Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[Kunzer]

Have you had sex?
How old were you when you first did?
How many people have you slept with?
What are your views on 'casual sex'
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill?

Yes I have had sex.

I was 22 when I first had sex.

Just the one, but I am still with her. Have been for almost three years.

Considering that I am currently in a dedicated relationship, anything I say would be highly biased. That being said, I think 9/10 people can't. That last 1 person who can is a very cold, sad person. I wouldn't want to be that person.

I don't wear protection with my girlfriend because she is on the NuvaRing. I also happen to know for a medical fact that she is clean. Otherwise? I prefer Crown Skin-Less Skin condoms, they are the pink ones. They are awesome.

 

[ham and red bull]

Have you had sex?

Yes

How old were you when you first did?

18

How many people have you slept with?

8

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?

No problem with other people doing it. I do it as well, but it bothers me a bit.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)

I have, but always with the benefit of current AIDS/STD tests (God bless the army for that). Without those test, hell no.

...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

Pro Tip: Remember, its not rape if you yell 'Surprise!'
Pro Tip: Ignore the above Pro Tip

Well, according to the "rape" case against the wikileaks guy, it's even rape if she doesn't say: "yes"! Btw that made me lol! +1

 

[Nigh Invulnerable]

I was over 21 and married my first time. She's the only person I've been with, and to prove it, here's a picture of our son:

Spoiler

EDIT: He's some kind of super baby too, since we were using spermicide with a condom that didn't noticeably break. We're 90% sure of the day he was conceived.

 

[Nimcha]

Not sexual intercourse, isit?

Where does that leave lesbians?

Hah, as if oral sex is the only thing we do.

So is tribadism sexual intercourse, and why is it different from oral sex? Digital penetration, is that intercourse or not?

I am a bit confused as to where your distinction lies.

I don't really care all that much. I know most people can't imagine sex without a penis, but trust me it's possible.

 

[Hiikuro]

Have you had sex?
How old were you when you first did?
How many people have you slept with?
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

And hey, if you haven't, why not? Is it out of choice? Why?

1,2,3) I've never had sex.

4) I don't have a problem with it, but I wouldn't want to myself. Though that is HIGHLY dependent on my actual relationship with the girl (as in, how close I am to her in the first place). My sexual lust is significantly satisfied by pornography and the like, so I rather regard sex as something that is more in the interest of coming closer to a person I love. In a way celebrating an emotional connection.

5) I wouldn't mind, but I'd prefer to be safe and use a condom, less problems that way.

7) I haven't because I've never had the opportunity. Considering I've never had a proper girlfriend or in any way a deeper emotional connection with anyone it isn't surprising. It is not in any way by choice. One of my primary desires is getting such a connection, which would also inevitably entail sex.

 

[Nigh Invulnerable]

Not sexual intercourse, isit?

Where does that leave lesbians?

Hah, as if oral sex is the only thing we do.

So is tribadism sexual intercourse, and why is it different from oral sex? Digital penetration, is that intercourse or not?

I am a bit confused as to where your distinction lies.

I don't really care all that much. I know most people can't imagine sex without a penis, but trust me it's possible.

I can imagine sex without a penis, no problem...What?

 

[Verp]

I'm 23 and haven't had sex and I have no intention to, either. But, I refuse to vote 'no' because the word is followed by an unhappy emoticon. I'm not unhappy about it.

 

[Nimcha]

Not sexual intercourse, isit?

Where does that leave lesbians?

Hah, as if oral sex is the only thing we do.

So is tribadism sexual intercourse, and why is it different from oral sex? Digital penetration, is that intercourse or not?

I am a bit confused as to where your distinction lies.

I don't really care all that much. I know most people can't imagine sex without a penis, but trust me it's possible.

I can imagine sex without a penis, no problem...What?

Good for you.

 

[Drakane]

Have I had sex: yes
1st time: 16ish? I think... really wasn't a big deal to me so I don't really remember
# of partners: I'll ball park it at 8-10
no condom sex: never w/ a random, and only a couple times even when my gf was on the pill, double protection is better then only 1.
casual sex: had it several times, "Sex without love is a meaningless activity, but as far as meaningless activities go, it's one of the best." My current gf and I started as friends w/ benes.

 

[mrdude2010]

Have you had sex? - yes

How old were you when you first did? - 14

How many people have you slept with? - 7

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? - i don't like it, i prefer to have some sort of emotional attachment with the person i'm having sex with

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)- have done, feels good, makes me nervous sometimes though

 

[Stasisesque]

Not sexual intercourse, isit?

Where does that leave lesbians?

Hah, as if oral sex is the only thing we do.

So is tribadism sexual intercourse, and why is it different from oral sex? Digital penetration, is that intercourse or not?

I am a bit confused as to where your distinction lies.

I don't really care all that much. I know most people can't imagine sex without a penis, but trust me it's possible.

I know... tribadism is scissoring, no penis involved. It just becomes tricky to know where to draw the line on what is and what is not sexual intercourse, especially as over the years the term has broadened to incorporate oral sex, anal sex, fingering, tribadism, frotting and anything I might've missed.

Personally, I'd include them all (though I didn't in my original answer, I'd like to maintain some dignity).

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Have you had sex?
How old were you when you first did?
How many people have you slept with?
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Would you have sex without a condom if you were on the pill?

Had sex with a girlfriend at 17; with a boyfriend at 18.

I've had sex with 11 different people.

I enjoy casual sex. Four of the 11 above were in a relationship - the rest were causal.

I was on the pill a few years ago - I didn't bother with condoms while I was on the pill, but I knew the guys I slept with then well enough to know that they weren't carrying any diseases (either because of their fairly brief sexual histories, or because they'd been tested, or both).

 

[SuperSuperSuperGuy]

I am fifteen and I have never had sex, and I don't intend to in the near future. In fact, losing my virginity is not something that's on my list of things to do before I die. This is partly by choice, but also partly not. To elaborate, the idea of having sex just makes me want to say "no, thanks." It's just something that turns me off. It's always been a repulsive idea. Not disgusting, just repulsive.

 

[Drakane]

I'm 23 and haven't had sex and I have no intention to, either. But, I refuse to vote 'no' because the word is followed by an unhappy emoticon. I'm not unhappy about it.

I think thats what the Nah, not yet is for. As in No I haven't and I really don't care or am actively perusing it... the No is for the ppl wanting it and not getting it.

 

[Nimcha]

Not sexual intercourse, isit?

Where does that leave lesbians?

Hah, as if oral sex is the only thing we do.

So is tribadism sexual intercourse, and why is it different from oral sex? Digital penetration, is that intercourse or not?

I am a bit confused as to where your distinction lies.

I don't really care all that much. I know most people can't imagine sex without a penis, but trust me it's possible.

I know... tribadism is scissoring, no penis involved. It just becomes tricky to know where to draw the line on what is and what is not sexual intercourse, especially as over the years the term has broadened to incorporate oral sex, anal sex, fingering, tribadism, frotting and anything I might've missed.

Personally, I'd include them all (though I didn't in my original answer, I'd like to maintain some dignity).

Yeah, I agree with that. I'd say anyone can draw the line wherever they want as far as counting how many people you've been with goes.

Also, scissoring is really uncomfortable. For me anyway :<

 

[Xifel]

Have you had sex?
Yes

How old were you when you first did?
19

How many people have you slept with?
5

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
OK, as long everone in it is OK with it. Also within boundries, not sleeping with hundres of different partners. Common sense.


Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
No, not worth the risk. Also I only met one girl that didn't take pills. It's pretty standard in my country.

Pointless trivia:
I was promoted to Corpral and had tossed my first handgranade before the first time I had sex.

 

[CaptainKoala]

Does oral count?
And is oral even good compared to regular?

 

[Seraniel]

Have you had sex?
yes

How old were you when you first did?
17.

How many people have you slept with?
2

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
i dunno i never thought about it. i myself wouldnt do it but i dont realy care if others do.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill).
NO

 

[SageRuffin]

Simply put, I was all of 13 and fresh out of 8th grade. I was more than well aware of the potential risks.