Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[Webb5432]

Yes.
I lost it at age 17.
I've slept with 2 women.
I don't believe in casual sex, because my two were just that. I find it wrong because what happens if there is a pregnancy scare? You're stuck with a strong bond with someone you barely know (in most cases).
I would wear a condom even if she was on the pill. I prefer safe than sorry.

 

[Dags90]

Moral compasses? What does that mean?

And how is a compass strong? It makes as much sense as a fast moral compass. Sure it sounds kind of cool but it has no real meaning other than the implicit "I have the right morals."

 

[Dags90]

Ew double post.

 

[Brandon237]

Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

The pill is statistically worse at keeping your junk from growing warts and discharging pus.

When all is considered, condom beats pill every fucking time (And Pill+Condom rules the universe).

But I'm the sort of person who would only sleep with someone I REALLY Trusted, so for me that would not be a problem. I suppose for someone with a different mindset yes, condom over pill, but no-one's exactly the same an different things are priority with different lifestyles.

 

[The Stonker]

Well, I have had a sexual experience but not sex.
Also I have a irrational fear of intimacy,sex in general and love. I want some hot steamy love when I will make them in the lab for the first time.

 

[trooperpaul]

No, 17.

I've never been asked or remotely considered as a sexual or romantic possibility for anyone in my entire life.

This has turned me into a bitter, agoraphobic bastard with a superiority complex.

Why lie?

As above.

 

[DSEZ]

yes
15 1/2
2
Go for it just dont get her pregnant
hell no im not risking it

 

[Brandon237]

Moral compasses? What does that mean?

And how is a compass strong? It makes as much sense as a fast moral compass. Sure it sounds kind of cool but it has no real meaning other than the implicit "I have the right morals."

Okay... I have strict morals... if that is a better way to put it.

I really should just kill that post.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Yeah, I agree with that. I'd say anyone can draw the line wherever they want as far as counting how many people you've been with goes.

Also, scissoring is really uncomfortable. For me anyway :<

Does oral count?
And is oral even good compared to regular?

First off, yes, I think oral should count. I wasn't sure either when I answered, so I gave two different ages, but I think now that I should have just said 17.

Also, on comfort, I really think both of those techniques depend greatly on one's compatability with their partner. Not just emotional either - I'm talking physical compatability, the shape of you and your partner's various bits, technique, and angle.

I have enjoyed scissoring. At other times, it is uncomfortable and does nothing for me. Just depends on the person and angle and stuff.

As for oral, it REALLY depends on the person, their technique (and even technique that's good on one person may not work for someone else). I've had some guys and girls tell me I'm really great at oral. I also had a boyfriend who asked me to stop because it was uncomfortable and doing nothing for him. And while I've never had a girlfriend say that, I have had one tell me that she doesn't really like oral sex. So... yeah, it really varies a lot from person to person.

 

[Sexual Harassment Panda]

Yep.
19.
3.
Fine as long as you're considering potential consequences.
Have, wouldn't again without being in a commited relationship.

I don't have sex drive. In the words of Louis CK "I have sex...sit in the car and hope someone gets in every now and then".

 

[Brandon237]

Haven't had sex, I'm only 15 and my gf and I have strong moral compasses...
That should explain the next few answers.
I tend to automatically think less of people who do have casual sex... I don't like the idea.
Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

What's immoral about sex with the person you love?

I'm only 15, it would just feel wrong, not at the time But afterwards. And we don't really feel any compulsion to do it at this time either, just making out leaves us a more than a little starry-eyed as is. So all is good...

The average boy nowadays has sex at 15. There's more to a relationship than being "starry eyed", and what kind of kid doesn't want to get his goeff off? Do you get your relieve from online videos?

I'm far from normal.
And I would feel guilty as sin if I did do it at this age.
And no, to most peoples shock and horror I don't watch porn.

 

[Coraxian]

Yes
Age 19
How many 10 (I can't understand how some people seem to lose count)
Casual: I used to have these white knight ideas of Love and sex and whatnot. Sex is indeed far better in a relationship, but if all parties are on the same page, casual sex can be good in its own right.
Without a condom? Yes. Sometimes there just isn't enough blood in you to make sound decisions. Even though I always tried, I have failed a couple of times. Fortunatly without consequences.

 

[Royta]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Nope. Had a chance with a drunken girl who wanted to 'toy around'. But I was still sober enough after all those beers to resist her.

Have you had sex?
Nope.

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
If you have no desire to have a relationship, by all means screw around as long as you don't go around breaking hearts. If i'd do such a thing, i'd make pretty darn sure the girl on the recieving end would know it was just a casual thing, nothing serious.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
I might if we were married and I knew we were both clean. I'm not fond on taking chances if the only reward is saving a few bucks and maybe 10% extra pleasure.

And hey, if you haven't, why not? Is it out of choice? Why?
Mostly couple of reasons. I always stook to the shadows when I was a kid then finally got myself in a spotlight and got some girlfriends.
Turned out I started missing the shadows and hated the attention and the obligation of being with someone. I always pictured myself as a serious relationship guy, but truthfully I'm not. I'm just to happy with being alone. Pair with me not wanting to lose my virginity on a one night stand (even though I'm not a relationships guy) and you have a 21 year old without sex.

^that made 100% sense when I typed it. 0% sense when I reread it. oh well.

 

[ramboondiea]

Have you had sex? Yes.

How old were you when you first did? sixteen.

How many people have you slept with? six.

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? basically my only method of sex,

Would you have unprotected sex if the girl, or you, were on the pill? i make it a strict policy to always wrap-up, only one incident of going bare and its not something im planning on risking again

Anything else you'd like to talk about? i think you should really expand the thread to include things that fall short of actually sex

 

[Verp]

I'm 23 and haven't had sex and I have no intention to, either. But, I refuse to vote 'no' because the word is followed by an unhappy emoticon. I'm not unhappy about it.

I think thats what the Nah, not yet is for. As in No I haven't and I really don't care or am actively perusing it... the No is for the ppl wanting it and not getting it.

"Yet" implies that you're pursuing or at least open to sex. Which I'm not. I mean, does this conversation sound normal to you?

"Have you ever stood on a rooftop and sniped down dozens of innocent civilians?"

"Nah, not yet."

 

[DefunctTheory]

Pill is statistically better at preventing pregnancy than wearing condoms... 'nuff said.

The pill is statistically worse at keeping your junk from growing warts and discharging pus.

When all is considered, condom beats pill every fucking time (And Pill+Condom rules the universe).

But I'm the sort of person who would only sleep with someone I REALLY Trusted, so for me that would not be a problem. I suppose for someone with a different mindset yes, condom over pill, but no-one's exactly the same an different things are priority with different lifestyles.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_papillomavirus

HPV - A disease everyone has. Remember this: You could give a girl CANCER because you didn't know you had that type of HPV.

But, of course, you TRUST these girls. So viral infections will respect that.

Of course, your only 15. Your moral compass is no where near fully developed yet (Yes, I know, you are a perfect person now and will never change. Bravo). I suggest you get into a habit of using a condom now, before you realize sex CAN just be sex and start drinking too much around women of questionable character. A condom reflex could potentially save your life at that point.

 

[taciturnCandid]

Have you had sex? yes
How old were you when you first did? 19
How many people have you slept with? 2
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? I think it takes a certain person to be able to have casual sex. One who doesn't get emotional bonds easily from sexual acts. I am one of those people. I can get attached, but it takes a while. Even then, other things are more important to attachment
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) I wouldn't have sex with a girl period. But as for unprotected sex? Not worth the risk of STDs

 

[EeveeElectro]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Yes... I'm in a long term relationship and tingggg.
Have you had sex?
Yes.
How old were you when you first did?
Uhh... 14. Don't judge me.
How many people have you slept with?
3
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Each to their own, although I'm not for it. I want a relationship and I've been used as a "fuck buddy" when I wanted him to be my boyfriend. Doesn't do much for the confidence.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
I'm on the pill and me and my boyfriend don't use condoms. I made sure we both got checked out before we started having sex without condoms. If you're thinking of doing the same, make sure you both get checked out.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
Don't feel pressure to lose your virginity. Don't have sex with the first person who looks at you because they might not be the one you want to give your virginity to, and when you do find that special someone it's too late. If your friends bully you about being a virgin, find new friends.
Just because you haven't had a sexual encounter in the first couple of decades of your life, doesn't mean you'll die a virgin, unless of course you're not too fond about the thought of sex, stand by your beliefs.

Take it from me, because I would do anything to turn back time and not throw my virginity away to that prick, and save it for my current boyfriend.

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

Reading through the posts and doing a bucketload of edits trying to expand, baaaaaaaaah! XD.