that intercourse or not?Nimcha said:
I am a bit confused as to where your distinction lies.
Nah, I haven't had sex yet. Came close a few times, but never managed. Just isn't one of my higher priorities right now, plus I have a slight fear of intimacy.
You know, I totally had the exact same feelings as you. I thought I knew what love was, and thought sex was something very sacred and stuff. But when I had my heart broken, *sobstory* all that kinda went out the window. I have to admit though, the time I did engage in 'casual sex', it didn't feel 1/10th as good, or special, as when I did with my ex.Proverbial Jon said:
And I just feel that, if the opportunity to have casual sex presents itself, you should take a step back and make sure you want to go through with it. But...uh *brainfrazzle* I get what you're saying I think, and I suppose you're right.
Have you had sex?
Yes
How old were you when you first did?
18
How many people have you slept with?
8
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
No problem with other people doing it. I do it as well, but it bothers me a bit.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
I have, but always with the benefit of current AIDS/STD tests (God bless the army for that). Without those test, hell no.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
Pro Tip: Remember, its not rape if you yell 'Surprise!'
Pro Tip: Ignore the above Pro Tip
Yes
How old were you when you first did?
18
How many people have you slept with?
8
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
No problem with other people doing it. I do it as well, but it bothers me a bit.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
I have, but always with the benefit of current AIDS/STD tests (God bless the army for that). Without those test, hell no.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
Pro Tip: Remember, its not rape if you yell 'Surprise!'
Pro Tip: Ignore the above Pro Tip
Have I had sex? No
How old am I? 15
Casual sex? I don't see a problem with it
No condom? Only if we both had been tested and I can trust her. Probably not though.
EDIT: Wohoo! According to the internetz I might have sex this year! /sarcasm
How old am I? 15
Casual sex? I don't see a problem with it
No condom? Only if we both had been tested and I can trust her. Probably not though.
EDIT: Wohoo! According to the internetz I might have sex this year! /sarcasm